In real life, emotion depends more on operation and people you meet. About feelings and marriage, we should see these truths clearly, and maybe we will live happily.
0 1 In marriage, it is easier to live in harmony than to fall in love. If you want to go to the end, it is natural for husband and wife to live in harmony. It may be frank at first, but it is more important for Qi Xin to work together later. Love entering marriage is romantic and realistic, and there may be some disappointments. At this moment, there will be many setbacks and tempering. If you always look at it with the attitude of falling in love, married life may be a lot different.
The object is romantic, and a person can tolerate you as much as possible, but marriage is vinegar and needs to be managed together. If you don't care about each other's feelings in marriage, you will definitely die together. In a good marriage, mutual tolerance and harmony are very important and directly related to each other's feelings. Marriage is more important than love. Only by understanding tolerance, humility and retrogression can such a marriage become more and more harmonious and beautiful.
In marriage, independence is the only way to the last marriage, not by one person, but by helping each other. Everyone thinks that a good marriage should make two people better and better, and such a marriage is meaningful. In marriage, we are independent and equal, so the marriage will remain stable and work together.
If in marriage, one person keeps making progress and the other person stands still, then the person who walks in front will naturally get rid of the person behind. Only those who are lonely inside can create happiness, and those who have no self are doomed to lose happiness. A good marriage is that each other becomes a better self, supports each other and lights each other up together, while blindly attaching to each other can only give each other work pressure, so marriage life will be unbalanced.
In marriage, mutual honesty is necessary. I have to admit that entering the marriage life is actually a whole, and we need to treat it sincerely at this time. Since you have chosen a person, you should be honest and don't have to hide too much. Although everyone has secrets, honesty is very important. Only by looking at someone sincerely can the other person feel your sincerity and respond to you sincerely. If everything is hidden, such a marriage will eventually go wrong.
No matter what problems each other encounters, we must understand that husband and wife are a whole from beginning to end. Since you have chosen the other person, you should choose to trust him and face the difficulties together, instead of avoiding them blindly. A marriage that can't be honest with each other won't last long. Cheating and cheating in marriage are the biggest killers. As we all know, a good marriage is always a heart-to-heart communication, so as to get the sincerity.
Summarizing marriage is actually a process of mutual achievement. No one's marriage is perfect, and no one is perfect. Some people tolerate each other and know how to be content. Therefore, a truly happy marriage is to see each other's advantages, see each other's shortcomings, find the most harmonious way to get along, and treat each other sincerely.