28 years old with rectal cancer
"Good not good-looking, it's up to you. The story has no ending, only after reading it. " At the shooting scene of "The Story of Tian Cainong's Laughter", Tian Changqing stood out from the crowd wearing a hijab, black-rimmed glasses and a light-colored cloth shirt. In order not to delay the filming progress, it was not until the last shot of the day was finished that Tian Changqing, who had no time to wipe his sweat, was able to sit down and accept our conversation. Looking at Tian Changqing in front of us, we really can't connect him with cancer patients. After a few words, Tian Changqing spoke very sincerely about his bumpy experience, which impressed the reporter deeply.
"I was diagnosed with cancer after filming Legend of Yuan in 2000. I couldn't believe my ears when the doctor told me the news. Because I am only 28 years old, I feel so young. I didn't have any symptoms before. How did I get this disease? But facts are facts. When I got the test sheet, I saw the words' advanced rectal cancer' written on it, and I suddenly got scared. " Recalling the past again, Tian Changqing's voice seemed a little choked up. After coughing twice, he continued: "It was in March 2000 that I found out that I had cancer. I spent a week thinking about this matter and thinking about what I should do, whether to choose surgery or to choose conservative treatment. " Considering too many unfulfilled dreams, after consulting with the attending doctor, Tian Changqing finally chose a very difficult operation. "The doctor said that the success rate of surgery was 80%. I think since the success rate is so high, I might as well tell my parents about it. My parents didn't believe me at first, thinking I was joking, so they slammed the test paper in front of them. After reading it with trembling hands, my parents hid their faces and cried, saying in unison that they would sell their blood to save me anyway. " Performing in spite of illness to earn money to buy medicine
Eight hours later, the operation ended successfully. "The first thing I saw when I opened my eyes was my dad. I thought I was dreaming. Fortunately, my father called me three times in a row before I realized that I was not dead. Afterwards, the doctor told me that my chances of success in the operation were only 20%. To comfort me, they had to lie to me. " From that moment on, Tian Changqing's view on everything changed, and he learned to be patient and strong. "I used to be strong. After this serious illness, everything has become a cloud to me, whether it is a white lie or a real deception. Now I face everyone, even my enemies, with the same mind as the sea. Because only when a person has experienced the test of life and death will he look down on the illusory things. "
Three months after the operation, Tian Changqing moved out of the hospital because he couldn't afford the expensive medical expenses, and rented a 30-square-meter hut near Shuangqiaozi, with little left. "I have to do radiotherapy three times a week and chemotherapy once. Taking medicine alone costs nearly 2000 yuan a month. My brother and sister also moved to Chengdu to take care of me. " Tian Changqing told reporters that his weight before illness was 140 kg, and his weight after operation was less than 90 kg. In order to raise medical expenses, he had to drag his sick body around and perform. "My brother and sister stipulate that I can only perform four performances every month, and all the money I earn is spent on taking medicine and treating diseases. I was thin at that time, but I had muscles. " Tian Changqing joked to himself.
Persuade your girlfriend to leave yourself.
The most painful thing for Tian Changqing is that he had a girlfriend who had been dating for four years and was going to get married before he was diagnosed with rectal cancer. The two have always been very loving and their parents are very optimistic about this marriage. However, in order not to delay his girlfriend's happy future, after careful consideration, Tian Changqing decided to "showdown" with his girlfriend. One night, Tian Changqing went for a walk hand in hand with his girlfriend as usual. By the river, Tian Changqing casually said, "Xiaomei (a pseudonym), there is something I want to tell you. I have rectal cancer, middle and late stage. I cannot be responsible for your future. Let's break up! " Like Tian Changqing's parents, Xiaomei first thought he was joking, but when she saw Tian Changqing's helpless and sincere eyes, Xiaomei finally believed it. "She kept crying and said she wouldn't break up. There is nothing I can do except heartache. In order to get her to give up all her thoughts early, I didn't see her, and I lobbied her parents every day about how serious my illness was ... A week later, her parents wavered; Two weeks later, Xiaomei began to waver. At the end of March 2000, Xiaomei cried and said that she agreed to break up with me.
The operation is scheduled for mid-April. Due to the high cost of the operation, Tian Changqing took out nearly 200,000 yuan in savings. "I remember that on the day of the operation, my parents, relatives and Xiaomei came. Everyone is crying, but I am the coolest, looking at the white ceiling and crying face. I smiled and comforted them. Xiaomei kept pushing me into the operating room, then turned away and never contacted me again. I remember when I looked up and took one last look at her ... "I quarreled with my beloved wife.
In the Spring Festival of 2005, Xiao Yang (a pseudonym) heard the story of Tian Changqing from a friend and was deeply moved. A party, two hearts collide for the first time. "We chatted and drank tea together, and she came to see me when I was performing in other places. To outsiders, these little things are insignificant, but they seem so warm to me. " In March 2005, Xiao Yang suggested that Tian Changqing meet her parents. At this moment, Tian Changqing suddenly realized that Xiao Yang had always liked him. "She said to marry me, I can't lose her. After a year of communication, we got married in Mianyang in the Spring Festival of 2006. After marriage, our life is very happy. In order to take care of me, my wife resolutely resigned and became a full-time wife. "
One day, a miracle suddenly happened to the troubled couple. In April 2006, Tian Changqing went to the hospital for examination as usual. After various examinations, the doctor said to him very seriously, "Tian Changqing, we beg you not to come to the hospital again." After listening, Tian Changqing collapsed in a chair. "Am I ..." Before he finished, the doctor immediately interrupted him. "What are you thinking? Your indicators are normal. I want to tell you that you have fully recovered. " Tian Changqing smiled, smiling so brilliantly. He flew home to tell his wife the good news, and they hugged each other tightly. We offered to interview his wife, but Tian Changqing declined politely. "She is a very low-key person, and I don't want everyone to disturb her." .
Tian Changqing returned to the screen again, participated in the shooting of many dramas, and regained her weight 120 kg. Now he is filming XI's happy rake ears. Thanks to Yuan Feng and Liao Jianzhong Yanping.
During the whole interview, Tian Changqing said the word "gratitude" the most. "Since I got sick, I have to thank many people, thanks to Liao Jian, whose encouragement made me stronger. Every time I perform abroad, whether Liao Jian's program is in front of me or mine, he will stand by me silently and remind me to pay attention to going up and down the steps, and don't use too much force when performing. I also want to thank my fat sister Zhong Yanping. Although she is usually careless, she is very caring. I remember that I met her in many performances when I was not sick. Every time I see her, she always jokes,' Tian Cainong, don't just stand there and help me with my bag.' . I'm going to perform Later, we met in a performance, but this time the fat girl said,' Tian Cainong, I will never let you carry my bag for me again.' "In addition, Tian Changqing specifically mentioned Yuan Feng." Every time she talked about her own affairs in front of people, Xifeng always had a runny nose and tears. "
We conveyed Tian Changqing's gratitude to Liao Jian, Zhong Yan, Ping and Yuan Feng. Liao Jian spoke highly of Tian Changqing's kindness, humor, strength and dedication, and hoped that he would realize his dream as soon as possible. Zhong Yanping is more straightforward: "Admire his strength, Tian Cainong is good." Yuan Feng, who is filming in Chongqing, talks about Tian Changqing's constant praise: "As a foreigner who works hard in Chongqing, Tian Changqing is loyal, earnest and dedicated, and has a spirit of study and hard work that many professional actors do not have. I hope that his future career will be less tortuous and more happy. "
I wish Teacher Tian healthy and happy every day!