Know yourself and yourself. Since blind date means rushing to get married, men don't fight unprepared. Mainly to understand each other's personality characteristics, hobbies and special hobbies, so as to arrange the specific arrangements for the first meeting. If the other person is a foodie, prepare several restaurants with good environment and delicious food in advance. If the other party likes watching movies, be familiar with the screening information and location information of the cinema in advance to avoid delaying the trip in a hurry. If the other person likes all kinds of small romances, why not give some thoughtful gifts when they meet for the first time? If you are quiet, try to choose an elegant, clean and high-profile place. If you like excitement, choose a place where there are many people and activities, which will definitely leave a good impression on each other.
2. The first impression is very important.
The first impression is the most important thing. First of all, don't dress too formally. It's not an interview. Being too formal will make you feel funny and have no dating atmosphere. Clothes should be simple and clean, and they must be clean. Clothes should be clean, hair and face should be washed and beard should be shaved. Secondly, make an appointment with the time agreed by both parties. It is best not to make an appointment for peak hours, peak hours, meal peaks, etc. Don't be male chauvinist, decide the time and place by yourself and then inform each other. Call or chat on WeChat in advance and ask each other's opinions. You can suit the remedy to the case and make preparations in advance, and the other party will think that you are a person who respects others. If you are not ready, don't arrange other people's lives.
Do we have to eat and watch movies when we meet for the first time?
If you think that the first blind date is eating and watching movies, it's all wet. A girl doesn't need you to cook a meal, and she may not have time to eat with you. When meeting, the man must ask for dinner together, but the girl may say that she has already eaten. At this time, the man can't take people to dinner, he must learn to be flexible. If it's evening, you can go to the teahouse to drink tea and chat at the dessert shop. If it is noon, you can go to parks, amusement parks and botanical gardens. Personally, don't go to the movies when you meet for the first time. It's dark, so we can't chat. It is a waste for two people to stay for two hours and meet separately. In addition, you don't know if the movie you choose is the other person's favorite, which may be counterproductive. I absolutely don't recommend that the man take the initiative to go to the movies unless the other person proposes.
4. How to order and what to talk about?
Don't order wine, be sure to order soup! Don't waste too much money eating for two. No one will take a fancy to you because of how much you spent on this meal. Order three dishes, two meats, one dish and one soup. If conditions permit or there are no other arrangements, you can serve a plate of fruit. Be sure to ask the other person's taste. People don't eat spicy food. Do you want to kill someone by ordering a table of Chili peppers? People are fragrant and spicy. Do you have to book a table? Asking others about taboos is the most impolite, plus points! Talk less when eating, unless two people eat almost the same. What you talk about depends on what the other person likes, not what you are good at. In addition to knowing your hobbies in advance, you should also grasp each other's emotions in the process of chatting. If a topic is rarely echoed by the other party, then change the topic decisively. Tourism, sports, economy, culture, science and technology, education, horoscopes and entertainment, there is always one for both sides. Dating and chatting must be two-way, not a person bragging.