First, the original boyfriend didn't get the most desired result at first, and now he is together. It is said that the more you can't get, the more you want, but all you get is inner satisfaction, and nothing else.
Second, the original boyfriend has been separated for several years, and now the lifestyle and state are different from the original. In other words, there is a distance in thought. Although you are together, it is only to satisfy your own ideas.
Third, the old boyfriend is still young. Compared with the current boyfriend, everything in the future, life, emotion and age are very different. Older people will know more about hurting people. You will understand when you are older.
After all, your current boyfriend has lived with you for two years. He is more clear about everything in reality, your thoughts, your behavior habits, your manners, your social interaction and everything about you. This is more suitable for life.
For marriage, love alone is not enough. The combination of two people is actually the combination of social relations between two families. Actually, it's not two people's personal behavior.
6. You should choose a person who suits you better than the one you love. Choose a person you love and a person who loves you. These are two completely different feelings and concepts, one is active and the other is passive, which also means that your life is easy and hard. Maybe you are too young to understand so much. Loving a person is actually a very tiring thing, which is not just the consequences of a temporary choice.
Seven, to believe in fate, many things are doomed, once missed, there will be no more. Going back is not what it used to be.
8. Love has a shelf life. If you choose marriage, don't just consider who you love more. Love is just a part of marriage. If it weren't for marriage, that friend would naturally find someone you love more.
No matter who you choose, someone will get hurt. But when it's handled, it will be lower. I hope you can cherish the people in front of you and stop making choices that embarrass yourself and hurt others.
I wish you happiness, choose what you choose, and never regret it, because it is your choice. ! ! !