From a medical point of view, the eye is the most acute of the five senses, accounting for more than 70% of the sensory field, so it is called the "king of the five senses". Meng Ziyun: "Those who survive are not good at eyes, but eyes cannot hide their evil. If the chest is straight, the eyes will fall, and if the chest is not straight, the eyes will be dizzy. " It is clear at a glance to reveal your true feelings from your eyes, because "eyes are the windows to your soul".
People's deep psychological desires and feelings are first reflected in the line of sight. The movement, direction and concentration of sight all express different psychological states. Observing the change of sight is helpful to the communication between people. Climbing the windowsill is not difficult to see the situation inside the house, and you can know people's inner reactions by reading their eyes.
The method of seeing people's hearts with eyes has a long history. A person's character cannot be changed, no matter how profound his cultivation is. As the saying goes, a leopard cannot change his spots. Sex is internal, emotion is external, sex is body, and emotion is used. Sex is stimulated by the outside world and is emotional. Different stimuli, the most obvious and difficult part of emotions is not language, action or attitude, but eyes. Words, actions and attitudes can be disguised by pretending, but the eyes can't pretend. When we look at our eyes, we don't pay attention to the size and length of the circle, but to the flicker of our eyes.
If you see a person's eyes calm, you can understand that he has a plan for your anxiety and will definitely win. Just ask him for advice and express anxiety. If he won't make it clear, it's because it's confidential. There's no need to ask more questions. Just wait for his advice.
If a person's eyes are wandering, you can understand that he is helpless. It's no use worrying for nothing and asking him for instructions. At this time, I can only calm down and think of another way to deal with it. Don't ask more questions, otherwise it will only increase his confusion. This time is also an opportunity to show your instincts. Find a way by yourself!
If we see a person's eyes shooting sideways, as if there is a thorn, we can understand that this person is extremely indifferent. If there is a request, we don't have to tell him for the time being. We should seize the opportunity to quit as soon as possible, even if it is not appropriate to stay for a while. The retreat studies the reasons for his indifference and then seeks ways to save his feelings.
If a person's eyes are gloomy, he should understand that this is a fierce signal. You must be careful when dealing with him. His vicious hand is waiting for a move behind his back. If we are not ready to meet him, then we'd better retreat as soon as possible.
If you see a person's eyes flowing and unusual, you can understand that he is scheming and wants to give others a taste. At this time, we should step by step, don't approach easily, it may be a trap set by him, and if we slip, we will fall into his hands. Don't believe his sweet words too much. It's the bait on the hook and the icing on the poison. Be extra careful.
If a person's eyes are dull and his lips are white, it can be understood as being afraid of the current problem. Although it doesn't matter what I say, I'm not desperate, and I'm still trying to find a way, but I can't figure out why. At this time, we don't need to ask more questions. We should take a step back and consider ways to deal with it. If we have a ready-made solution, we should put it to him immediately and express our confidence that it can be realized.
If a person's eyes seem to be burning, you can understand that he must be very angry and in high spirits at the moment. If you are not going to break with him, you should immediately say that you can compromise and make a quick comeback. Otherwise, one more step will inevitably lead to fierce confrontation.
If a person has calm eyes and a smile on his face, it can be understood as being satisfied with something. If you want to please him, you might as well say a few more compliments. If you want something, this is also a good opportunity. I believe it will be easier to meet your requirements than usual.
If a person's eyes are distracted and absent-minded, it can be understood that he is tired of what we say, and it is useless to continue talking. At this point, if you don't hurry up or take the opportunity to ask for leave, or find a new topic and say something he wants to hear, you will definitely encounter a rebuff.
If a person's eyes are fixed, he can understand that he thinks it is necessary to listen to what we say, and he should say it tactfully according to his predetermined plan. As long as his opinion is not bad and the method is feasible, he is bound to accept it.
If we see a person's eyes drooping or even his head tilting downwards, we can understand that he is deeply worried and very painful. At this time, if you are smart, don't tell him your pride, which will aggravate his pain, and don't tell him your pain, because it is more and more unbearable to help each other in the same boat. We have to say something comforting and excuse ourselves as soon as possible. It's boring to say more.
If you see a person's eyes looking up, you can understand that he doesn't care what we say. No matter how good our reasons are and how clever our statements are, there will still be no brilliant results. It is better to stop abruptly as soon as possible and retreat to the nearest road.
In a word, people's eyes are scattered and gathered, moving and static, flowing and condensing, gloomy, dull, drooping and rising. After careful understanding, you will find all kinds of human feelings.