First, I think it has something to do with mobile phones. Now the network is relatively developed, and there are many softwares for chatting and making friends. Now you can shake it when you are bored, or you feel particularly uncomfortable. If no one complains, you can find a netizen online, and sometimes it will lead to divorce if you talk about your feelings after a long time.
Second, going out to work is also the key to divorce, because now many rural couples are men going out to work, and women are taking care of their children and parents at home. Some see it twice a year, others only once a year. After a long time, their feelings will fade. Some people have changed their minds after working outside for a long time. Others work outside, like the outside world for a long time and don't want to go back to the countryside.
The third reason is that we are open-minded The post-80s and post-90s will have a clearer thinking and understanding of their own self-worth and social value, which is much better than the lost post-70s or the ignorant post-60s. After all, their era only allows them to live a hard life, and I am afraid they have no time to think about their own spirit or soul.
People are born to be happy, not to be miserable. On the contrary, more and more women dare to divorce voluntarily, which is not caused by feminism, but a sign that women can be independent in thought and emotion under the consciousness of equality between men and women.
Once upon a time, our previous generation, women born after 60 s and 70 s, mostly chose to endure if they were dissatisfied with their marriage; Behind this forbearance, part of it is to sacrifice oneself for the family and children, but the truth behind it is probably more because I dare not divorce, afraid to face life after divorce, or afraid to bear secular gossip.
Times are changing, people are more tolerant now, and they are no longer so discriminating against divorced women. Some women with strong self-awareness will try to end the failed marriage after their efforts are ineffective if their marriage is unhappy. After all, no matter how the times change, women will always pay more attention to marriage and family than men, which is beyond doubt; No one wants to end their marriage easily unless they have to.
Is there a man who doesn't file for divorce great?
They don't care about marriage, and even most of them go home and beat their wives while raising lovers outside. They are just too lazy to divorce and don't care about the "sanctity" of marriage. On the contrary, most divorced women care about marriage, because they care, so they can't stand it; I want to end the wrong marriage, because I still yearn for marriage and love.
Therefore, it is probably wrong to say that "in 20 or 30 years, the history of China will be in the hands of these rising women". What kind of people are they? We haven't had time to weigh it carefully. ”？ If the history of China is really handed over to these rising women in 20 or 30 years, it can only prove that women's intelligence, independence and resilience have surpassed men's slackness, weakness and ignorance.
The post-80s and post-90s really advocate the publicity of individuality and encourage everyone to play their own unique side. So there is no common theme, but it is more unique and has its own value. Is there something wrong? Those unmarried men and women are aware of the responsibilities of marriage and family, especially in the vast rural areas. Many young boys and girls get married and have children at a young age, and then divorce when they are older. Realizing that the two sides are not harmonious will lead to a soaring divorce rate. This awakening divorce is not a bad thing, but if it can be prevented before they get married.
In fact, it is not easy for two people to be together, and they will not choose divorce unless they have to. Marriage needs two people to run it together. When two people are together, they should tolerate, understand and respect each other. Couples and married couples who want to be together must do it and cherish it.