Next, talk to my friends about my views on the comprehensive divorce appointment in some parts of Shanghai:
At present, Shanghai has been unsealed, and the previous operation of the city has gradually resumed after unsealing, but it is unrealistic to restore all kinds of "operations" to the past level at once. For example, the civil affairs bureau handles divorce, and now the daily quota is limited, and the quota is not as big as before, which also leads to the full appointment to some extent.
In addition, the previous "quantity" has been accumulated until now. The divorce rate in Shanghai in April and May is almost zero, which does not mean that all Shanghai couples are particularly good, and there is no disharmony, which is more caused by closure. After the liberalization, marriages that have not been divorced before will naturally proceed now, especially those who are eager for divorce.
Let's make an analogy. In April and May, there were very few people with haircuts in Shanghai, but in June, the number of people with haircuts soared, and barbershops could even be described as "overcrowded". In such a situation, you can't always say that people don't want to get a haircut because of the epidemic. It can only be said that Yi's deep affection hinders the normal time for personal haircut.
The above two objective factors are the factors that lead to full divorce appointments in some parts of Shanghai, but there is no doubt that the epidemic will also have an impact on our marriage and feelings.
During the epidemic, let two people get closer and be together every day. This state is a good thing for some couples and enhances their feelings; But for some couples, it is a bad thing, so that both sides "dislike each other." Undeniably, after the Shanghai epidemic, the challenges and risks of economic and emotional marriage have further increased.
As the saying goes, "poor couples are always sad", which is true. Although no Shanghai couple divorced around me, two couples who worked in Shanghai broke up. One of them broke up because they stayed together for a long time during the epidemic and found each other's "bad". The other is the realistic economic problem. Girls feel that boys can't give themselves basic material security.
In the journey of life, we need to experience many things and meet many people. There will always be something for us to see some people clearly, understand some truths and grow up. As the old saying goes, "it takes a long time to know the horsepower." It is a compulsory course for every adult to cherish those who love themselves and learn to stop losses in time.