Two days ago, my school sister Xiao Xiong called me in the middle of the night. She said that she is in Putian now. After a long-distance relationship with her boyfriend Xiaoqian, her boyfriend Xiaoqian's persistent cold violence made her unbearable. Under the influence of various factors, Xiao Xiong wanted him to understand. Xiaoqian, who can be a boyfriend, left the dust bear in Putian on the pretext of "friends falling out of love". At twelve o'clock in the evening, there was no figure in the street of Putian, and Xiong's mentality of walking alone in the street was shattered-she saw love rat's face clearly and tore off love rat's disguise.
After listening to Bear's story, I realized that Penny didn't love Bear for a long time, but he didn't say anything and wanted to force Bear to quit first. This kind of thing generally has three major manifestations. If these three signs match one of them in your's relations, then you should prepare for the worst.
First of all, the first sign that men don't love is that they have lost their enthusiasm for communication.
Communication is a good way to express love. If a man doesn't want to share details of his life with you, or avoids talking about all kinds of ugly things he has encountered, it will be a very dangerous signal, which means that he has taken you out of the ranks of the best confidants and will always be simply "good morning" and "good night" to you. You haven't heard from him, just like a grain of rice in the vast sea of people.
The reason for this is probably because there are new love buds. Perhaps a new girl appeared in his life, which took away his heart and made his love for you begin to cool down.
Secondly, the second manifestation that men don't love is that they are no longer willing to compromise and tolerate for you.
It is easy for a man to have a sense of responsibility-he should always think of the person he loves. The existence of this sense of responsibility is the expression of love.
In the long-term ideological indoctrination, men have to bear far greater responsibilities than women. Instilled by a long-term sense of responsibility, the expression of a man's love for a person is compromise and tolerance. When you find that he is not tolerant of you, even unwilling to compromise at first, and even rejects your most basic choice, maybe you should face up to all kinds of problems in your relationship, otherwise this relationship will gradually fade away and eventually collapse.
Third, the third sign that men don't love is that they will often accuse you and even get angry with you.
Among men and women, the last person who should be angry is the man. Because in the interaction between men and women, it is easy to see men angry, and as a result, women are angry because men are angry, and finally men have to coax women.
So many men are annoyed and angry when they are in love, not to mention getting angry often. There is only one reason for being angry often, that is, men don't love it. It is because men speculate on women with malice that they are angry. This is the key to being angry, because they don't love.
I often come with the greatest enthusiasm for love and devote myself to love with a beautiful vision of love. But when the status quo makes you dissatisfied, when you realize that the other person's love for you is beginning to dissipate, loving yourself is the right choice.
We can't pray that the fried seeds will sprout. It is better to put our beautiful expectations for love in the future, put our expectations in the future, take back our hearts and treat ourselves well now. In fact, it is also the key to the continuation of love. The premise of loving others is to love yourself.
Don't let what you once loved become your weakness. Love yourself more and love will come. Love is the problem, and love is the antidote. Its complexity determines that you need to spend more time and energy waiting for the arrival of the person who really loves you. Whenever you lose sleep at night, it is the most correct choice to learn to look forward to love and face yourself now.
There is no such thing as failure unless you dare not try. So is love. When you meet a bad person, it's not that God doesn't care for you, but that fate predestines you. But we never give up the expectation of love, expecting it to come and shine.