1, gay conflict. You didn't bring this male expert into the living room, but into the bedroom; But there is no bed in the bedroom, which reflects that you don't want to have anything further with him.
Consciously, I didn't realize that I was gay, but subconsciously, I did. For example, I have been drinking with some men I admire in a socially and morally permissible way and have maintained a long-term friendship. This is a dynamic view: this is a symbolic homosexual act. But to be clear, when a person has a homosexual or bisexual tendency, it does not mean that he will have homosexual behavior all his life.
2. The conflict between work and reality. This male expert is a colleague at work, but you invited your colleague into your own life field, which is my bedroom, which shows that you don't know the difference between you and him, work and life. Because Zeng Qifeng could not coordinate the conflict between the two German factions in the studio at that time, he made his own decision. He avoided conflicts at work, but increased personal contacts, such as inviting them to dinner and telling them about the customs in China.
3. Facing the conflict of being a father. When you become a father, your work may be greatly affected. Leaving no bed in the bedroom is an attack on his wife and children. Smoking in my bedroom is an attack on my children.
4. Opening a window means throwing people down. Leaving behind the soon-to-be-born child reflects the ambition to realize personal value.
5. Strong retrogression. Open the window and you can see the river. Everything related to water symbolizes the mother's womb. This shows a strong desire to retreat: to return to the mother's womb. In fact, this is everyone's way of escaping in the face of fierce real conflicts.
6. The conflict between morality and instinct. The coffee table is placed obliquely, which is homophonic with "evil". It is evil to introduce Germans into the bedroom, homosexuality is evil, and attacking children is equally evil.
7. Empathy of father-son relationship. Bringing a German who is more than 20 years older into the bedroom tends to let him join this family relationship. In his relationship, his father's role is very weak, and his brother has taken his place. If there is another man, it may make him have a more relaxed, less forced and less bound childhood.
8. Intimacy, attachment and identity conflict. The prototype is the relationship between Zeng Qifeng and his brother. He smoked "doing bad things" with the Germans, and his brother never smoked or drank all his life, which means that Zeng Qifeng disagreed with his brother and then opened the window to offset it. It's kind of like destroying a corpse after doing something bad.
"I" need to use such a strong identity against my brother, which just shows that the connection between "I" and my brother is very close at the subconscious level, otherwise I wouldn't have done such a contrast.
9. Reverse formation. When Zeng Qifeng was a child, his family never invited guests. Family of origin is relatively closed and refuses to be overly intimate. But in this dream, he welcomes guests from far away. This may show that in your own home, all kinds of people are welcome to visit your home at any time.
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10, see action. Playing mahjong, smoking, drinking, eating and drinking with a group of men. This may be putting the depressed, degenerate and irresponsible part of my brother into action.