At the end of last year, Xiao Xuan told me that her boyfriend wanted him to invest 500,000 yuan and pay her back 600,000 yuan with interest a year later. Although I hesitated at that time, I borrowed it. She said at that time that she had signed a contract with her boyfriend and notarized it, so don't worry too much.
I thought to myself, these two people are really amazing, talking about friends, love and business.
Some time ago, Xiao Xuan was in trouble. She said that her boyfriend needs 4 million to buy a house, and she only has 2 million. She asked Xiao Xuan to pay 2 million yuan, and Xiao Xuan's name was written on the property certificate.
We have analyzed it for her, and there is no need to buy a house, because there are so many houses in Xiao Xuan, and there is no shortage at all. Boyfriend has the ability to do great things, so don't buy it. Living in Xiao Xuan is also very convenient, saving a lot of trouble and unnecessary burden. As for face and ability, buying a house is not enough to prove it. After such analysis, the boyfriend didn't pester too much, and then left.
Not long after, Xiao Xuan told me that she and her boyfriend would go back to their hometown to meet their parents on May Day. I am really happy for her. After so long, Xiao Xuan doesn't even know where her boyfriend lives, let alone meet her parents and relatives. It is said that you don't understand the difficulties of people who have houses. Besides, it is really inconvenient to rent a house with my aunt.
I went home for a few days on May Day, and when I saw her again, I took the initiative to tell me that my boyfriend would not go home. My boyfriend's uncle brought 20 million yuan from his hometown to Shenzhen to invest in real estate and entertain him.
A few days later, I said that my boyfriend had an excellent opportunity to do business with my uncle, and he needed1500,000, but he didn't have that much money at hand and wanted to borrow it from Xiao Xuan.
These days, Xiao Xuan has been depressed about this matter. She asked a few friends and said, "This man is so amazing that he doesn't let go of money and people. Isn't he a liar? Never borrow money. "
Xiao Xuan thought about the whole story, and he was a little uncertain. In a dilemma, she did the thing at the beginning of the article and asked someone to investigate her boyfriend and his company.
When she told me this again, she seemed relieved. She said that although it is uncomfortable to talk about money with her boyfriend, it is a rare opportunity in a lifetime, and it would be a pity to miss it. Besides, I have the ability to help him, as long as he is not a liar.
It seems that she has made a decision. I have to say, your boyfriend always talks about money with you. Maybe he just thinks you have money and can help. And if you help others, you are also helping others, not to mention your own family, which is also rich in water. She said that's exactly what her boyfriend thinks.
As her friend, I watched this woman go all the way from divorce to entrepreneurship, without relying on men to earn millions of dollars by their own ability. I admire her very much. At the same time, I also know the hardships behind her and the great pressure she is under. It's really not easy.
Now my career is successful, my parents have passed away, and my brothers and sisters have their own families. Holidays are lonely and self-pitying, and no one shares a beautiful life. If you can't find sustenance emotionally, the more lonely you are.
In this case, I met this boyfriend at present. The boyfriend is ugly, but he looks honest on the surface. Xiao Xuan, which is well maintained, is not a good match together. But Xiao Xuan has lowered the requirements and put his image in the most secondary position.
A few months later, Xiao Xuan, who was extremely emotional, fell into sweet love and began to rely on her boyfriend in life and feelings. Take boyfriend as the center of life.
I once reminded her that only those who are emotionally independent will be cherished, and the bottomless effort and control will never get a person's love. It's dangerous to pin all your feelings on a man.
Having said that, many women can't do it even if they know it. A smart and beautiful woman like Xiao Xuan still can't get rid of her emotional predicament, watching her slowly come to this step.
And money can't buy security and feelings after all. At this time, I can only silently wish her that she can finally find her own happiness.