Fanbei Party: A Grand Meeting of Scholars

Book lovers share their growth experience, learning experience and personal knowledge, enriching our knowledge and insight; He is also good at singing and dancing, expressing his inner demands for a better life with melodious and powerful singing and energetic or leisurely and gentle dancing; There is also a link in which book lovers send books to each other. We share spiritual gifts and bring our relationship closer. ...

An activity, a link, a harvest, a life. ...

This is the confession of a stay-at-home mother, but it is a process of constantly enriching life and knowing yourself. It is an entrepreneurial experience from hobby to career. This is a wonderful and rich life story different from life and work.

Sharer: Mother of Knowledge, Chen Yan.

This mother, from the very beginning, accompanied her children wholeheartedly, to traveling around the country with her children, to leading her children to study and learn her hobby baking, and finally to hold a children's book club to bake for corporate customers, and achieved a career from her hobbies and companionship with her children. What a wonderful life it is for her!

Share golden sentences:

A mature person will know what he wants and what his relatives need most …

Taking the first step, the world is actually very small.

Seven habits of efficient people, list revolution and deliberate practice.

Doing it, these become "classics"

Bake from Monday to Wednesday, read to children on Thursday and Friday, and spend the weekend with children wholeheartedly.

Entrepreneurship: Persist in doing it, one road, one own road.

Positive discipline, intimate journey, family background, emotional management.

Brand new learning

When you love doing something and achieve it through goal setting, you think it is meaningful and you enjoy the process of struggle.

Happiness is to allocate time to happy and meaningful goals.

Still reading, still baking ...

This is a very practical sharing by a psychological counselor. The story of psychology is told from three aspects: knowing oneself, knowing love and knowing pressure. How simple psychology is and how it is applied to our lives.

Sharers: Yangliuyiyi, Snowmelt, Teacher Yang.

Teacher Yang, with elegant temperament and outstanding talent, first explains from a case how to define the clients of psychological counseling and what principles psychological counselors have.

Value neutrality principle: only helper relationship. Avoid double relationship: For example, this friend's consultation may involve the relationship between the counselor and the helper and the double identity of the friend, so it is not good to provide services.

The more difficult and painful it is, the less you should ask others for help, but you should help yourself.

Openness: firstly, it is open to consultants, and secondly, it is open to listen to the information said by consultants; The third is to change with an open mind (continuous change).

This era needs to do two things: be yourself and keep the link. People who help themselves should learn to be themselves and know themselves.

Seeing this, I felt deeply and got to know myself, which I have been exploring and experiencing for a long time. There are several books that have a great influence on me, Re-understanding yourself (Krishnamurti series), what is the possibility of your life, and the road that few people have reached.

Love is often associated with liking and sexual desire, but Rubin, a social psychologist, thinks that liking kindness is completely different.

The characteristics of love:

Robert Jeffrey Sternberg, an American psychologist, put forward the theory of love, which holds that love consists of three basic components: passion, intimacy and commitment. Passion is a sexual desire component in love and an emotional infatuation; Intimacy refers to the warm experience that can be caused in a love relationship; Commitment refers to the decision, expectation or guarantee to maintain the relationship. These three components constitute seven types of love, such as spoony love, spoony love, empty love, romantic love, partner love, stupid love and perfect American love.

Psychological definition of love: it is the strongest form of interpersonal attraction, and it is a romantic high-level emotion of individuals with a certain degree of physical and mental maturity.

Several key words:

The book "The Art of Love" I gave to my partner has the same interpretation of love: I think love needs to constantly improve self-personality and have the ability to love. This book is recommended to everyone from the theory of love to the practice of true love.

Love needs dedication. Teacher Yang shared the story of Ang Lee and his wife. Ang Lee once said: The person I want to thank most in my life is my wife. Even when he is embarrassed, let him not forget his dream. His wife helped him realize his wish.

Stress is a cognitive and behavioral experience process composed of stressors and stress responses.

-Keywords: experienced, closely related to the subject, perceived and responsive.

-Social support system

Intimacy is the most trustworthy and supportive person. Keep in touch with your family when you are under pressure. Give them material security and give them confidence.

Seeing and perceiving is the beginning of change, and then accepting and dissolving. Keep inner peace and broaden your life with your heart.

This is a PPT master sharing how to learn efficiently, how to cross the border to different industry ecosystems, and how to grow rapidly and gain.

Sharer: Mr. Nuoyiqiao, author of PPT Cheats for Saving Overtime Workers.

PS: The teacher's name is literature and art, is it, formerly known as "Liu Yizhou" teacher ~

In this era of rapid development, information input >: learning speed. It is not only the age of IQ and EQ, but today I learned a word "Soushang".

Sanbanfu

1, search for WeChat (copy library)

2. Zhihu (original viewpoint, think tank)

3. (Writing grassroots, a valuable idea I feel and see)

In this way, you can basically understand a concept and save yourself time in choosing books. Learn knowledge quickly and use the search axe well.

The industry is changing rapidly, how to quickly transform into a new industry? For example, the theory of genius 10000 hours told by aliens is equivalent to learning a skill for three years, but the times can't wait for us for three years.

Later, people who have "9000 hours of core competence+1000 hours of basic knowledge" think that the skills and abilities we have learned in one field can be migrated to a new field, and we only need to spend time to make up the relevant knowledge in the new field.

For example, Du, from selling a good back to a good memory star to an e-book, 8848, is crazy about advertising and marketing.

From the things you have done well in the past, including things that you have a sense of accomplishment and things that you think are meaningful. Excavate the core competence behind it, and then migrate this competence to cross-border applications.

Achievement event+core competence+cross-border application

Mr. Nuo takes himself as an example: for example, when he was a lecturer in English grammar, his classmates told him that grammar was not that difficult, and this simple and easy-to-understand way of speaking was a very successful thing. This is especially true now as a PPT lecturer. Everyone's learning PPT is just an application, and it is good that the basic operation can be very practical.

For example, instant noodles, we can divide its elements into various dimensions and list the existing products on the market. If we want to innovate, it is a new idea to reorganize new ways.

Fandeng Reading Club has 10 branches in Beijing by region. Among them, there are Fan Deng's own staff and book lovers who dare to take responsibility. I look forward to more exciting activities in Fanbei in 2065,438+08 under the leadership of branch presidents.

A young director of this gathering summed up his feelings and thoughts after more than one year's activities at the Fan Deng Beijing Reading Club.

Zhang Xiaolong, ceo of WeChat, will try offline and real social interaction on 20 18.

When watching this program, I feel that the world is very quiet. As the dancers' toes rise and fall, they break between the dancers' arms, fly between the sleeves and jump between the dancers' smiles and eyes. ...

If "silence" can also radiate a kind of power from nature, a kind of grace from the body, I think this is the most beautiful symbol. ...

My personal favorite program!

The opening ceremony of the party was an active book exchange. We will write our best wishes to the book lovers on the given books, and we will also leave our names, so that we can have more emotional and social ties.

There is also a "letter to myself" in the middle of the party. Everyone puts their letters to themselves in a big safe. I don't know if I have time to attend the class reunion after one year. I don't know how the letter in the safe found itself a year later, but I wrote down my wish in the letter and sent it to my heart.

The most creative interactive program of the readers' party! ~

At the beginning of 20 18, we got together here and made a wonderful start for our year. It will take us a year to fulfill our promise to ourselves and a year to bloom our wonderful things.

Time flies too fast, we get together in a hurry and know too much about each other, but I know that wherever we are, we will be happy scholars! ~