Is the success rate of blind date high

What does blind date mean? If you want a high success rate of blind date, you must first make clear several kinds of psychology in your mind, so as to ensure that you will not be decadent after the blind date fails. Summing up experience and returning the previous blind date mood to zero is the beginning of a successful blind date. These psychological preparations are: blind date does not mean getting married immediately; The significance of blind date is that we get to know each other with the will to get married; In other words, blind date is just a speed match. As for whether two people have a good impression on each other or not, it is unknown whether they can establish feelings. This requires not only two people to get to know each other actively, but also two people to have a good impression on each other. Be mentally prepared and act quickly! Worrying about hesitation is not the right way to date! The success rate of conditional blind date is relatively high, whether it is to participate in blind date activities or through the introduction of family, relatives, colleagues and friends, it is a blind date. Some people go to blind date with conditions, and many people come to blind date with the mentality of watching fate. They think they can say anything just by looking at it first. Which of these two methods has a higher success rate? The counselor of a psychological counseling center in Guilin cited two different examples he met. There is a 32-year-old divorced woman who doesn't have a car in Guilin, but she bought a house and is still paying the mortgage. The conditions of her blind date are very clear. As a civil servant, she also wants to find a civil servant or a doctor. Every blind date, she will ask if the other person is a civil servant or a doctor. As long as there is, she will come to meet. After about three blind dates, she married a doctor. Her goal was clear, and then the others relaxed. Age, height and looks, as long as it's passable. There is also a 26-year-old girl who always says that she didn't ask for it, but she has been dating for eight times. Every time she comes back from a blind date, she always finds fault with her husband, too short, too dark, too small, too thin, with bad teeth and tongue, unable to dress up and always finding fault. This aimless blind date takes too long and the effect is not good. In his view, it seems to be a blind date with the idea of watching the fun and taking chances, but such a person is actually eager to meet the right person, otherwise who will take the time to attend the blind date? Those who have the conditions to go on blind dates are often easy to find the right person. Tang Hang said: "I have my own conditions, similar to girls who like to wear glasses. Well, I won't talk directly when I meet a girl who doesn't wear glasses. Only girls with glasses are willing to spend more time communicating. After all, the time cost of blind date is there. You can only communicate with one girl at a time. If you choose A, you will lose the time to communicate with B. At the same time, if there are no conditions, such as you don't have any requirements, look at your eyes and get married. 100% takes a long time. " Tang Hang thinks that anyone who has no conditions can accept anything, which reminds him of eating Guilin rice noodles. Some people make it clear that beef is enough, while others are casual. In this way, people who want to eat beef will be happy, and whatever they want to eat will be less happy than before. They always feel that something is missing, which is the lack of self-knowledge of their own tastes. Therefore, it is suggested that in blind date, we should first have self-knowledge and have a comprehensive understanding of our own requirements, whether the person we like has long hair or short hair, wears glasses or not, or how it is at work. These are hard indicators. After meeting these conditions that we like, the others can be coordinated, so going on blind date is a time-saving behavior. Some suggestions on blind date between men and women 1, blind date, it is better to have parents through blind date and someone to help you first, which is better than yourself. People should have confidence, which is not contradictory to trusting others. 2, blind date, it must be screened first. Maybe you don't think it's appropriate, others think it's appropriate. From this perspective, you can also understand your position in the eyes of others. 3, blind date, let nature take its course, feel appropriate, and then continue to talk; If you feel inappropriate, express it euphemistically. In short, thank others for their concern for you! It is actually very difficult for people to know themselves, but you can know yourself from the side through the objects that others find for you. There is nothing to be ashamed of when you find someone, find someone, and finally find someone that suits you. If you are lucky enough to meet someone who suits you, isn't life very lucky? Is the blind date successful? When we first met, we just got to know each other. Male compatriots should not have too many thoughts. Of course, there are many ways to successfully catch up with your sweetheart through blind date. Summarize several steps: 1. Build a sense of connection. The first mask is always accompanied by an introducer. Let's choose a quiet place to sit down and get some basic information. At this time, girls (boys) are not very open because of the accompanying references, so don't be too anxious to say something emotional. After all, you are still a stranger. Calm down, be decent in front of girls (boys), behave gracefully, and control the conversation, as long as you don't let the other person hate you. Finally, exchange contact information for the next invitation. 2. relationship upgrade after confirming that the other party's emotional views and values meet their own requirements, we began to meet for the second time. This is the time for us to attack. Pay attention to recording her hobbies in the usual chat, so that when we meet, we will be at a loss because of where to go. It is fatal for a man to have no opinion. Generally, blind date girls will be willing to see you for the second time as long as they don't exclude you. So how can we confirm the relationship to the greatest extent in this date? It happens that many boys are stuck in this circle, and they still stay in the relationship of friends after a big circle. First of all, we can do some quizzes after confirming the date on WeChat. For example, you can tell the other person what kind of clothes you like a girl to wear and see if she will notice and do it when she comes to the appointment. Or be late for a while on purpose to see if she will blame you, so as to judge how much this girl values you. If the above two girls do well, then we can further improve our relationship. I also summarized several steps. Slight physical contact: When we meet for the first time and walk side by side, we will occasionally meet each other, and when we don't dodge, we will try our best to arm in arm. When crossing the road, don't directly hold my hand and hold my arm to show your concern. As long as I don't refuse, I will hold my hand and let go later (PS: don't hold it here, I won't let go. Take your time later. ) enter the restaurant and try to exchange drinks: after entering the restaurant, you can try to have a drink with her, such as "your cup looks delicious" and "I wonder if you like it." If the girl doesn't refuse, it means that she doesn't dislike your saliva and can kiss you if she has the opportunity. Near the end, you can hug her and say something sweet. Kissing is ok if the girls give good feedback. If the feedback is not very good, then send her back, make an appointment to meet next time, and go home and have another heart-to-heart chat. 3, confirm the relationship above is the first date process. If the girl's feedback is good that day, then the relationship can be confirmed that day, otherwise we will have to wait until the next meeting. With the foundation of the first two meetings, this date will start the couple mode and let the girls naturally enter the role, so you should think more about what the couple will do. Similarly, we can ask her if she drinks ice while eating, or buy food and go home to cook. By the way, let's see if this girl is extravagant. After all, we have to live together in the future.