* * * There are three main gains from reading: 1. Training: Opening books by yourself is the training stage. The coach summed up the problems that need to be disassembled in advance, and only by following them can he reap the essence of the book. 2. Thinking collision: A group of people read together and watch others share every day. The collision of the same knowledge and different ideas makes it easy for them to get through their own blind spots of thinking. 3. Persistence: For the essence of knowledge, you don't need to refine it too much, saving a lot of time and energy, and you can read more intently.
Transition, this book mainly solves how people grow up quickly. Transformation is not something for nothing, but the nonlinearity of personal efforts and benefits. The success of transformation is mostly to stimulate the rapid growth of individuals and learn key knowledge with lower-level laws, which are also lower-level laws. The cosmic wisdom in Charlie Munger's Wisdom is also explaining lower-level laws, so we are linked with previous knowledge. Today, I share this book with you, and summarize my sharing from back to front, mainly sharing three modules: 1. Open, focused and connected. 2. Three stages of transition. 3. How to use the underlying rules?
In this book, the author mentioned many new ways of playing, just making the head, connecting the brain, asking questions about life and understanding the system. So what brought about the conceptual change of personal development paradigm? In fact, the answer is obvious, that is, connection. 80% of people's success depends on the relationship, which is what we usually call the relationship between strength and weakness. In the past, you only focused on the strong connections of people around you. Nowadays, in the Internet age, every piece of information spreads very fast, and every sharing will affect people in all directions. There are many weak connections around us. In order to better adapt to this connection mode, we need a new paradigm!
So how to change this paradigm, there is a way of sharing, openness and concentration, and different thinking cognition will have different gains. Many of us are still thinking in school, and feel that providing our knowledge to others means that we are weak, but society is not a battlefield of life and death, so sharing makes us more connected. We need to change the school's thinking. I used to be a closed system person. What changed my mind? It is Mr. Chen's self-breaking label, and his theory of evolution let me see the advantages of time accumulation, which can not be surpassed in a short time. It is this advantage that enables you to quickly become the head of an industry, and this advantage can be imitated, because the underlying laws will not be easily changed. The most important thing is that you are willing to admit that others are better than you, so that you can imitate. When you are willing to share it openly, you are really happy for the achievements of others. Be a good person and learn to read people's thoughts.
Look at the world and you will have a world view. Without looking at the world, these around us are the whole world. Looking around the world, we will have a bigger perspective and a bigger pattern. We will look at our work, our life, life is not only immediate, but also poetry and distant. This vision is open, and the biggest difference between concentration and obsession is vision. You don't know what will happen if you don't see the bigger world. When you look at the overall situation, you will be yourself well.
Three stages of self-transformation
1. Cognitive transition, we usually encounter many incomprehensible and unanswerable questions, but one day a new concept enters the brain and suddenly opens a brand-new field of vision, and the past troubles become clear.
2. Ability to jump. By using new methods and accumulating practice, our ability has risen to a higher level unconsciously and will remain unchanged for a long time. What we have to do is not to give up.
3. Energy level transition, the process of values from the inside out, we are constantly improving, and our internal knowledge is also increasing, but the benefits shown externally take time. At this time, you need to make your own choices and find the right direction, and you will explode and look at the problem from a completely different angle.
The third change is the change of our paradigm. It is also mentioned in The Beauty of System that paradigm is the most important condition that affects the system. So how to realize the transition of energy levels?
Take life as a system, and constantly practice and change our life with the underlying laws we have mastered.
Today, I share the usage of two basic laws according to my own experience.
1.28 rule applies to our life;
Our life is also a system, which includes wealth, career, growth cognition, emotional communication and physical health. Every aspect of our problems will reduce our sense of happiness or physical ability, so we should devote 20% of our energy to every aspect and learn 80% of each module by using the "28" rule.
1. Body: You should control and improve your body through exercise, healthy diet and stress adjustment. Exercise is an important and non-urgent matter, so few people insist on it.
2. Spirit: The spiritual level guides our life direction, which includes human nature, our own core values, cognitive level and spiritual level. The promotion requires continuous learning, a deep understanding of the center and goal of life, and constant reflection and persistence.
3. Intelligence: Most of our intelligence education is flawed and divorced from the school system. We no longer study hard, no longer write, and no longer regard it as a way to accurately express our abilities. Developing the habit of reading excellent literary works regularly is the best way to expand your thinking. The improvement of intelligence mainly depends on education. Another effective way to keep learning new knowledge, broaden your horizons and sharpen your mind is writing. By constantly recording your own thoughts and learning experiences, you can improve your thinking and think deeply, rather than superficial things. Everything is linked and developed.
4. Finance: Learn financial management knowledge. In this era of depreciating wealth, we can spend 20% of our time to make our wealth appreciate continuously, so as to provide the huge investment we need in our continuous study and life.
5. Social emotion: This level is mainly reflected in interpersonal relationships, communication skills and creative cooperation. At this time, we need to grasp the winning thinking, learn to listen and understand others, learn to deal with different opinions, and find a way to neutralize them. At the personal level, we need to adhere to principles, affirm ourselves, be kind to others and serve others.
6. Occupation: It is most important to study professional knowledge, because only by accumulating advantages in your own research field can you become the 20% person. With our 80% development in many aspects, we can quickly get rid of people who started at the same time.
The application of golden thinking circle: a sharp weapon to quickly see through the essence of the problem. The most basic application of the golden thinking circle is that when you encounter something, ask why first, that is, find out the meaning behind it, not do it for the sake of doing it. Many times, we consider problems from the appearance of things. Simono Sinek, the founder of the golden thinking circle, once held an apple (for example). Most computer manufacturers stand on the phenomenon of things when marketing. The computer we produce has good performance and is easy to use. Do you want to buy one? Unlike Apple, its marketing message is: 1. Everything we do is for breakthrough and innovation. We firmly believe that we should think differently. 3. The way we challenge the status quo is to make our products clear in design, simple in use and friendly in interface. It is in this process that we made the best computer. Do you want to buy one? Apple's introduction begins with why we exist and why we produce different things for our own marketing. You may feel uncomfortable buying headphones from other computers, but Apple feels natural buying its mobile phones, headphones and MP3 players. Their propaganda is to do something beneficial to the experience, which is a difference in thinking. Sell their own values, sell their reasons for existence.
Some high-end goods take this route. They have their own stories and feelings. One of the key factors for them to get high premium is to convey their values. What they sell you is quality and affection.
How to cultivate your own golden thinking circle in life is to ask yourself more why, why I did this copy, why my emotions can't be controlled, why my time management is not good, and why I give up easily.
Note: The application of golden thinking circle comes from the good study of Teacher Cheng Jia. The application of the 28 rule in our life is mainly a summary of seven habits of transitional and efficient people.