Jia Jia looked at the list, uterine fibroids were greatly scratched out. The image shows that the tumor grows malignant under the lower abdomen and has grown to the size of an adult's fist. Look at the image, it's shocking.
Leiomyoma of uterus is not an unspeakable disease. Many hospitals, large and small, can do resection, with a high success rate and almost no risk. The cost of surgery is about 20 thousand, most of which can be reimbursed by medical insurance. Even in ordinary families, this disease is not a big deal. However, Jia Jia was so scared that she didn't dare to go out for several days under the quilt, fearing that the tumor would rupture if she moved. Jia Jia knew that she needed surgery as soon as possible, but hundreds of pieces of her body were left by Jia Jia, and Jia Jia struggled to ask her family for help.
Jia Jia is still very young, about 20 years old. She doesn't want to give up treatment. She is afraid of death, but she is also afraid of her family and parents. ...
Jiajia's parents are both out-and-out farmers. My mother is illiterate, withdrawn and stubborn. She only works as a coolie in farming and helps others pick sand and dust on the construction site during slack season.
Jia Jia's father is a grumpy, face-saving and boastful man. Once upon a time, this man worked in a coal mine. He is brave and not afraid of hardship. Luckily, he made a small fortune and barely built a building. But later, jingshan park stopped producing coal. After the coal was hollowed out, it ran away with the coal boss. Jia Jia's father worked hard for more than half a year, didn't get a penny, and owed a lot of money to the workers. Jia Jia seems to have lost his soul since his father lost his job for nearly 20 years. Coupled with his bad habit of drinking, many people are afraid to look for him to work. So Jia Jia's father fell into a vicious circle and never recovered. Drinking is even more unrestrained. I always bring some friends to my house to drink and play poker, which hollows out my home. The two children are still young and should study, but the family is getting poorer every day.
Jiajia's mother will only scold the fallen and frustrated man and close the door to prevent the drunken man from going home. Sad and sad, he sat at the door cursing and crying. Jaga and her sister were children, staring blankly at her disheveled mother, who kept wiping her nose. My father is missing.
Jia Jia just went to a junior college. She just graduated less than half a year ago, and her job has not yet settled. She can't even support herself and has no money to see a doctor. Jia Jia retracted those long-held thoughts, forced himself to calm down and tried to raise medical expenses.
Jia Jia called her father first. In Jia Jia's impression, her father loves her and values her more than his sister. Dad doesn't want to discuss anything with his mother at home, but he still wants to hear Jia Jia's opinion. The phone rang for a long time before dad picked it up.
"I'm drinking at your uncle's house! what can I do for you? Say it quickly, "Jia Jia's father shouted impatiently on the other end of the phone. "In front of friends, Jia Jia's father spoke in such a tone.
"Dad, I'm sick. I want to go to the hospital to see a doctor ... "
"What's the matter? How can good people get sick? You finally graduated, and you still want to cheat me of my money? "
"Dad, I really need money to cure diseases. I have to prepare about 20 thousand medical expenses, but medical insurance can reimburse more than half. It is enough for you to give me about 5,000 yuan, and I will find a way to find the rest. " Jiajia tried to discuss with her father calmly, trying to make him sympathize with her experience.
"For 5000 yuan, you are killing me! I can't even get 5 yuan at home! Think about it, I only have 1000 yuan a month, and I have to raise your mother for your two sisters to study. I have nowhere to find my own money for smoking and drinking. How can I give you so much money? "
"Dad, I know you saved some money before. Give me some help first! I can get a job and make money when I get well. I'll pay you back first. Can you lend me some now? "
"Oh, stop it, stop it, what kind of job can you find? You just want to suck my blood! If I had known, I would have given birth to you, loser! You tell me about you ... "
Father's mood is getting more and more excited, and the abuse is getting louder and louder. Jia tried to hold back his tears and hung up the phone, not wanting to be insulted by his father's words. The road to borrow money from my father is blocked. I haven't found a job after graduation for so long, and I have been disappointed. I really look down on Jiajia. Father wouldn't believe that a daughter who had no job and wanted him to raise would have money to pay him back, so he refused to borrow it. He felt that his daughter was useless, so he simply ignored it and regarded himself as the only reliable person in the world.
"The tumor in your stomach is as big as a fist. If you don't have surgery, I'm afraid the tumor will rupture in the stomach and it won't be saved. You should raise money for an operation as soon as possible, the sooner the better, and you don't need a minute. " These words that the doctor was anxious to get angry echoed deeply in Jia Jia's mind. Jia Jia's thoughts are like a flying fly, which buzzes with her and shakes her heart.
I can only call my mother to see if she has saved any money. Jia Jia hesitated to dial the phone, and soon her mother's voice was tired and a little wronged.
"Jia Jia, your father and I make a scene again. He also said he would give me rat poison. Why do you think my life is so bitter? Come back and see me! "
Jia Jia suppressed his emotions and said in a gentle tone as far as possible: "Mom, don't play hardball with Dad. Whatever he says, just ignore him. " Mom, I want to ask you, do you still have money? I am sick and need some money to buy medicine. "
On the other end of the phone, Jia Jia's mother paused for a long time and said hesitantly, "Your sister has to pay tuition and living expenses! I just sold the freshly harvested beans and corn the other day. I ... hey, how much are you missing? "
Jia took a deep breath and whispered, "The money is only a little short. Try to gather together. My sister is at school, and I will find a way to solve it with you. "
"Can have what way to think? It's not like you don't know that your father doesn't care about your sister! Just because she had a fever when she was a child and her eyes burned badly, she could only squint at people. Your father treats her as a disabled person, and she will either beat or scold! Alas, this is also a sin, it's all my fault! I don't care about her! ..... Alas, you are ill again. Neither of you sisters is worried. I have no hope in my life! " At some point, Jia Jia's mother sobbed on the other end of the phone.
Jia Jiaan comforted for a long time, and finally calmed down a little, so he hung up the phone in a hurry. Jia Jia really doesn't want to continue listening to her mother's complaints. Trivial things at home are the fuse of her sadness and despair, and her mother can always pull out a lot of tragic past events. Jia Jia doesn't want to hear these words any more.
Jia Jia went back to her friend's rental house. After graduation, she has been living in a friend's rental house, barely having a place to live. "No matter how difficult it is, I will cure this disease. I am still so young that I can't die like this. " Jiajia has been cheering herself up in her heart.
A friend will definitely borrow it, Jia Jia confirmed several times in his mind. This is a friend who grew up with Jia Jia, and Jia Jia attaches great importance to her friendship. This friend's name is Xiao Na, and his academic performance is much better than Jia Jia's. After graduating from college, Xiao Na went to work in a big city, and his job was not bad. Jia Jia talked to her about her illness on WeChat, and Xiao Na lent Jia Jia money. This is the first sum of money borrowed by Jia Jia, and it is also the largest sum of money. Jia Jia successfully borrowed 5000 yuan from her good friend Xiao Na.
Next, Jia Jia asked all his friends on WeChat, borrowed it for two or three days, and finally got nearly 2,000 yuan. All the borrowed money adds up to almost 7000 yuan. Jia Jia breathed a sigh of relief and finally returned to his hometown for surgery. Because the county hospital can reimburse a larger proportion of the amount, and the consumption in the county is relatively low, Jia Jiaguo bought a ticket and went back to his hometown.
After returning to his hometown, Jia Jia's father kept saying that he had no money, and then went out for a drink. He came home drunk in the middle of the night, slept enough and went out again.
Jia Jia's mother always felt sorry for her daughter, so she gave her daughter all the money she saved from selling food and collecting sand and ashes on the construction site. All the small and large change add up to 3000 yuan. Jia Jia returned half of it to his mother with tears in his eyes, and took some 50 yuan banknotes into her hand, asking her to pay more attention to diet and health.
The operation was done by Jia Jia's friend. He stayed with him for two days and then went to work. Jia Jia knew that his friend had done his best, running all the way as a chaperone, running up and down inside and out. It's fun to be friends! But friends have to live and work, and it is impossible for them to take care of themselves before leaving the hospital.
A few days after his friend left, Jia Jia was afraid to call home again. Her mother has been to the hospital twice.
Mother is illiterate and stubborn, and won't ask anyone. She came to see Jiajia for the first time, but she couldn't find Jiajia's ward all day, so she went back angrily. The second time, I came with Jia Jia's sister, and she turned around with her mother. At lunch, I finally found my sister, and the three of them ate the vegetable rice brought by her mother from home. Jia Jia's illness is not serious. Her mother breathed a sigh of relief and went home with her sister in the evening. Mother has to go home to feed pigs and chickens. She's gone, and nobody is in charge at home. Mother must go back to take care of the family.
There is a long wound in the lower abdomen, and the stitched wound is as ugly as a big centipede hovering under Jia Jia's navel. Jia Jia closed his eyes every time and didn't look at the terrible wound. Later, this scar became Jia Jia's heart disease. She has been trying all kinds of scar-removing drugs to get rid of this centipede-like suture wound, but she has never succeeded.
Jia Jia silently remembered his father's practice during this period. During my father's illness, I never visited Jia Jia, nor did I send a message to Jia Jia, not a word. It seems that Dad doesn't exist, and it seems that Jiajia doesn't exist. Jia Jia thought sadly that the hero in her heart had already died, and the man in front of her was just a fugitive who drank, smoked and cursed. Desperado doesn't deserve her sadness or hatred.
Since my father lost his job at home, Jia Jia's bad habits that he didn't find because of his long absence have been exposed one by one. For example, he doesn't pay attention to hygiene, doesn't take a shower for a week, and goes to bed or goes out directly. If he washes once, he can only throw away the used toiletries. Jia Jia's father will mess with the toothbrush at home, hang a towel directly after wiping his dirty feet, and wipe his mouth directly with this towel after dinner. What's more, when he was drunk, he drove the pig out of the circle, chased the pig all over the yard, stepped on some pig manure and urine, and went back to the house regardless, madly intoxicated, as if possessed.
At the thought of this, Jia Jia felt a stabbing pain in his chest. Such a father, such a family, Jia Jia just wants to get as far away as possible. The death of this father made Jia Jia shudder, and Jia Jia even wanted to die. But when I think of my mother, who is always in tears, and my sister, who has little experience in life, my heart is like being pricked by a needle, and I can't bear to part with it and feel uneasy.
"Quick to prepare first aid! The patient had a high fever because of the wound infection. Hurry and push her into the operating room! "
"Surgery requires the signature of family members. What about family members? What about the family? "
In the ward, nurses and doctors are in a mess, and too many cooks push patients into the operating room. The nurse, eager to find the voice of her family, shouted again and again. ...