Waiting for Flowers to Bloom —— Thoughts on Participating in Parents' Chinese Joint Reading Camp

I read the book "Parents' Language" with the reading camp of 3Q Business School, and now I have finished reading it, and I am deeply touched.

1, it's interesting to have people to study together, with company, motivation and competition. Reading a book by yourself is time-consuming, so it's good to read it with * * * reading camp. Thank you for your company and encouragement, thank you!

? 2. I am a person who doesn't like to show in front of people, but I feel very happy to break through my own sharing in the group this time. This is growth and progress. Give yourself a compliment!

? The book "Parents' Language" actually tells us a lot about educating children. Every knowledge point is worth internalizing, and every knowledge point needs us to combine our children with our own reality.

? At the same time, I have a deeper understanding, as Teacher Fan Deng said: Educating children is a complex project, and we often regard it as a simple matter. We always like to be told what to do first and what to do second.

? It's not that simple. This is a complicated project. You don't know which link, which moment, which thing changed the child's life. What you can do is to make continuous efforts, progress and growth, and educate your children in a scientific and correct way. As for what the child will eventually become, it depends on his nature.

? In addition, we always hope that children's growth will rise in a straight line, and we will hope that the changes in education will be immediate. Just like an article I once read, this child used to spend a lot of money. Later, he saw his mother's hard work and knew that it was not easy for his parents to make money. From then on, he immediately became a thrifty boy.

? I used to wonder why my children are not like this. She procrastinated I have educated her many times. Why hasn't she made any progress? Why isn't there such a sudden change? Later, through study, I understood that, as Fan Deng said, children's growth is a spiral upward trend, and there will be repeated stagnation or even retrogression. What parents can do is to instill good and positive things in him and strengthen these upward forces, and he will get better and better.

Education is a slow art, and education is a scientific art. Let's work hard silently and wait for the flowers to bloom!