1. positive attitude: keep a positive and optimistic attitude and believe in your ability and potential. Through positive thinking and action, you can change your life and destiny.
2. Self-reflection: reflect on your actions and decisions to see if there are any factors that may lead to misfortune. Recognize your responsibilities and abilities and find solutions to problems.
3. Seek support: Share your feelings and puzzles with relatives and friends, psychological counselors or spiritual mentors. They may provide support, understanding and advice to help you face challenges and change the status quo.
4. Action plan: Make clear goals and action plans, and take practical measures to change the unfavorable situation. This may include developing new skills, pursuing new opportunities or finding a new environment.
5. Cultivate spiritual strength: cultivate inner strength and calm mind through meditation, mindfulness and declaration. This will help you stay calm and cope with difficulties.
The most important thing is to believe in your own ability and value and resolutely move towards positive changes. Don't confine yourself to the labels or bad luck given by others, but seek your own path and pursue happiness and success.