Counseling-I hate my mother. What should I do?

First, there are no impartial parents in the world. Jia She in A Dream of Red Mansions said that grandma was eccentric, and her ten fingers were long and short, although they all hurt when bitten. Second, the so-called first child is raised by books and the second child is raised by pigs. When she became a mother for the first time after the birth of her first child, just looking at her little face was full of joy. That kind of mood can only be obtained when mother is in recess. Even if the child only has a small cold, he will be extremely nervous. You are the second child, and your grandmother has always brought you up. Blood is one thing, feelings are one thing, and children brought up by themselves will always have deeper feelings. Third, you have a younger brother below. Generally speaking, the child in the middle is the most inconspicuous, because parents generally love the big and spoil the small. Although he (she) is not necessarily the best among brothers and sisters. This is a universal truth.

Although you suffered a lot in the process of growing up, now that you have grown up, you will understand that some things can't be forced, and mother and daughter are predestined, right? After all, it's not easy for her to send you to school and raise you. It's expensive to send you to college at home. Now that you have found a job and become financially independent, there is no need to recall past unhappiness and learn to be tolerant. Inherit the wind. As for your sister, don't have any economic contacts with her again. After all, it costs a lot of money to get married. The most important thing is that you have a boyfriend who loves you and cares about you. With this, you can thank God for his kindness to you.