2. Marriage must be down-to-earth and plain, plain can last for a long time, and light can last for a long time, but plain doesn't mean tasteless, and light doesn't mean completely calm. Otherwise, it is the other extreme of marriage, another dead corner of marriage, and blandness is the biggest fatal wound of marriage.
3. The relationship between husband and wife should be lasting. In addition to the premise of mutual loyalty and sincerity, we should remember two words: love can be short and beautiful, such as lightning, but marriage must be as plain as running water. Simplicity is the most mature beauty, and simplicity is the richest elegance. Condensed into two words: simple.
Marriage needs mutual help. Don't leave anyone to go alone. No one can survive the storm in the desert without mutual care. Love needs the management of two people. Don't be selfish enough to drink all the nectar by yourself. Without food and water, no one can stand a long journey.
A well-run marriage is a honey pot, and a badly-run marriage is a pit of fire at best. What's wrong with a fire pit as long as it's cooked comfortably? Warm!
6. There are no unhappy marriages, only unhappy couples. Couples walk into the marriage hall with good hopes for marriage, but finally they are disappointed, so they complain about marriage and say that marriage is the grave of love. In fact, they are really to blame.
7. Suspicion is the biggest hidden danger of marriage.
8. Suspicion is a cancer in marriage. Smart couples know how to work together to solve it skillfully. The suspected party should do a good job, and the suspected party should trust and let go, understand each other, trust each other and be loyal to each other, reduce misunderstandings, strengthen communication, and avoid ruining beautiful feelings and happy marriages because of doubts.
9. Marriage is a war between men and women for the right to speak and control economic power.
10. Love is a matter for two people and has nothing to do with marriage. Marriage is a social matter and has nothing to do with love. You can get married with or without love. I hope you can get married without love. Marriage is the product of restraining men, and civilization always takes consciousness as the premise and restraint as the purpose. Men have always been irresponsible for great reproduction, except birds.
1 1. Marriage is a tragedy, but the audience regards it as a comedy. No one likes tragedy, but everyone must get married. Everything begins with love and ends with marriage.
12. Love always promises a lifetime, and love at first sight is often equal to growing old together. It never occurred to me that the highest stage of love is hate. Passion always cools down, and so does love. When love enters marriage, the previous enthusiasm for lovers cools down with time, cools down into doubts about love, and then leaves angrily carelessly. This is that love begins with comedy, marriage ends with tragedy, and everyone becomes the protagonist in the novel. Both the original love and the present hate seem to be wrong. In fact, love is right The mistake is that we read the beautiful poem of marriage backwards. I only saw him hesitate, but I didn't see the sentence upside down.
13. In marriage, women are wives, mothers and daughters. Men are husbands, fathers, sons, friends, lovers and so on. This is unnecessary. Love means loving him or her and caring for him or her. It's simple and complicated.
14. The charm of love often lies in men, and the wisdom of marriage is often in the hands of women. A good man's obsession with a woman who is incompatible with him will always make some "famous flowers taken" regret, narcissism and jealousy-do they have something in common? Do they have love? Love needs no mouth.
15. What is marriage for love? Is it the port? Is it a siege? Or the grave? No matter what it is, most of us have fallen into this quagmire or are falling into it. You can't extricate yourself from it. Love and hate, pain and laughter are two groups of antonyms, but in marriage, they are not only contradictory, but also inseparable twin sisters. Who can separate them? Is it you or me?
16. Two people in marriage are like a pair of tourists walking in the desert. At the beginning, I felt the continuous fine sand under my feet, carrying a basin full of happiness and full of passion for realizing my dream. Slowly, after a long time, I walked away. The original passion has been obliterated by the cruelty of the desert and replaced by physical and mental exhaustion. When I looked up again, the end of the desert was still far away, and the way back had disappeared. I suddenly realized that my original dream was not necessarily beautiful.