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Good morning: you should be busy with your life and bear the hardships yourself.

Smart men say to keep half, smart women turn a blind eye. Don't like a person who doesn't like himself. If you want to see the truth, you need some pain. You have to understand that you can't keep those who are leaving, you can't wake those who pretend to sleep, and you can't touch those who don't love you!

Reply if you like. If you don't like it, don't procrastinate, delay others and torture yourself. Just be reserved and moderate. If you leave for too long, your fiery heart will gradually get cold. No one has the obligation to be kind to you all the time and cherish it. In fact, feelings are most afraid of procrastination.

When people meet for the first time, they are always used to presenting their best side to each other. After getting along for a long time, various shortcomings are gradually exposed. One day, you don't have to pretend, you're not so tired, you can do whatever you want, and the other person sees through you, but still doesn't dislike you. That's a friend.

Some words are hurt if you don't say them. Some people will leave whether they stay or not. What they can't forget is memories. What they continue is life. All they missed was passing by. Keep a constant promise, but can't keep a fickle heart. Sometimes, persistence is a burden, and giving up is a relief. No one is perfect, and happiness is not 100%. Why ask for so much when you know you can't have so much at once?

No one can take what belongs to you; What can be taken away does not belong to you. I believe that better will come. All the efforts and struggles at present are to have a bright future and meet an excellent you. One day, you will stand in the brightest place and live the life you once longed for.

No one will always be smooth. Everyone gritted their teeth and survived the downturn, only telling and crying to the closest people. What outsiders see is that everything is satisfactory. Only when you succeed can you talk openly about failure, and failure will become a part of success. May you be stronger, and then one day, you can smile and say those moments that make you cry. At that time, I believe you can put everything down.

Maturity consists of two parts, one is the pursuit of beauty, and the other is the acceptance of disability.

Don't say anything you want to say. After a long time, you naturally have a lot on your mind. If you don't do what you want to do, you will naturally be under great pressure for a long time. When procrastination becomes a habit, fatigue becomes the norm. What feelings fear most is procrastination, and finally they break up in discord.

I used to be afraid that others would not like me, so I tried my best to please me. If I am misunderstood, I can't wait to explain immediately. Now, as I get older, I'm getting bigger and bigger. If you don't like it, you don't like it. This road leads in different directions.

Only when you are down and out will you know who is a fool who is worried about you and who is a stranger bastard!

The first step to growth is to accept disappointment.

Everyone's youth is too hasty, especially women, but the aging of women is not the aging of appearance, but the aging of career. A woman's capital is her own experience and ability. Only by reading more books and traveling more can she become a knowledgeable person, without showing off or quarreling. Not empty, not impetuous, be a rich man; Even if life is tired, it grows old in elegance. Like summer flowers in prime, like autumn leaves in old age.

Everyone feels bitter, someone hurts for a long time, someone remembers it, it's far away, and someone leads it, but the reality tells us that life should be busy, tired and carried by ourselves.

I haven't disturbed my memory for a long time because my life is very good now. May you enrich the world because of the appearance of someone. May your life be like a golden greeting on a greeting card. May the years be gentle and peaceful, and have memories to cook wine. May you have no weakness and need no armor. May we waste our lives with our loved ones in tears. If there is an afterlife, we will go together in the afterlife.

Fate doesn't need a reason, just silently miss each other and silently like each other; Friends don't need vows, treat each other with sincerity, wind and rain are like umbrellas, and the horizon is close at hand. If you know, I will feel at ease; The journey is short. If you are in good health, it will be sunny.

Good morning: Love yourself, nobility is precious.

1 Whether with relatives, lovers or friends, we all know clearly that affection, friendship and love are the greatest wealth in a person's life. Without the care and love of relatives, the love of lovers and the sincerity of friends, how can we realize the existence of love? These are all happiness. Happiness is very simple, it will not bring any impurities, as long as you have a kind heart, you will always feel its existence.

2. Life is a wandering journey, and meeting anyone is a beautiful accident. I cherish everyone I can call a friend, because that's where my wandering heart can stop. Sometimes I am moved by a word, because I am sincere; Sometimes I cry for a song, because of nature. Be happy, not just this time, but for life!

3. I feel that there are many roads to go in life: there is one road that cannot be turned back, and that is the road to give up; There is one road that cannot be rejected, and that is the road to growth; There is one road that can't be lost, and that is the road of faith; There is one road that cannot be stagnant, and that is the road to struggle; There is one road that we can't forget, and that is the way home. Take every road with confidence and wish you a wonderful day in your life.

In the journey of life, we will always meet many people. It is this scattered fate and encounter that pieced together many landscapes in Lu Yu, which cannot be erased in memory. Even though I have traveled all over Qian Shan and seen the gathering and scattering of the world of mortals, there is always a memory that I will never mention again, but it has been hidden in my heart. There is always someone you can't tell for years; There is always a scenery that will take root and sprout in my heart, and the onion cage will turn green.

We are all just passers-by crossing the long river of years. No one can keep an eternal promise, and no one can be with anyone forever. Those memories that are drifting away will be delivered to the years and returned to the fleeting time. Some people, it is better to miss each other when they meet: some things, let it dry slowly in the years, trapped in a past that can't be picked up, it is better to warm your heart and look down on the dust.

6. Don't be disappointed in human nature, be considerate. Don't be stubborn in personality, but be able to change. Don't beautify nature, restore it. It is better to think than to do, and it is better to say than to do. People who are good at themselves will also be good at others. Words should be to the point, not good; People should be gentle, not strong. Brilliance is only short-lived, and dullness can last. Observe the changes quietly, and gradually realize something. With positioning, there is a direction; With strength, there is hope.

7. If you know how to be content, you will feel happy. Happiness is not getting more, but caring less. Happiness is not having more, but complaining less. Being strong is not to keep a tear in the face of sadness, but to live with a smile after crying. Affection, friendship, love, either gain or learn. Whether you love or be loved, as long as you know and are willing, it is a life without regrets. The most eternal happiness in life is ordinary, and the most eternal possession in life is cherish.

8. Stick to your life even if no one applauds. No matter how impetuous the society is, we must stick to our bottom line, even if we walk a long way alone, we must endure loneliness and loneliness; Even in the turbulent sea of people, we should keep a clear head and stick to our true colors. To save your life, you must always believe in yourself-believe that your choice will not be wrong, and believe that your persistence will definitely pay off.

9, everyone's road has to go by themselves, tired or not, feet know. Experienced the gathering and dispersion of fleeting time, experienced the warmth and coldness of human feelings; I have experienced many things and learned to heal myself. Suffering, self-release; Have fun, have fun. Wind and rain know life, but life is difficult to understand. In fact, life is a feeling, an experience and an understanding.

10, the truth will hurt us for a while, but lies will hurt us for a lifetime. Missing is only a moment, but missing is a lifetime. There is a kind of love that you love deeply but can't say, and there is a kind of love that you want to give up but can't. Slowly, you realize the taste of your love. Many things didn't feel bitter at the time, but you can see them clearly afterwards. It's funny that many things haven't been experienced, but it's funny when they have.

1 1, you must have cared about someone; To see a person clearly, you must have been down and out; He who sees through a person must have fought with you; See through a person, you must have paid; Seeing through a person must be cheated; Look down on a person, you must have cherished it; Seeing a person clearly must be giving up.

12, love fades into words, and slimming refers to acacia. If the hearts are similar, the ends of the earth depend on each other; If your heart is far away, you can't understand it when you meet all day. Fate is providence, relying on sincerity; Feelings need communication, and it is important to be honest. Everyone has tears, because they are strong and have to face hardships; Everyone has a wordless injury, and the pain has to be borne because of growth.

13. When you devote yourself wholeheartedly to someone, this person will often betray you. Because you have paid completely, there is no freshness and use value. Human nature is a very hateful thing, and we often don't cherish what we get. So, when you are hurt, first think about whether you have paid too much. Lower yourself and want others to cherish you. Love yourself first, nobleness is precious.

14, Xinyu 1, love is three points gentle and seven points warm. Hate is three points cold and seven points cold. Whether you are good or evil, it is a fact that others look at appearances. 3, walked, walked, tasted, or plain and beautiful; I've heard of it, seen it and thought about it. It's better to keep it simple. You can't wake a person who pretends to sleep, and you can't touch someone who doesn't love you. There are no perfect two people, only two people who give in to each other.

Good morning: Remember, don't forget your original self.

1, if you want to walk fast, just walk alone; Want to go far, let's go together.

Time gives us not opportunities, but choices. If you don't know how to choose, too much is a waste.

3. All stories have endings. But fortunately, in life, every end will become a new beginning.

It is meaningless to stay in the sad moment all the time. Sadness is meaningful when you can get through this sadness and learn something from it.

5, modern people often do this, they feel sorry if they don't conform to their own hearts, and they feel uneasy once they conform. Before deciding to invest and pay, you must first settle your mind and stay in a safe position.

6. No one can be pure until the end, but remember, don't forget your original self.

7. No matter how big or small the world is, the encounter between people is always unpredictable. Maybe there are so many people who miss each other so much that they can't meet each other. Some people may be afraid to touch each other, but the more they hide, the more they will meet.

8. There will be someone who will hold up a sky for you when you are most sad.

9. You can't have everything that happens in your life, you can only experience it. Those who know this well will understand that there is no loss, just passing by; There is no failure, only experience. Look at life with a browsing heart. All the gains and losses, hidden and obvious, are landscapes and customs. -Tahi Remodo

10, different people, even standing in the same place, see different scenery through their own lives.

1 1. In order to finally understand what you don't understand, you must go through a road of ignorance. In order to possess what you have never possessed, you must go through the road of deprivation. If you want to achieve fame that is not there now, you must go through the road that is not there now.

12,-People's self-esteem may be violated, ridiculed and severely ridiculed, but no one can take it away unless you give it up yourself.

13, I am afraid that life will become a fixed pattern, and I will accept rigid habits and remain unchanged. I want to escape from all the familiar and closed environments. There must be other possibilities in life. Keeping still day after day will only increase the decay and atrophy of life. Only by constantly leaving and starting again can we maintain a lively, healthy and young vitality.

14, no matter what age you live in, there are always too many thoughts, troubles and confusions. If a person loses these and is content with the status quo, that is the end of youth in the true sense.

15, the heart is like a new house. When they first moved in, they all wanted to put all the furniture and decorations in. In the end, they found that this home was like an alley, but there was no place for them to stay comfortably, so they began to consider abandoning or discarding some unnecessary things.

16, just because I am too young, all the sadness and happiness are so profound, and it is earth-shattering when I touch it lightly.

17, happiness is actually much simpler than we thought. The problem is that if we don't explore all the complicated misfortunes, throw away all the falls we should fall and climb all the mountains, we can't believe that there is happiness in the palm-sized shade at the foot of the mountain.

18, the heart is like a heavy castle door. There is no lock outside, only the latch inside. No matter how hard others kick outside, it is better to dial it gently inside.

19, the relationship between love and people may be like a whip, a top pulled up. It moves, it hurts.

20. I will always be with you. I need you every minute. You are like sunshine and air.

Good night, kind words: you have to walk on your own, and you have to eat your own hardships.

1, in love, we are all insecure people, suffering from loss. Obviously, it is dependent, but it should be insignificant; Obviously, you care, but you must show that you don't care. Don't say I'm indifferent, don't say I'm heartless, I don't care on the surface, it doesn't matter, who knows how I really feel inside. We are always too rational, so we are unhappy. When everything is well thought out and success or failure is calculated, there will be no surprises in life, and it is difficult to have surprises. I once thought that I lived very clearly, but later I found that a person who really lived very clearly may not have a heart that lived too clearly. Good night~

Life is a wandering journey. Who passed you by and who you met was actually a beautiful accident. . Be kind to yourself, forget the past, let go of the present and don't think too much about the future. Settle your mood, get rid of impetuousness, and be calm and natural. Good night~

4, some things, you really didn't see clearly, see clearly, heartache; Some people, you really don't understand, understand and hurt. Life is a kind of confusion, a vague, unclear, confused and vague. Some people are very happy, but they look very upset; Some people should be worried, but they look happy. Good night~

5. How long has it been since we contacted each other? Life is not long. How lucky you are to meet the person you love. I've been thinking about how brave it will be to just stand in the noisy crowd and stare at each other and say the first sentence if you and I never contact again after many years.

6. In this world, people always go against their wishes, do things they don't like and live lives they don't want. Don't ask others why, ask yourself why. Pain will remind you of what you did wrong. Only after going through the baptism of pain will you know what you need. Good night~

7. Life is complete when there is sweetness in the bitterness. It is natural to have cloudy days and sunny days. Feeling sad and happy is called experience. Noisy and harmonious love is fun. Life is too short to leave us time to wake up with regrets every day. So, love those who love you and do something worthwhile. Good night~

8. I always thought that it was still a long way to go after all. I always thought I would never forget it. After all, I can't remember. What I always thought could not be healed will no longer hurt, and what I have been waiting for will be put down. I think, some love must live in peace.

9. Remember, Zhang Ailing said: Love is not complicated, just three words: come and go, either I love you, or I hate you, or forget it, how are you? I'm sorry. I've always liked this sentence. In love, by fate, I love you and can hold hands with you until I am old; No chance, forget it, just live in peace, just leave and give each other a broad space.

10, people, how many disabilities can be accepted calmly and how many pains can be easily settled. Incompleteness must exist, otherwise what else can life pursue. Without pursuit, people can't live. There must be happiness. It is precious to settle the pain and usher in happiness. Complain less, pursue more, and have a healthy and upward heart, which is more valuable than happiness itself. Like and dislike is a kind of tolerance, and unacceptable is a realm. Good night~

1 1. Being lovelorn does no harm to your body, because you are the only one who will hurt your body forever. Not sad. Love only occupies a small part of the heart. In fact, lovelorn is a kind of emotional injury. You want revenge, you are unwilling, you find reasons, and these emotions hurt you deeply. So if you get rid of your emotions, you can cure the pain of lovelorn. Let the negative emotions go with the smelly man, you are the final winner.

12, the worst thing in life is not to lose someone you love, but to lose yourself because you love someone too much. Injury makes a person grow, time makes a person strong, and the end of love makes two people learn to see through it overnight. Good night~

13, there is no such thing as love in the world. Love is just an instant feeling, which will definitely change with time and mood. If your so-called favorite leaves you, please wait patiently, let your heart slowly precipitate, and the pain in your heart will gradually fade away.

14, I'm not afraid of falling in my own dreams, but I'm afraid of getting lost in other people's miracles. Every life is a unique way. On the road, bow your head to observe, not despise; Looking up is to seek, not to worship. Paying too much attention to yourself will not grow; If you value others too much, you will lose yourself if you have a dream. It's okay to walk all night for fear of getting lost in the flashing neon. Living a wonderful life is the most important thing in life.

Ye is tired of staying under the tree every day. The wind came after Ye and promised to take her around the world. Ye and Feng left. After the passion, the wind tired, threw the leaves on the ground and refused to go. The leaves were covered with mud and crushed by wheels. At this time, she thought of trees and peace together. Ye understands that the world is very big, but even if you travel all over the world, you may only have one of your own. If you miss one, you may miss a lifetime. Good night~

16, promise, sometimes, is what liars say to fools. Don't break your heart for the wrong person. Even if no one loves you, try to be a lovely person. Don't blame anyone, don't laugh at anyone, don't envy anyone. The sun is shining, running in the wind and rain, dreaming your own dreams and going your own way. Good night~

17, in love, we grow up and we get old. We care, we miss, but we understand that although we care, there are many obstacles. We have learned to love, but we have also seen through it. We become smart, but we also see through lies because we are smart. Good night~

18, every love will move from passion to dullness. At first, the electric shock-like excitement and infatuation gradually became gentle and calm, less impulsive, and began to perceive people's shortcomings in their hearts, and they would be agitated because they lost their freshness. In fact, love is only the person who stays around after the prosperity is gone. Just, who would you like to see that long water flow with?

19, everyone always has secrets that they don't want to disclose, so don't force them. Love is a kind of hypnosis, who absorbed you after waking up. This is why I always feel that I have not only lost him, but also lost a part of myself after loving him. The loved one is always in charge of the spirit, but the loved one is lost. In every sincere relationship, there is always a person who sacrifices his soul and gains cruelty.

Don't suddenly care about me. Not every time you show up, I feel happy. If the ending is not what I want, then I would rather not participate in this process. I don't want to humble myself any more, and I won't always be a bitch. All right, scar, forget the pain. I won't do this anymore. If you don't love, please leave. If you don't hesitate, I won't love you. In fact, nothing can't be let go. If you are sad, you will naturally let go. Good night~

2 1, which means not loving, not wanting, forgetting and giving up; Sometimes, people's memories are always so fragile. Often a glass of wine, a song, a crossroads; It will remind you, just like a mirage. See your beauty, your smile, your tears; See my fault, my bad, my drunkenness; I see us holding hands, our vows and our happiness. Good night~

22. Nothing in the world is eternal. If it flows, it flows away; If it exists, it will dry up; If it grows, it will wither slowly. Why not let go, because we want to be happy. Love when you can. Don't let your love wait too long, and don't let your happiness wait too long.

23. It is not worthwhile for some people to give up their lives and sacrifice their happiness at a certain sharp point of their emotions just for some small emotions. Leaving is the normal state of love and life. Those pains increase the thickness of your life. One day, when you can turn around with a smile, you will know that you are different! Love is a kind of fate after all, and it can't be managed. Good night~

24. Memories about love should be collected, but future happiness should be found by yourself. As I get older, I feel more and more lonely. Looking back on your emotional path, there are more or less a lot of sweetness and smiles. Gradually, I no longer hate everything in the past, only hope to find a feeling of my own in the future.

25. In this life, we have to walk many roads, including straight roads and narrow roads. There is scenery in spring and desolation in winter. In any case, we have to go our own way and suffer our own hardships, and others can't help us. Looking up at the stars in the sky and looking back at the footprints left, we have been trudging through loneliness and sticking to it. As long as you are willing to go, you have already set foot on the road; As long as you don't shy away or back down, the applause of life will eventually ring for you.