It's a long story My husband and I have been married for three years. We met when we worked together in a company. I remember when my husband worked in that company, I came from behind. My husband fell in love with me at first sight on the first day I arrived at the company. Friends for a month, my husband confessed to me. A month later, we became lovers. During my love, my husband was very kind to me. We have been together for more than a year, and both sides are very special.
After more than a year of love, my husband proposed to me. I nodded in agreement with his proposal, so we began to meet both parents. I remember that when I took my husband to see my parents for the first time, my parents were very satisfied with him and didn't ask anything to embarrass my husband. They didn't ask her to buy a wedding room, nor did they ask her to give her parents a high price bride price, so her husband was very happy. My husband told me that he not only met a good wife but also found a good father-in-law. After dinner with my parents at our home, my husband took me to see my future father-in-law.
I remember that my husband took me to his house for dinner for the first time that day, and my in-laws were very satisfied with me. My in-laws learned that my husband was taking me to their house for dinner and went to town to buy delicious food to entertain us. After both parents agreed with our colleagues, we asked them to meet and talk about the wedding. As a result, my parents and in-laws had a smooth talk with me. Although my parents didn't ask my in-laws for a wedding room, they provided it to me and me.
"In-laws! It's very kind of you to have a wedding room. After all, young people don't want to live with old people after they get married. Nowadays, many young people live separately from their parents-in-law, and naturally our children are indispensable. Although our family conditions are not dripping, we still have the ability to buy a house! " My mother-in-law looked at her mother and said ...
"Then trouble your mother!" My mother said politely. My parents talked to my parents-in-law. Besides talking about the wedding, they also talked about many other things, laughing and laughing. Seeing them like this, feelings should be good. At the last wedding, we set the bride price at 654.38+ 10,000 yuan, and my parents-in-law promised to buy us a house of about 300,000 yuan. After talking, my father and my father-in-law had a few drinks and almost got drunk. Then our wedding went smoothly. After the wedding, we did as our parents-in-law asked. My husband and I live in a wedding room bought by my parents-in-law. This house is not big, with an area of 90 square meters. After my husband and I got married, we lived a happy life and went to work together every day.
I got pregnant after less than a year of marriage. My mother-in-law learned that I was pregnant and moved in with us, saying it would be convenient to take care of me in the future. Because I vomited badly after pregnancy, my husband asked me not to go to work and take care of the baby at home. After marriage, my husband is always good to me, and my parents-in-law are also very good to me. My mother-in-law took good care of me after learning that I was pregnant. /kloc-After getting pregnant in October, I finally reached the delivery period, and prepared an old hen for me to eat every day.
My brother married his girlfriend not long after I was put in prison. My brother-in-law asked my parents to prepare a wedding room for my brother and brother-in-law, but it was not very low. I also want to give them a bride price of 6.5438+0.5 million. Although the conditions in our family are not very good, my parents can still afford this requirement, so my brother and brother-in-law got married smoothly, but the good times did not last long. After they got married, they did marry their parents. My parents forbade me to live with my brother after the house was demolished. Don't know why. My brother-in-law lives with my mother and quarrels every day, but my brother has always stood by him. My mother often feels aggrieved to live with my brother-in-law, so she proposes to live with us.
"daughter! Our house was demolished, but the demolition cost was not much, so I live with your brother now, but my daughter-in-law and I quarrel every day. My daughter-in-law is too strong for us to get along. Now they don't want to live with me. Can I move to your place for retirement? " My mother said to me ...
"Of course you can! I told my husband at night that you will come tomorrow! " I said to my mother ... I agreed to my mother's request without hesitation. Although I said that my married daughter is like spilled water, I will give my parents a pension in the future, but I want to give my parents a pension, so I discussed it with my husband, and my husband agreed to "husband! My mother lives at my brother's house and has been quarreling with my sister-in-law. My mother is often wronged in her sister-in-law's house, so she wants to move in with us. Can you see it? " I looked at my husband and said, ...
"Yes, I think my mother is very diligent. She can help us share the housework after she moves in! " My husband looked at me and said ... and the next day, my parents were going to pack up and move in with us. Because the distance between our two houses is not far, only 100 kilometers, so my parents arrived at our house in about an hour by car. Although my husband and I discussed letting my parents move in, we didn't tell my parents-in-law that they were coming to support the elderly. We didn't tell my parents that the first day my parents came home, they thought they were here to play.
"Daughter-in-law, don't your parents come to play? Why haven't you left for half a month! " My mother-in-law looked at me and said ... "Mom, didn't my husband tell you? My parents often quarrel with my brother and daughter, and my mother is often wronged by them, so my mother wants to move in with us and let us support him. My husband and I agreed, and I thought my husband told you! " I told my mother-in-law ...
"what! They came to our home to support the elderly. What shall we do? This house is only 90 square meters, so we can't let two families live in the same house. Say it again! Your parents have your brother's pension. Why did we move here and let you provide for their old age? When you get married, you will be our daughter-in-law. You should give us a pension. Besides, how can a married daughter support her mother? " My mother-in-law told me ... Although my mother-in-law already knew that my parents were coming to support the elderly, she didn't quarrel with me that day. On the contrary, she kept a straight face to my parents. In the days to come, my mother-in-law laughed less and less. Every time she talks to me, she talks to my parents with a straight face. Later, the time became longer and longer. As the days passed, my parents-in-law couldn't stand it, so they thought about simply driving my mother away.
My mother-in-law just fell and my parents felt embarrassed. Then my parents thought about moving things and leaving. When they heard that my parents were moving away, my mother-in-law began to smile at my parents and say something nice to them, saying that they would come to play more often in the future. At that time, I could see the helplessness of my parents moving away. They will be angry with my mother-in-law and wronged by my daughter-in-law. My parents don't know where they are now. I feel helpless when I see my parents so helpless. Why did my parents raise me so much, but in the end, they asked me to go to other people's homes to support other people's parents' old people, and they were also the ones who lacked their daughters to support her most? There is nothing I can do to support the elderly. Can I say that my married daughter really can't afford to support her parents?
Hello, Ms. Zhang! I don't think your mother-in-law is wrong in this matter. Both your brother and your brother-in-law are responsible for this. Your brother is also responsible. You should do ideological work with your brother. It's not easy for your parents to support you and your brother so much. Your brother should really support your parents at home. No matter how noisy your parents are with your brother, your brother can't tell you not to support the elderly! So I think you should do ideological work with your brother.