Is it better to find a husband who has the ability to make money or a husband who has a house and a car and a good family but is mediocre?

Find a husband who can make money. Each of us knows how realistic the society is now. Without money, there is no way out. Some people might say it's too material. This is not a matter of matter, but a matter of whether there is a way out.

In fact, we can put ourselves in others' shoes. If you are a man and have no ability to earn money, will your wife live with you? That's unrealistic. I can't be with you anymore. Everyone needs to live, and money is a necessity in life.

This is not a selfish problem, mainly because other people in the family also need to consider it, not to mention the elderly at home. If the husband is unable to earn money, who will support his parents? It is impossible to raise a wife. What woman doesn't want to marry a capable person?

In addition, there is the problem of children. If you don't have the ability to earn money, you can't support this family. Of course, children cannot be raised. At the very least, children don't even have tuition. What a sad thing!

A mediocre man, mediocre to do anything for many years, so mediocre that you look down on him at all. If you work hard every day and want to do good for this family, and your husband just wants to be down-to-earth and not make progress, he will go to work very mediocre. You will complain after a long time.

A thoughtful marriage is not as simple as watching an RV, but a spiritual fit, similar hobbies and tastes. Mutual understanding, freedom and independence are the ultimate forms of ideal marriage. However, the reality woke me up severely. Without material security, there is no spiritual fit!

If you are a woman, you should get married and find someone who loves you, but you should also like him a little, otherwise it will be sad to watch, and the days will certainly not be long. If you are a woman and want to find a boyfriend, then find someone you love. Anyway, if a person has never loved in his life, his life will be in vain. Of course, it is best to find a husband who loves you and you love him.

In fact, everyone's heart is the same, and deep down they are selfish. Of course, it is also possible that a woman can make money especially, and she may be willing to raise a useless man. Anything is possible. In a word, I don't want to live with people who can't make money all their lives.