Most rural social cultures in China are often feudal. In rural families, if women are infertile, they may be scolded or even driven out of the house. It is a very big thing for this family, which will affect the harmony of the family.
In this case, rural women are often at a disadvantage. Even if we don't know who the problem is, it is often the woman who has no children who is to blame. In fact, this situation is also very common, and we can often see it on the news or TV. Because in China, this concept is deeply rooted and hard to shake. Even for contemporary society, although it has improved, there is still such a phenomenon.
In this case, rural women should take advantage of the progress of science and technology and the development of medical care. She can go to the hospital for a physical examination to see who the problem is or where it is. Both husband and wife should have a physical examination. In this way, we can better find out why we can't have children. Before that, she should actively communicate with her family, because she may encounter those uncooperative situations, and communication in advance is often effective.
It is most important to go to the hospital for examination, so as to solve the problem. To say the least, even if the problem happens to this rural woman and the medical technology is so advanced, there are still many ways to get you pregnant, but only if the situation is not too serious. As contemporary rural women, they should not continue to bear the burden of not having children, but should strive for a little feminist rights. Finding out problems is also conducive to family harmony and stability.
First of all, go to the hospital to check whether there is any disease that leads to infertility. Any problem a woman has is easy to cure. Many people are infertile now, and there are several around me.
Among the people I know, there are three families with men who have problems. One is that the male sperm survival rate is low, the other is that the sperm is inactive and the other is that the sperm survival rate is zero. Only one of them is divorced. The man thinks there is something wrong with the woman, and it is no problem for the woman's family to go to the hospital for examination. They divorced directly. When they left, they left a message: Tell your son to check it himself!
The other two pairs, the sperm survival rate is zero, and they are directly artificially inseminated; Couples with inactive sperm also experienced a war at home. After six or seven years of hard work, I am ready to give up doing test tubes and get pregnant.
Now the society is fairer and people's minds have improved a lot. They no longer blindly believe that women can't have children, nor can they have children after marriage. Don't always be suspicious. You must go to the hospital for examination. A woman's body structure is very wonderful. A friend who was cut in half because of ectopic pregnancy has given up and can't have any more children. As a result, she was pregnant again and gave birth to a baby a few days ago.
This is the case in the countryside. If you can't have children, you will think it is a woman's problem. Even if it is a woman's problem, active treatment can get pregnant. Now that medicine is very developed, it is really impossible to be a test-tube baby after natural pregnancy.
Don't be superstitious, find some so-called local doctors, go to regular hospitals for check-ups and prescribe the right medicine. There are many people who can't have children because of the influence of the environment, and it's not surprising for hospitals. Treat them well while they are young, and don't care about the gossip of rural people.
With the continuous development of modern society, civilization has risen to a certain height, and many feudal ideas in the past have gradually been abandoned by people. The better the economy develops, the more thoroughly the feudal ideas of the past will be abandoned. At the same time, in places where economic development is slower and more backward, many backward concepts will still exist in people's minds, especially in rural areas. For example, it is also common to divorce her husband because of infertility after marriage.
The reason for this result, from the man's point of view, may be that for these men, the meaning of women's existence is to have children? Of course, there are also some women who think they are unable to have children, so she is meaningless to his family. Although I can't understand these two concepts, there is no denying that they still exist in rural areas.
Personally, if women are infertile, I would like to make the following suggestions from both men and women.
First of all, I want men to know that you will marry a girl and go home, and it will be her person, not her uterus. When this woman knows that she can't have children, believe me, it is a fatal blow to a woman. What she needs at this moment is her husband's understanding and comfort. Even if she is pressured by her family and gossiped by other neighbors in the village, please protect your wife and make her feel that even if she has no children.
Second, from the perspective of women: women should learn to love themselves and define their values. You're not just giving birth to a family. You are an independent individual. If your husband divorces you because you can't have children for him, or begins to dislike you, then such a husband is not worth cherishing. Go find someone who really loves you this morning.
If the husband and wife really love each other, they can choose to adopt a child. As long as you care, the child is no different from your own.
There should be no difference between rural women and urban women. Do not underestimate yourself.
It depends on the specific situation, some will divorce directly, and some will adopt a child back.
But rural people's ideas are very backward, mainly because who can't have children. Most people will choose to go to the hospital for examination first, and they will definitely recuperate first. Nowadays, there are many hospitals that treat infertility, and rural people also attach great importance to marriage and will not divorce easily. They will definitely choose to go to the hospital for treatment first, and may last for several years. After all, everyone knows that this disease needs long-term rest.
However, if it doesn't work for a long time, something may happen. If the woman is infertile, the man's parents will generally ask for a divorce, especially in families that attach great importance to the inheritance of incense. A woman who couldn't have children before is also a deadly sin! Although it is not so outrageous now, it will still be a little biased in the year of men. But it is not absolute. Some parents are reasonable and will ask them to continue treatment or adopt one. They don't care too much about their children, but such parents are rare in rural areas.
If it is the man's will, the marriage may be redeemed, but it may also be said that it is the woman's fault. I have such an example around me. The couple, including the woman's parents-in-law, love the adopted child very much. After all, a family still needs a child, not to carry on the family line, but to provide for their retirement.
However, I feel that no matter what kind of treatment, it is a bit unfair to rural women, but I can't help it.