Let's talk about the quarrel first. In fact, we both became monks halfway, because we encountered problems that we could never understand, began to study, and finally embarked on the road of employment. We hardly quarrel before studying, because we won't quarrel. He gave me the cold shoulder as soon as I lost my temper. So I usually slam the door and yell, and he gets internal injuries. But since we both became consultants, the situation has been very different. My quiet, introverted and emotionally stable husband actually started to lose his temper and started to quarrel with me! So we had a particularly fierce argument, so we had a good time! However, while quarreling, we will each start to think in our own hearts, what happened to me, why should we quarrel, what is the purpose of quarreling, and what problems should we solve? ..... Then we quarreled, thought about it, and suddenly at a certain moment, both of us stopped quarreling, and then happily continued to be sweet.
When two consultants are together, there is a particularly big problem that both of them are particularly sensitive. This sensitivity means that he can capture your little emotions and state changes, and sometimes he feels that there is no secret! If I knew I didn't want him to learn at all, I would know something about myself! But some people will envy our tacit understanding. Everything has two sides. Often my husband will ask me, what were you thinking just now? I said no, and then my heart was 10 thousand crit.
In the past, our communication was based on speculation, and we never told each other what we thought or asked each other what they thought. Now it's very simple, that is, directly point out that I think so, and what do you think. In the end, I will find that in fact, the two people have the same idea, but the way of thinking is different, which has caused some misunderstandings, so the problems between the two people are easy to solve.
But if you ask me if I want to study both, I will still say that it is good to study psychology myself. I have no space to share the days when my wife and I fought with each other and were tortured to death. This is the result of torture! When one person grows up, the whole family benefits. There is only one wall between two people, and it is enough for one person to tear it down!
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