The secret to saving your dead girlfriend

Many men are very excited when they hear that their girlfriends are going to break up, and they don't know how to recover. Today we are going to introduce the tactics to save your dead girlfriend, which will definitely inspire you. In love, many people will meet their girlfriends and often ask themselves, "Do you love me or not? What do you love about me? " Or say to yourself, "Why do I think you don't love me?" At this time, the boy will be very helpless and wonder why she is so difficult to satisfy. Why did she say I didn't love her enough when I was trying to be nice to her? When girlfriends ask themselves these questions again and again, over time, many boys often feel impatient and want to stop this behavior, but they don't know how to do it. If you want to keep your's relationship intact, you have to understand why your girlfriend still thinks you don't love her enough. Case Sharing My name is Hu Xiang. I am 26 years old. I have been with my girlfriend Min Min for two years. We met at a friend's dinner. She is an employee of a friend's company and looks very beautiful. To this end, I specifically looked for opportunities to drink with her, and also used business as an excuse to go to WeChat. After that, I launched a fierce pursuit of her, saying good morning and good evening to her every day and asking questions every day. Finally, she was moved by my sincerity and promised to stay with me. In the days together, we are very happy every day. When she is happy, she will send a circle of friends. Friends always say that we abuse dogs in it. Min Min is a good girl and can be a wife. Besides, I am old enough to get married. In order to make her feel that I am a trustworthy man, I will give her whatever she wants. Whenever I have time, I usually pick her up from work and order her food online at noon. All her colleagues envy her. However, this day can't stand the polishing of time. Slowly, I found that she seldom sends messages about our circle of friends. When we are together, we always play with our mobile phones, saying that it is a company matter. I didn't think much about it either. However, once I accidentally saw her chatting with a strange man on WeChat. She said that she used to only have QQ and was an old classmate. Just after adding WeChat, she had a brief chat. I was angry and accused her, and she was also angry and said that she would break up with me. At that time, I was so angry that I agreed on impulse. But I regretted it the next day. I really blame myself for being too impulsive. I still love her very much and feel that I can't live without her. So I took the initiative to coax her, and for two whole days, she agreed to make up. After we made up, I cherished the days with her more, treated her better, and was afraid of making her angry, but I was afraid that she would like another man. I don't think I trust her as much as I used to. Therefore, when she is resting at work, I will ask for a video with her; When I got home, I couldn't help secretly looking at her mobile phone. I know it's not good, but as long as I see her playing with her mobile phone in front of me, I want to know what she is saying. One day, I was peeking at her cell phone. When she found out after washing her hair, she lost her temper with me and said that I had invaded her privacy. I think her reaction is too great. I suspect that she is having an affair with another man. So I couldn't help but have a big fight with her. She left a message: "Hu Xiang, let's break up. I'm really fed up with these days. Goodbye! " Then he slammed the door and left. It was hard to watch her leave, so I regretted it at that time. I went out to look for her, and she had already left. So I kept calling her, but she didn't answer or return to WeChat. I really had no choice but to go to her company the next day, apologize to her and beg her to forgive me again. I didn't expect her to say that if I forced her again, she would leave the city. Later, I called her a lot, but she didn't answer and blacked me out. When WeChat replied, she blacked me out. I don't know why she was so rude and gave up our relationship for several years so easily. Second, professional analysis, it is not difficult to find that Hu Xiang mainly has these problems in this relationship: 1, unilaterally paying too much and losing its appeal. Hu Xiang, a student, believes that as long as you are kind to your girlfriend, you will make her feel worthy of trust. As everyone knows, such a unilateral and blind effort will not only make the target Min Min feel "worthy of entrusting" over time, but also lead to the imbalance of their value and status in their feelings, leading to the loss of attractiveness of the giver. 2, emotional, doubt is very important in our lives, contact with the opposite sex is a very normal thing, but the students did not look at it with the right attitude, but let their emotions lead them and had a dispute with the goal. This behavior not only makes the target feel that you don't trust her, which deepens the contradiction between them, but also reflects the students' lack of self-confidence and self-worth. 3. Possessive and controlling students will feel uncomfortable when they see the target playing mobile phone in front of them, and they will also secretly check the target mobile phone. These behaviors directly led to the complete exposure of their inner desire for possession and control. At the same time, it also makes the target feel great pressure and his private space is deprived. At this point, we can only choose to break up to escape the control of our classmates. 4, the wrong way to save, and after breaking up, students frequently call the target, WeChat attack, and even go to the other company to contain and entangle. Trying to recover in the wrong way in exchange for the forgiveness of the target. I don't know, the most taboo in the early days of breaking up is to pester each other many times without a bottom line. Doing so will not only make your self-worth disappear, but also push her further. Redemption requires skill, and the way of redemption will not only bring trouble to the other party, but also seriously reduce your pattern. You really need the right way to bless her, and you have to face it bravely. The trick to save the dead girlfriend 2 In view of the problem of student Hu Xiang, the tutor drew up a comprehensive recovery plan, which is divided into four steps. 1, initial disconnection, demotion, easing the deadlock Because students took the wrong way to recover after breaking up, they continued to bomb the target with WeChat, which seriously interfered with the normal work and life of the target and brought a lot of trouble to the target. Finally, all the students' WeChat phones were hacked. Therefore, when the consultant took over the student's case, he gave him an hour and a half of telephone appeasement and psychological counseling, telling him to stop all harassment, that is, "stop loss." Meanwhile, the target was initially disconnected for 2 days. Because the students are impressed by the goal, they are still controlling and unreasonable ex-boyfriends. So it is useless to make any explanation and promise at this time. Can only take the initiative to belittle the relationship, take a step back and let yourself re-enter the other world. In the process of communicating with the students, the consultant learned that they still have Alipay friends, so the consultant immediately edited a message for the students and sent it to the target, indicating that they had agreed to break up, and at the same time reduced the other party's wariness and disgust. Finally, the students added the target WeChat. At this point, although the vigilance against the target is slightly relaxed, the rejection is still serious. So during this period, we arranged for students to freeze for 5 days. In this disconnection stage, students can't contact each other in any form or excuse, but directly disconnect all contacts to reduce the vigilance of the target and ease the deadlock between them. 2. Rebuild value, build a framework and attract again. In order to recover better, we should also make rational use of time in the process of breaking off diplomatic relations. Therefore, the consultant arranged for the students to learn psychological construction, detailed explanation of attraction, girl password, self-improvement attraction law, emotional chat 72 and other services. When the students' mentality is stable, the counselor immediately asks the students to make a service summary, and then re-establish a framework for the students according to the summary, and learn to get along with women better for a long time. In this relationship, students are the low-key side from the beginning. He touched the goal with his own efforts, instead of enhancing his attraction and guiding the other party to take the initiative to pay. The object is naturally used to accepting the kindness of students, which leads to a serious imbalance in emotional input between the two sides. Coupled with students' desire for control and possession, they seem to be extremely disgusted with goals, which also makes students' personal value seriously lacking. Therefore, to break this situation, we must change the original state. Here we have arranged two steps for students: to establish a mentality and reduce the desire for control; Get rid of the low-key situation, rebuild personal value and create a second attraction. We learned from students that they also have a WeChat contact window. However, considering that the object is still in a sensitive state, rashly contacting WeChat will only aggravate the other party's resentment and black students again. Therefore, we arrange for students to choose to enrich their personal presentation through the construction of friends circle. In fact, the students are not bad in all aspects, but they focus all their attention on the goal in love, ignoring the construction of their own values, which leads to the inability to attract goals continuously. At this time, to attract the target, we must start with its preferences in order to attract the attention of the target. We know that the target is interested in travel, movies, handicrafts and taking pictures. So, the students first signed up for a tour group and made a short trip according to the consultant's suggestion. And send a circle of friends with clear values every day to create personal charm and pave the way for secondary attraction. 3, open the window, guide efforts, warm feelings. Finally, after making a few friends in this way, it successfully attracted the attention of the target and took the initiative to open a breakthrough. The two had a WeChat interaction. Although girls are very determined when they break up with you, no one will let go of their feelings for such a long time. These behaviors of students will still fluctuate in her heart, but they are not revealed. Because this is the first time that the students have interacted with the target after breaking up, the students almost fell into the previous low-value state when chatting. Fortunately, the students contacted the consultant for one-on-one real-time guidance at the first time before successfully leading the chat rhythm. "How have you been recently?" "Not bad, but I think life is more interesting now, but I'm still not used to it." "Why?" "When I hear those girls call me brother, I get goose bumps. How have you been recently? " "I'm fine, too." It can be seen from the chat records that correctly grasping the initiative of chatting can better promote the relationship between two people. In this process, we should properly keep ambiguous with each other and keep a distance from girls, so as to increase their sense of demand and desire to chat with you next time. 4, continuous attraction, efficient compound interest On the day of the appointment, the students took the opportunity to give their cups to the target. In this DIY experience, the two people enhanced their feelings, and at the same time, the students also sent a teasing signal in advance according to the guidance of the consultant. This is a sign that the target is obviously attracted to students. So, after the experience, the consultant asked the students to book tickets for a nearby cinema on the grounds that they would miss a good movie if they didn't watch it the second time. In the dim environment, the two deliberately chose the plot of a love movie, and the mood was echo each other, so the students made simple physical contact at the right time. After watching the movie, the counselor also arranged for the students to send the target home. In fact, when many brothers come here, they will get carried away and try to make physical contact with the target. But in fact, the girl is willing to go to the movies with you, which really shows that her emotional window has been completely opened. Because this is the first date in the sense of breaking up, we should control our sense of need and leave suspense for girls at this time. Because our purpose is to save in the real sense, in the process of saving, the counselor should let the students take the leading position, control their emotions, and the physical contact should not be hasty, and the goal must be wholeheartedly attracted to you in order to succeed. So after the students sent the target home that night, the two also had a brief exchange on the film and agreed to go to the private cinema next time. When they met for the second time, they finally had close contact in the ambiguous environment of a private cinema. However, the counselor did not ask the students to say anything complicated, but continued to chat with the target and maintain an ambiguous relationship. This relationship lasted only a week, and the target was completely attracted by his classmates. He lacked self-confidence and security. He took the initiative to communicate with the students and proposed to confirm the relationship. The recovery lasted for 30 days and the students were successfully reunited. Love is a kind of cultivation, especially to save love. Actually, it's not that difficult to recover. As long as we can choose the right way and communicate correctly, we can recover well. There are many tactics to save a dead girlfriend, and everyone should choose a plan according to their actual situation. The purpose of saving love is not only to save your object, but to make you grow up in this process and eventually become a happy person, and then live a happy life in the future.