Husband and wife work with mixed feelings.
"In the unit, we are just colleagues; At home, we are husband and wife. " Mr. and Mrs. He Lijun told reporters about their work and life patterns-distinguishing between public and private. "In life, we can accommodate each other; But at work, we must maintain our own principles and positions and get along like colleagues. " The couple said this. He Lijun works in the technical department of a state-owned enterprise in the city, and his wife Zhou Ying works in the finance department. Because of the different departments and jobs, they naturally handle the relationship between colleagues and husband and wife just right. Every morning, the couple walked into the unit building, said goodbye and went directly to their respective departments. Within 8 hours, if it wasn't for special reasons, I would never drop in or even call. "We often don't touch it all day. At work, we just maintain a pure colleague relationship. " He Lijun said. Besides, Zhou Ying thinks that she and her husband are becoming more and more caring in helping each other. "My husband and I both like frankness. We work in the same company. Naturally, some colleagues have objections to our relationship, but we never flinch or escape. We always help each other, and every time we encounter trouble at work, we discuss and solve it together. It is naturally very easy to work. " After work, the couple sent messages to each other, made an appointment to meet at the gate of the unit, and then went home together. "The biggest advantage of the couple's affairs is that they don't have to pick up their wives from work." He Lijun joked that it was convenient for them to take a taxi to and from work together, which also saved time and money. "Although we work in the same company, due to the different nature of our work, we are not familiar with each other's business, and some contents involve secrets. After returning to China, we will try not to talk about work and stay relaxed at home. " He Lijun said that in case of differences in work, they would stick to their position. Principle, after all, can't be emotional.
I have always believed in one sentence: "Husband and wife are United, and their profits are broken." It can be said that my achievements in my work are all due to my husband's encouragement and help. Chen Juan told reporters that her husband Liu Qiang was her college classmate. After graduation, Liu Qiang entered an automobile mold company in the city as a technician. Because of his excellent work, he was promoted to the head of the technical department by the unit leader. It was also when her husband was promoted that her unit was dissolved and Chen Juan lost his job. Then, Liu introduced to work in his unit.
Chen Juan said that she can only be a junior computer producer in a big company with many experts. During this period, Liu Qiang gave her a lot of help as a colleague. "Every time I ask him if there is anything he doesn't understand, he answers and guides me seriously, and I am more attached to him and appreciate him. It is with my husband's help that I can adapt to the environment more quickly, and with my previous work experience, I completed the task well and finally stayed in the company! " Chen Juan attributed her success to the cooperation between her husband and wife.
Tao Zi, an employee of a construction equipment company, described her office romance as follows: I only met my husband when I entered this company. Because in the same company, when I fall in love, in order to avoid everyone's gossip, my relationship can only develop in the dark. Even shopping is secretly arranged first, and then broke up in tandem. If you meet a colleague, they will split up immediately. I usually use text messages when I contact, and I will call my mobile phone directly, for fear that others will hear me.
However, the illusion deliberately created will eventually deceive colleagues' "discerning eyes". Because I am tall, my colleagues will look at me with his tall figure: "Is it at least as tall as him to find a boyfriend?" Usually when we talk about falling in love, everyone will look at us carefully. Even our wedding reception will inevitably become a topic of discussion among colleagues. When I got married, I invited 20 colleagues and he invited 50 colleagues. As a result, someone said to me half-truths: "You are married, and half the company is here, so ostentatious!" And at work, sometimes the change of position will also become the handle of colleagues. For example, since the beginning of this year, my performance has been outstanding, and I was promoted to the head of the downtown area by the supervisor. He was transferred to the county to be responsible for developing the county-level market. This change always makes me feel that someone is poking me in the back: "It's her who built her happiness on the pain of men."
It's time for the two of us to hide, but what my colleagues want to say is that being late for work will guess that you must have worked too hard last night. If you get off work early, you will ask whether your wife cooks or your husband cooks. Even if the company organizes an outing, they will make a "concluding" speech: "Look, the leader just talked to us about business, but he talked to you two about private affairs!"