At that time, Xiaoling had been with Xiaoxu for more than a year. When Xiaoxu brought Xiaoling home, Xiaoxu's parents were very satisfied with Xiaoling. After seeing her, they thought it was their daughter-in-law. They want Xiaoxu to get a marriage certificate with Xiaoling as soon as possible. Although Xiaoling divorced and had children, and Xiaoxu was unmarried, Xiaoxu's parents never cared about Xiaoling. They think it's enough to live with their son in a down-to-earth way. Who failed?
But on the first day when Xiaoling entered Xiaoxu's house, Xiaoxu's sister-in-law hated Xiaoling, and she would never forget her contemptuous eyes. Xiaoling thought that everyone would be a family in the future, so she put up with it. After all, we still have to get along in the future. Xiaoling will try to make Xiaoxu's sister-in-law happy. She will ask Xiaoxu's sister-in-law what she likes, and then buy some things. Xiaoling thought that although her sister-in-law hated her very much, it was Xiaoxu who wanted to live with her, so many times she didn't notice the contemptuous and ignored eyes.
On New Year's Day in China, some strangers came to my house. Only after asking did I know that it was Xiaoxu, her sister-in-law's younger brother's house (brother's mother-in-law, sister-in-law, children and one person), and she also brought a strange girl. Girls born after 90 are unmarried, very independent, and have their own house, which is ok. Women's sixth sense is the strongest. Xiaoling guessed at that time that the girl was taken away by his sister-in-law. This girl is a good friend of her sister-in-law.
At that time, Xiaoxu and Xiaoling just lived together and didn't get married. Xiaoling vaguely felt that something was wrong. On the first night of New Year, she took Xiaoxu home, and Xiaoxu agreed. But later, I learned from my mother-in-law that this person introduced by Xiaoxu's sister-in-law was going to talk to Xiaoxu. (The girl also took a fancy to Xiaoxu. ) One hundred of his sisters-in-law in Xiaoxu disdained Xiaoling and wanted to fix Xiaoxu and the girl.
Xiaoling was angry at that time, and this anger has been endured and never vented. In the chat record between Xiaoling and her sister-in-law, Xiaoxu's sister-in-law said that Xiaoling's marriage was caused by herself, and her children would repay her in the future, leading to a causal cycle ... I talked with her a lot of unpleasant words, but none of them were blessings to her brother-in-law and Xiaoling, and all the words meant breaking up. Xiaoling cried for a long time because of this matter, and she had a long quarrel with Xiaoxu.
All this is in Xiaoling's heart. She wanted Xiaoxu to help her vent her anger, but Xiaoxu thought (you haven't married me yet, so I can't argue with my sister-in-law, because after all, she is my family), so Xiaoxu didn't make any move at that time. At that time, Xiaoling should have seen Xiaoxu clearly and separated from him, but Xiaoling didn't choose to separate at that time, because she loved Xiaoxu too much, because he also knew it wasn't Xiaoxu's fault.
But in Xiaoling's heart, it caused great harm, which was unacceptable to her heart. Every time she goes to their house, there is a fire in her heart and she can't say it. Even if Xiaoxu and Xiaoling got married later, Xiaoxu's sister-in-law never really saw Xiaoling.
Xiaoling is thinking that she will stay with Xiaoxu anyway, not with his sister-in-law, so she is determined to stay with Xiaoxu and live a good life.
But I didn't expect that it was because of these behaviors of my sister-in-law Xiaoxu that the seeds were planted in Xiaoling's heart and slowly sprouted. ...
Xiaoling has experienced a failed marriage. When Xiaoxu's sister-in-law said this, she especially denied herself. No one has bullied her like this since she was so big. She has no self-confidence, crying and insomnia. ...
Xiaoling's child was born in the fifth month, and she felt more and more wrong, and many behaviors were uncontrollable. Some people think she is crazy, and everyone doesn't understand. In fact, only she knows one thing. Because of Xiaoxu's sister-in-law's behavior towards her, Xiaoling has been adding fuel to the fire and never let it go out, so she became a "madman". Xiaoling's worst time is to commit suicide every day. This tortured her, and she felt timid and unable to control her emotions.
Later, with the help of her mother, brother and sister-in-law, Xiaoling gradually returned to normal through medication, acupuncture and surgery.
Of course, after that incident, Xiaoling and Xiaoxu's sister-in-law never met again. (The family slowly understood Xiaoling's inner suffering. ) In Xiaoling's mind, (Xiaoxu's sister-in-law) this person has long died, and she hopes that she will not contact that person. Later, there was no later, and the two of them had nothing to do! ! !
Many people think that some things can be forgotten, but most of the time, this is not an apology. Although Xiaoxu's sister-in-law also apologized to Xiaoling, what's the use? You stuck a knife in her chest and pulled it out. There was no blood?
Advise everyone to be a good person, do things well and don't do unnatural things! ! Otherwise, you will always get what you deserve! ! ! ! Every injury is a turning arrow! Being kind to others is being kind to yourself.