July 3 1, June 19 of the lunar calendar, it was heartbreaking to hear the bad news of Zhang Tinggui's death.
Teacher Zhang is my instructor in the field of psychological counseling. 20 12 became attached to teacher Zhang tinggui in the spring.
At that time, the school solicited everyone's wishes and organized a group of teachers to study psychological counselors. I am a person who likes reading and studying, and I am glad to have such an opportunity.
The learning process is happy, and the professional and boring textbook knowledge becomes a punch line in the teacher's mouth.
Andy Voss' three kinds of attachment anxiety can be recorded as "safe return" by the first word mnemonic method. Six years later, I can still blurt it out. Freud's seven psychological defense mechanisms were summarized by the teacher as "Shantou specializes in promoting box lunch". This homophonic memory method is interesting, catchy and unforgettable.
May 20 12, successfully passed the national third-level psychological counselor. In September of the same year, the school arranged for me to pick up new students and be the head teacher of Class 2.
I used to be a class teacher, and I worked very hard. I didn't experience happiness and a sense of accomplishment, so the class teacher worked very hard.
After taking over the new class for one month, insomnia, anxiety, pharyngitis, walking weakness and various somatization symptoms appeared.
Reflect on yourself during the holiday and study psychology. First of all, I must learn how to build my own psychology. I thought of cognitive ABC theory. What causes people's behavior is not the thing itself, but their views on it. Now that the work has been arranged, you can't refuse it. You have done the pain and the joy, so just accept it happily.
When the cognition changes, the behavior also changes, and the work of the class teacher is also handy, and the somatization symptoms disappear unconsciously.
On the New Year's Day of 20 13, the teacher organized a psychological growth group for the advanced research class. I was impressed by the teacher's profound knowledge and diligent spirit, and I also hoped to have a little growth in the field of psychological counseling, so I actively signed up. It's been two years. How time flies. Under the leadership of the teacher, the five brothers and sisters grew up rapidly, and their ideological pattern, consulting theory, practical technology and speech writing all made a qualitative leap!
In 20 15, I participated in the reading growth meeting held by the teacher.
From 2065438 to 2006, I felt that I had made little progress in my study and applied for the national second-level psychological counselor. The teacher instructed me to write my thesis and pass the defense! The passing rate of defense in that year was one tenth. I am very lucky to be admitted, and it is the teacher's credit behind me! Why don't you go to Wan Li Road to study thousands of books? It's better to read Wan Li Road than countless people. Numerous readers are not as good as famous teachers!
In the winter of 20 16, my psychological counseling room was formally established. Blessing from the teacher!
In the process of consultation, we constantly use the consulting theory and technology taught by our teachers, and realize that our teachers' training and guidance are down-to-earth and far-sighted, standing on the height of how to polish us into excellent consultants!
On June 9, 20 18, I went to the psychological counseling room of Zhaoyuan No.1 Middle School to see the teacher, ask about my lecture courseware and listen to the teachings. The teacher said, study more, think more, sum up more, and refine it at regular intervals.
On June 20th, I accompanied Xia to consult my teacher, and the teacher presented a book, Dialogue Adolescence, with the words "Everything depends on human effort" written on the title page. Because he knows that I will hesitate when I move forward, and my expectations for myself are too low, so I have been encouraging!
Now that heaven and man are separated forever, the teacher's words are still in my ear: "Look at my sharing, review and sort out what I have learned on time, and put on knowledge with" three "."
Well, please let me use three words to express my feelings about the teacher's departure these days:
Tears: Teacher Zhang Tinggui's name.
Tears: a photo of Teacher Zhang Tinggui.
Lacrimal gland: everything about Teacher Zhang Tinggui
Last year, my teacher said to me, Fengran, we have many similarities. Yes, there is a lot of overlap in personality characteristics! The biggest difference is that the teacher is diligent and I am lazy!
In the sharing sent by the teacher, there are three abilities: getting up early, staying up late and being energetic!
After reading it, I didn't agree with the idea of "staying up late", but I knew the teacher's character and pursuit, and I swallowed what was on my lips.
Combine rigidity with softness. The teacher put meat to the extreme, used it in psychological consultation and spread sunshine. I left Dagang for myself. I was tired of running day and night and hurt my health.
After seven years of practice, I became rational. On hearing the news of the teacher's death, I immediately turned back to my original shape and was heartbroken. I also remember the teacher's words: psychological counselors also have emotions, but they can calm down in a short time than ordinary people.
To help others help themselves, first set up their own self-psychology, write a poem, and try to calm themselves down:
Heaven is not peaceful,
Advisers are urgently needed.
I heard that Mr. Xian,
Please drive to the western paradise.
Life is fickle,
Disciple is sad.
Always remember that the teacher smiles,
Love is sprinkled on the earth!