Warm letter to my daughter's bar mitzvah, dear daughter.
I am glad to have the opportunity to write this letter to you before you grow up and leave home. Perhaps, you will find it unnecessary to meet, chat and write letters every day. Your father told me the other day that he would write you a letter at your bar mitzvah. I am happy in my heart, and I can finally tell you our hearts in this way.
How time flies! In a blink of an eye, we have spent 17 spring and autumn together. You have also grown from an ignorant child to a graceful girl. Although you are not yet 18 years old, passing the bar mitzvah means that you are about to grow up, leave our sight and go to a wider world. At this moment, our mood is complex and hard to say, with nostalgia for your childhood and beautiful longing for you when you grow up.
18 years ago, your father and I greeted you with joy, anxiety and expectation. It can be said that your arrival has brought us countless happiness, and we have placed infinite hopes on you. When you were young, your father raised you that day and taught you to talk at the bedside for a month. Later, your father raised you as a talent, bought all kinds of books to teach you, and stubbornly thought you were a very smart child. Then your father raised you as a normal person. Let you grow up healthily like other children, play in primary school, struggle in junior high school and high school, and happily complete every unforgettable stage of your life.
In our memory, primary school is the happiest time in your student career for so many years. At that time, you were like a happy butterfly, tirelessly busy from morning till night. In the first half of junior high school, like all adolescent children, you started your rebellious career. At that time, you didn't agree with many things that Mom and Dad told you. Like all parents, we are anxious, worried and at a loss. But we didn't give up. We are still full of confidence and hope in you. Through continuous exploration, discussion and summary of failed experiences, and finally through countless heart-to-heart conversations, you have gradually passed the rebellious spirit, walked out of confusion, and ushered in a new stage of mutual understanding and care between us. I still remember when you made impressive achievements for the first time after high school. You said, mom, did you find out? I have grown up and changed.
At that time, our mood had a hard-won joy and a persistent hope for your future. We know this is just an episode in your life. I told you, this is your first time as a child, and it is also our first time as a parent. Whether it is your study or your education, we need to constantly explore, work together and grow together.
We are proud of your excellent achievements in high school in the past two years. What is more gratifying is that your personality and attitude towards life are becoming more and more sunny and mature. It can be said that these two years are the most unforgettable happy time we spent together. But the quiet days were broken when I was near the third year of high school. The reason is that you have encountered a bottleneck in your study. Strong emotions are the longest depression since high school. In desperation, your father and I made a difficult choice-transfer.
For this problem, the original you are also vacillating and miserable. I don't want to give up the familiar environment, teachers and classmates, and I don't want to be mediocre. I don't want to lose the chance to work hard. We also keep consulting, analyzing and discussing for this, and often can't sleep at night. I am afraid that because of our indecision, you will lose a rare opportunity to improve yourself; I'm afraid our decision will bring you unpredictable risks. After all, the college entrance examination is only less than 10 months away.
After careful consideration and repeated demonstration of advantages and disadvantages, we finally made the final choice and transferred to Jilin No.1 Middle School with your consent. During that time, your mood also experienced some minor fluctuations, and we were actually worried. Although we believe that you are a strong child, this is your first major choice in life, and you need to bear the unpredictable results alone.
During that time, your father left everything behind. In order to make you adapt to the new school and environment as soon as possible, your father insists on sending you to and from school in the morning and evening, lest you feel lonely and helpless. You didn't let us down either. It took only a short week to adapt to the new environment and new teachers and classmates. All this is much better than expected. Students are enthusiastic and teachers are dedicated. After this incident, you are obviously more mature than before and your mood is stable. This is also the result we most hope to see.
Although I often tell you, "a soldier who doesn't want to be a marshal is not a good soldier, and a student who doesn't want to enter a prestigious school is not a good student." But we value a healthy body and a good attitude more than learning progress. After all, only in this way can we have a happy life. Actually, we don't expect much from you. As long as you try your best, the result will be good. Don't be too persistent about people and things.
My Lord, these two words are not complicated to write, but they contain rich and profound contents. The most important thing to remember is these two things: responsibility and value.
First of all, we want you to be a responsible and willing person. Responsibility is the most important symbol of adults, and it is also an important content and principle of life. When you have the ability to choose and act independently, you also have corresponding responsibilities and obligations. Only those who know how to be responsible and can be responsible can be recognized and accepted by society and become truly respected people.
Secondly, we hope you are a valuable and successful person. Every life in the world has its own irreplaceable significance and mission. No matter where you are, what kind of work you are engaged in, no matter what your achievements, wealth and status are, the real success in life lies in being able to give full play to your strengths, benefit others and the world, make contributions, and live a happy and fulfilling life.
We also want to take this opportunity to express our heartfelt thanks to you! Thank you for bringing us many happy and beautiful memories, and for giving us many life inspirations in the process of raising you. In this sense, you are also leading us to grow. These will become the most precious spiritual wealth in our lives. Even in the past, when you were growing up, we criticized and accused you a lot, even demanding too much, but that was because we had more expectations for you and hoped that you would become better and more perfect.
When you are 18 years old, if there is anything we can expect from you, it is that we hope that you will never lose those beautiful qualities in yourself and can constantly improve yourself.
Some things, no matter where you go, no matter what the environment is, no matter what you have experienced, you can't give up and change, such as: kindness and honesty, upholding justice, cherishing friendship, sympathizing with the suffering people, fearing nature ... always embracing beautiful ideals, which is your motivation for upward life; Learn to be grateful, appreciative, tolerant and patient, which is the source of your happiness in life; Being good at observing and thinking independently is the only way for you to get the truth. ...
Sorrow and sorrow are the world of mortals, and life is bumpy. In the future, no matter where you go, whether you succeed or fail, whether you succeed or fail, we will always love you, support you and trust you.
Finally, I wish our dearest daughter to realize your dream and fly high in the college entrance examination next year.
A touching letter to my daughter's bar mitzvah Dear daughter:
I thought the last time I wrote, it would be the only time. I don't want to start writing in a month.
Not long ago, everything was silent. Willow hangs with long dry hair, and poplar is covered with pimples. It seems that overnight, the bud of life was suddenly punctured, and branches the size of Ye Er covered the earth. No Ruyan Liu, this is a jasper suit. The spring of nature can't wait, so can the spring of life? Just suddenly, the flowers will fall; Before watching carefully, the train of life will go to the next stop-it is a beautiful summer like a flower. Children, time waits for no one, cherish it!
There are many people in the world who have to do things. If there is no choice, "it is safe to come." Learning is a kind of exercise, and achievement is only one aspect of it. The key is to follow the process. Failure, confusion, sighing ... are like gravel broken into mussels. Only by secreting your own body can you create a brilliant miracle. It is very important to cultivate the quality of will in the learning process. This will quality is the toughness in the face of difficulties, and it is a psychological quality that can persevere and face difficulties. No matter what your grades are, as long as you form this persistent spirit in your study, no matter what you do in the future, you will always create your own world.
In the future, as you said, "I have experienced ups and downs", you will be more calm and peaceful, because "I have tasted all the pains in this world, so no one can stop me from succeeding". You no longer hesitate to sigh, because you are open-minded, you can "face it calmly and laugh it off." You will deal with the vagaries of life more calmly and calmly. Whether you really love you or have no intention of hurting you, you will be grateful. You will be very sunny, and that smile will not only raise your mouth, but also bloom like a flower. You will work hard, like any responsible person, and do your best to support the people you love. You will keep your promise, ask for leave, and chat with your mother in the afterglow of sunset. ...
Dear child, I wonder if mom expects too much. I think, as long as you work hard, mom never just looks at the results.
Let's call it a day. I don't know if I can pass this time.
Love your mother forever.
Letter to the bar mitzvah of 18-year-old daughter Dear daughter:
In an instant, you are a beautiful girl of eighteen. It seems that dad is stupid. If the school hadn't reminded me, I really didn't think the little baby around me had grown up.
I want to say a lot, but I don't know where to start.
I remember/kloc-the happiness we waited for you for a few months 0/8 years ago, and I still remember it vividly. Mom often feels her belly bulging high because of you, and often feels a bright smile on her face because of your fetal movement, pulling your father, your grandmother and even your little brother next door to share this happiness.
We are happy, expecting, busy and planning. Mother knits the clothes you need when you are born and supplements the nutrition you need; Dad seems to be planning your future at a loss. He looked through several dictionaries, chose a few words, and finally came up with a name that suits your father's wishes: Wen Tao.
Want to know the meaning of this name? I remember when you were in the third grade of primary school, we had a discussion on this issue. You think this name is a bit neutral. At that time, dad was noncommittal and didn't give you a clear answer. Now, I can tell you that this name has at least three meanings: first, hometown, hometown. You were born in Shipu, a fishing port town where people are sleeping in the tide, so the word "smell" and the word "Tao" all hope that no matter where you are in the future, you will not forget the choppy voice of your hometown; Second, "Wave Children Stand on the Waves", facing the choppy social world, I hope you stand bravely on the waves and strive to be the wave children of the times; Third, the homonym "Wen Tao" hopes that you can arm yourself with knowledge and strengthen yourself with knowledge. Now that you have grown up, if you think there is something wrong with this name, you can consider changing it yourself, because now you should have your own direction and become a useful person. Dad believes you!
This is a happy night, this is a night full of hope. 1that night in September, 995, you finally came to this world. That night, dad was a little excited. That night, all the people related to your life were in high spirits for you. Since then, our family has a real home in the traditional sense. As you grow up, we become more and more mature. Thank you for the happiness and hope that your growth has brought us.
We work hard, we struggle, hoping to give you a happy childhood. Maybe, we didn't succeed; Perhaps, we have not done enough; Maybe, we will make you unhappy. But please remember that your parents are your forever strong mountains, and everything is our selfless love for you.
Daughter, you are eighteen today. Legally speaking, you have bid farewell to carefree childhood and adolescence and formally entered a colorful youth. Maybe it's because of her variety, temptation and trap. Perhaps it is because of her colorful, so there will be smog when there is a rainbow. I want to say a lot, and I don't know where to start at once. I just want to send you a few words to encourage you.
First, combine rigidity with softness, and combine rigidity with softness. It is necessary for a girl to be gentle, but she must be strong. Life will never be smooth sailing, and the road ahead will never be smooth. This needs to face the reality bravely, tolerate, understand and solve with your strong heart. It is said that girls are made of water and should learn from it. Water follows invisibly, but it can also fall. One more thing: parents will always be your shield. Remember, don't cry easily outside, and you can play freely when you go home! Parents will accompany you to tears and dry for you.
Second, be pragmatic and independent. Vanity and jealousy are the most common mistakes made by girls, and they are also the root of many girls' tragedies. Therefore, our requirements are: arm yourself with powerful knowledge, learn basic skills well, and remember that when you have enough knowledge and accomplishment, you will have the realm of "the other mountains all appear dwarfs under the sky." and the calmness of "everything is a cloud". Of course, it takes time, knowledge accumulation, life tempering, and everything needs to be done slowly, so at this stage, you must do these words: know how to appreciate rather than envy, know how to respect rather than envy, know how to admire rather than worship, know how to be reserved rather than timid, know how to show off rather than show off, know how to share rather than monopolize, know how to be proud rather than crazy, know how to be content rather than greedy, know how to tolerate rather than promiscuous, and know how to be humble and humble. You can't choose the beginning of life, but the happy ending of life is the result of hard work.
Third, gratitude and unity. Life is never a person, especially in this information society, any effort needs team spirit, not to mention your relatives, your teachers and your classmates are selfless dedication to you. Learn to thank the enemy, it will make you think independently and make you work hard. Learn tolerance and understanding, and unite all those who may unite.
Fourth, knowledgeable, elegant and generous. Let me tell you a secret. Dad has always wanted you to be a simple, naive, elegant, intelligent and modern intellectual woman. Dad has always liked the pale West Lake, or blue-and-white porcelain with a strong background, or black-and-white China landscape paintings. Sensible but not arrogant, elegant but not aloof, introverted but not funny, to apply a modern network famous saying: "low-key luxury has connotation."
There are so many words to say (in fact, there are many words to say), just for a simple wish in my heart: May my daughter be happy all her life! We don't want you to be rich, we don't want you to succeed, we just want you to be safe and happy all your life!
Ok, let's call it a day, and finally let's hug you, my daughter!
Love your mom and Dad