In fact, most people are very capable of speaking. Married men and women will not be speechless when dating alone. Everyone always has something to say to their good friends and their relatives and friends, even if they don't say a word, they won't feel embarrassed. But when I met passers-by, especially my beloved target, I suddenly didn't know how to speak, hesitated and had a meal.
In the past, a good tryst turned into a pantomime, which was very boring. Therefore, we should exercise our speaking ability more, especially in front of passers-by, so that we can have something to say. Speaking is really a skill. You get rid of your inner anxiety and become more and more confident. You don't pursue how good you are, but at least it's not easy to talk.
Sometimes it's good to talk too much. Dating in the same city in Beijing, talking too much, exaggerating too much, showing yourself too much, giving each other an unstable and immature impression. Subconscious communication is not self-confidence, and it is not very good to express yourself with some flowery words. Sometimes communication is not limited to oral expression, but also physical communication is very important. Sometimes with a tiny gesture, everyone can understand each other's psychological state, and with a look, everyone can clearly understand each other's hobbies. Kan Kan's speech on peace talks is sometimes not necessarily a good thing. As the saying goes, talk less and do more. Silence speaks louder than words here. It is better to say superfluous words than a bunch of articles that have nothing to do with the topic.
If there is really nothing to say, we can do some articles about the natural environment at that time, such as the natural environment of the storefront, the style of interior decoration and the characteristics of the restaurant. These are all topics we can talk about, and we can also play some games to get rid of this embarrassing atmosphere, such as guessing games. We can explore the relationship between people present at dinner and whether couples can guess how long they have been in contact. There will be a lot of discussion on the spot, and sampling is really unnecessary. We can also catch a key word, for example, I am very tired at work today. First, we can start from these aspects of our work, ask questions and ask ourselves what we actually do, or we can seize the keyword "tired" and tell examples or reasons why we or the other party feel tired. From a word to an industry, a word can be used continuously, and chatting is like this, just around a center.
One of the big problems with chatting is that people don't know how to chat. If you don't know some methods, chatting will be boring, and chatting with me will be dull, let alone enhancing feelings. To prevent question-and-answer chatting, it is simple and direct. As soon as you ask and answer, the chatting will be over. No matter how many topics are discussed, you can't deal with this problem. You don't have to check your account, it's very easy to contradict.
Holding hands on the first date? Chatting should be exciting. People talk seriously and are afraid of jokes. Talking is as boring as drinking boiled water. To stimulate the mentality, some jokes must be spoken boldly. Don't be afraid to make mistakes. You don't have to summarize your speech. You should set suspense. Just like watching a play, always remember to understand the result. After watching one episode after another, it is because there are too many foreshadowing and unknowns in front of me that I am addicted. If you knew from the beginning, it wouldn't be terrible to have a little chat. What is terrible is what everyone has done at this moment. It has all practical significance. To prevent this situation, we need to master more chat skills and techniques to prevent getting cold feet. It would be a pity if it was because of missing true love.