Xiaoxiao was dumped by others again.
Xiaoxiao is a beautiful girl, the kind of beautiful girl who makes people want to look back.
But such a beautiful young girl was dumped by her boyfriend twice in a row.
Xing Xin, the boyfriend who dumped Xiaoxiao for the first time, is an elite in the workplace. In his early thirties, he is not only handsome, but also smart.
He is eight or nine years old and treats Xiaoxiao as a child. He is spoiled.
Xiaoxiao also took advantage of people's love for her and acted unscrupulously.
Honey, I want to drink iced coffee. Can you buy me one? ?
At noon on a summer weekend, it is as hot as a big stove outside. Once a person leaves an air-conditioned room and is exposed to the sun, the whole skin can be burned off.
Xing came out in such hot weather and bought iced milk tea for his girlfriend. He really dotes on his girlfriend!
This kind of thing often happens in the daily life of two people.
Honey, I'm thirsty and want to drink water. ? Xing Xin obediently ran to pour water for his girlfriend Xiaoxiao.
Honey, I'm cold. I need a blanket. ? Xing Xin had to put down his work and get a blanket.
Honey, I want to eat melon seeds. Can you peel them for me? ? Xing Xin peeled them off one by one and put them in Xiaoxiao's hand to let her pick up the food.
These are nothing. Xiaoxiao sometimes pampers herself too much, which is hard to tolerate.
02
Xing Xin's unit has a key project in progress, which requires company personnel to work overtime. Xing Xin has been working overtime for three days in a row and has been bombarded by Xiaoxiao for three days.
When working overtime at night, Xiaoxiao called Xing Xin for a while and asked him when it would be over. She misses him very much and wants him to come back to accompany her.
At first, Xing Xin was forced to sign a series of unequal treaties between them, but Xiaoxiao was still unwilling, insisting that Xing Xin get off work early and go back to eat and watch movies with her.
Xing Xin can't help it and can't turn it off. Colleagues want to contact him and talk about work, so they have to mute their mobile phones to avoid being harassed by Xiaoxiao's phone messages and unable to work.
After working overtime and leaving, Xiaoxiao didn't answer Xing Xin's phone, but there were more than 20 messages in one night.
Experienced overtime, Mix? Struggle with kung fu? Xing Xin is a little afraid and the power of this feeling is small.
Xingxin gradually alienated Xiaoxiao and didn't want to be entangled by Xiaoxiao. He took back his pet, broke up with Xiaoxiao, and then quickly started the next relationship.
Xing Xin's new lover is a female colleague of their cooperative company. Although she is not very beautiful, she is gentle, intelligent and considerate.
Xiaoxiao met Xing Xin, holding hands with her new lover and going shopping together. She cried her eyes out for her failed feelings, her lost lover and the helplessness of being dumped.
After learning from a painful experience, Xiaoxiao is determined to change, stop being arrogant, think more about each other, listen to her boyfriend's words, and let her go east and never go west.
03
In the relationship of being dumped for the second time, Xiaoxiao is adhering to this principle, following her boyfriend, resolutely not being demon, thinking about her boyfriend everywhere and avoiding being dumped.
Therefore, on her boyfriend Jin Feng's entrepreneurial road, she is willing to be her boyfriend's shadow, and she is cautious everywhere, afraid to have her own ideas and think for her boyfriend in everything.
It is difficult to start a business, and Jin Feng is too busy to eat. Xiaoxiao feels sorry for him. He makes soup every day, puts it in a thermos and takes it to Jinfeng.
Seeing jinfeng's dirty clothes piled up together, she smiled and cleaned them to dry, and even her close-fitting clothes were washed neatly. It's really sweet.
Xiaoxiao usually comes to Jinfeng's side when he is free, helping him make the bed, wash his hands, make soup for him, help him clean the house, clean the house, and do the work of an old maid.
Xiaoxiao was immersed in the love that he thought touched others, complacent, blindly paying for each other, unable to extricate himself, and even moved himself in a mess.
In fact, in her boyfriend Jin Feng's place, Xiaoxiao does things that he doesn't need and can't move.
04
Xiao Xiao in Jinfeng's heart is first of all a girlfriend, a partner who can empathize with each other, encourage each other and support each other, rather than a nanny who helps him with housework.
With the increasing pace of the pioneering work of the products, the gap between the two people is also growing.
Besides cooking and washing clothes for Jinfeng, Xiaoxiao can no longer interact with Jinfeng, especially in her career. Xiaoxiao knows nothing, and they have nothing to talk about.
Gradually, Jinfeng got tired of this out-of-step relationship, and he broke up with Xiaoxiao.
Later, Jin Feng fell in love with a female colleague who started a business together.
When two people are together, there are endless topics, such as project development, marketing, product upgrade and so on. , can be from each other's dialogue generate sparks.
Xiaoxiao was broken up and dumped again, and she was puzzled. She didn't do well. Why didn't she hire someone? Being dumped again and again, I am very depressed, confident and heartbroken.
But she is still very confused, and she doesn't understand what happened to her. She was broken up again and again in love. If I don't understand this question, I guess she won't dare to fall in love again.
05
In fact, Xiaoxiao's problem is not difficult to understand. She is in love, and her attitude is too soft.
At the time of first love, Xiaoxiao is like a cotton candy. At first taste, it was My Sweetie, soft and delicious.
If you hold it in your hand for a long time, it will become soft, sticky and greasy. Can't shake it off, can't rub it off. Very sticky, very disgusting.
In the second love, Xiaoxiao changed from cotton candy to somebody else's shadow.
She followed in the footsteps of her boyfriend, followed the trend, had no sense of independence, had no opinion at all, took her boyfriend as the center and turned around others, completely losing herself.
Such a small, in love, is really too soft, soft to have no bones, and has become a useless person. Where can he be loved and cherished by others?
06
Women, if you don't want to be rejected by men, don't put on too many postures? Soft? .
In a truly beautiful love, girls must not put their posture too soft, but must have excellent self-confidence.
Just like Jiang Biwei, the ex-wife of the great painter Xu Beihong, she has the courage to fight for love and the ability to share joys and sorrows with her lover, even more? Don't you want me to rest? Domineering
In love, she always knows what she wants, what she wants, and keeps her dignity and dignity.
When Xu announced her divorce in the newspaper, she could stand up for her rights and interests as soon as possible. She said it's okay to separate, with a hundred paintings.
Jiang Biwei can not be afraid of being broken up, because she has enough confidence in love. She always has an independent self-awareness, rather than being blindly led by men.
She is independent, capable, intelligent and resourceful, all of which are her self-confidence.
She won't just put on a soft figure and pray for men's love and pity, nor will she regard men as the masters of her life. She can't live without men.
Such a woman can live well in love.
In fact, the best attitude of women in love: no attachment, no persistence, no man as the world center, courage and self-improvement!