Married, don't just think about relying on your husband. You still need to have a certain ability to work. When you suddenly can't rely on it, what should you rely on to support yourself at that time? In this society, you still need to have certain ability and strength to support yourself. Marriage can bring you changes. After the change, you can work hard.
My cousin is well married and her mother-in-law is very kind to her. Husband and wife have a good relationship and a happy life. Family conditions are ok. Everyone is persuading my cousin not to work, just to rest at home. This work is too difficult. My cousin doesn't want to be such a person, but she still chooses to go out to work. Even if the job she takes is not very high, it is also the embodiment of her own value. She is doing her favorite job every day, and she is very fulfilled and happy.
Married into the family, I never thought of relying entirely on the man's family. I still have my own job, integrate into this society, feel the changes of this era and adapt to social life. Women still have their own jobs. Even if marriage can change their own destiny, they still need a certain job, which is also a kind of killing time.