20 14 Became attached to my family for the first time-Beijing Shusanhe
? When I met my family for the second time, I forged a deep fate with my family! At the end of 20 15, I was inexplicably dragged into the organizer's workshop. In the multifunctional classroom on the fourth floor of Tingtao Kindergarten, many parties jointly held a "Sun Aizhong Family System Arrangement Workshop". At that time, I was in charge of the work, and did some homework on the theoretical knowledge system of "family system arrangement". I began to learn the host's speech in the refining course from the basic theoretical knowledge of a knowledge. This also opened a working direction for me to preside over the family system arrangement workshop, and at the same time, I had a deeper understanding of family arrangement in the immersion of the workshop, so I presided over seven sessions of "Teacher Sun Aizhong's Family System Arrangement Workshop", from which I also got to know many teachers who studied and studied in this field!
"Home cooking is a magical technology", which is my understanding of it in 20 16 and 20 17.
? "Family system arrangement is a psychotherapy method founded by bert hellinger, which combines family therapy, psychoanalysis and gestalt therapy. Its main feature is to start with the family system of the parties, trying to find out the hidden family motivation, or family order, which is unknown to the parties, but has a profound impact on them. From the process of arrangement, Hellinger observed many truths about family, gender, parent-child and other important relationships, as well as the hidden motives behind the family, and developed a unique system view of "the order of love" to help people turn blind love into mature love, make family ties a supporting force, and make people live happier and more comfortable. " This passage was once said in countless workshops hosted by me at home, and it was also extracted by consulting relevant materials, books and academic research.
Later, due to fate, I was lucky enough to be invited to participate in Wei Taifeng's home cooking workshop in Taiwan Province Province, and I was also responsible for it. In that course, the unexpected surprise was that Mr. Liu Feng came to the scene and gave us a night self-study class. Teacher Liu Feng expounded the scientificity of home cooking from a scientific point of view, and interpreted its reasoning, demonstration and summary with mathematical formulas, which changed my understanding of home cooking from "mysterious" to scientific and practical.
Fourth from right: Teacher Liu Feng.
Second from left: Teacher Wei Taifeng from Taiwan Province Province.
On July 20 17, I became attached to teacher Han Zhe at the Ye Xue Lake in Laiwu. Mr. Han Zhe is one of the earliest disseminators and supervisors of the three major platoon studios in the world. He has worked in the platoon workshop for more than 20 years. He is a very enthusiastic, wise and broad teacher. Every word of the teacher is full of strength and often expresses profound philosophy through humorous language. He likes Mr. Han Zhe's class very much. The following is the official introduction of Teacher Han Zhe:
? Heinz Stark, Mr. Han Zhe was born in 1943. He has 35 years of psychotherapy experience and worked in European and American systems for many years. He is currently the director of Stark Psychotherapy Center in the north of Hamburg, Germany.
Teacher Han Zhe has a legendary life experience. He was born in pedagogy and psychology, and studied philosophy and art at the same time. Teacher Han Zhe started as a sailor apprentice at the age of 15, and later became a captain. This experience in different places led him to bring the systematic arrangement work to the United States in the future, where he had an early pioneer exchange of systematic arrangement work and had a long-term systematic arrangement work with the aborigines in the primitive tribes of American Indians. Rich life experiences enabled Mr. Han Zhe to combine systematic work, North American Indian shamanism, gestalt, bioenergy, biodynamics and posturology at the age of 73. Form your own unique arrangement style and system.
If you are lucky enough to walk into Mr. Han Zhe's workshop, it must be Futian planted by your family for generations. What a blessing it is to return to my family and benefit from it!
In the following paragraph, I got a classic quotation from Han Zhe's workshop:
1. "My father is on my right and my mother is on my left. My right side misses your father very much. I want to keep a big place for you in my heart. No man or boyfriend can replace you. When my right hand hurts, it will bring me closer to you. I really need you. "
2. "The nerves that control pain and the emotions that control anger are one area, and pain is the expression of anger."
3. "Go to the problem, not spread more problems, because the problem itself will lead you in that right direction."
4. "Asking for more from life for personal benefit (abortion) will overdraw the future".
5. "It is impossible to solve all the problems in one arrangement. I have done 25 cases for myself in my life (Mr. Han Zhe himself). "
Mr Han Zhe and Mr Henry Boya.
2017 5438+June 2007, Beijing organized the first national forum on systematic arrangement. I made an appointment with Ling Yan and Caicai, and went to Beijing for a three-day systematic arrangement. There are more than 1000 people in the meeting place. I was lucky enough to meet Li Zhongying, Zhou Dingwen, Zheng Lifeng and Ms. Guni Leila Baxa, an international arranger, who enjoyed great prestige and reputation in China, and left a deep impression on me.
The amount of information gained in three days is enormous, which makes me think and absorb their essence from the dimensions of multiple teachers. This course also allows me to continue to choose the "systematic arrangement of three tutors" in 2065438+2008 1 month.
The First National Systematic Arrangement —— Teacher Zheng Lifeng
The First National Systematic Arrangement —— Teacher Zhou Dingwen
The three of us (Cai Cai, me, Ling Yan)
The first nationwide systematic arrangement-Guni Leila Baxa girls
Beijing "Three Supervisors" Supervision Course —— Teacher Li Zhongying
Seminar of Jinan Department-hosted by the teacher (that)
Teacher sun aizhong, chairman of the seminar
Supervising class teacher Zheng Lifeng
Teacher-sent Workshop-Yantai Station Phase I (then participated in the teacher-sent workshop for the second time)
Teacher Han Zhe's Pai Workshop-Ji 'nan Station Phase II (Ye Xue Hu Na participated in Teacher Han Zhe's Pai Workshop for the first time).
Taiwan Province Weitaifeng Old School Workshop (Chair: Na)
Teacher's White Workshop-Yantai Station Phase I
Teacher's Pai Workshop-Yantai Station Phase II (the teacher attended and presided over for the third time)
Every time at the end of my workshop course, I will say: the knowledge of family system arrangement is so profound that it can't be called "understanding" without more than ten years of in-depth study. Inflation is nothing more than "the blind touch the elephant", which means that we need to constantly learn the basic knowledge of theory, understand the Tao Te Ching, take more classes with different styles of masters and teachers, and only through comprehensive and systematic study can we know a little. "? I am spreading this knowledge cautiously, encouraging people who are destined to enter the course, seeing the grace and influence of the power of the family system, perfecting themselves and returning to happiness!
? I am grateful to my family for giving me endless strength and love; Thanks to the teacher who guided me to grow up all the way, let me see the light and show it; Thank myself, I deserve a better and happier life!