2. The prosperity of every family depends on people's accumulation of goodness but not virtue. How to accumulate goodness means filial piety to parents, respect for brothers, and being good neighbors with relatives outside. So are all kinds of people who benefit from it. How to call it non-accumulation of goodness, deceiving others by one's own strength, deceiving others to enrich oneself, being arrogant, deceiving others, and harming others and oneself are all the same. Only God will write this book.
3, female training: Yun Dafan and others are virtuous women; Disobedient people will also be disturbed by immoral women. What is virtuous? They are apprentices, blind date, don't go out for no reason, don't laugh, and so on. How to call it bad, talkative and shameless, eccentric and jealous, bullying, disturbing right and wrong, drinking indiscriminately, eccentric and shielding, and so on. Zheng said: Heaven is very close, so women should not be afraid.
Since the ancestor Wan Zhuang Fu Jun, my family has flourishing leaves and numerous descendants. Although near and far away, the spirit and spirit are interlinked, such as the water of a thousand streams, the same origin as the branches and leaves of a thousand trees, and the same book. There must be differences between the rich and the poor, and the rich can be regarded as passers-by. Fan Wenzheng said: In my innate closeness, in my ancestors, they are all descendants. How dare you enter the temple today? Zheng: If you are sick, you will be sick. If you are humiliated, you are humiliated. All my rich children and grandchildren should show mercy to the clan, and the lonely people in the clan should help each other, don't lose what they have, and don't bully others. If they violate it, God will learn from it.
The establishment of Chongben Hall originated from our ancestors. Since the end of the Yuan Dynasty, children and grandchildren have not been reunited. The ancestors led the clan to build a house with the title "Worship the Church for Ancestors" written on it. A clan let them know what they were doing. The ancestral pond in Yuxi was once used as a sacrificial pond, but it was abandoned after a long time. We published a genealogy to show the age of Mu, and compiled family instructions for future generations.
6. Our clan has many descendants, so we must choose a person who respected morality in those days as the head of the clan. As a patriarch, he should perform his duties selflessly, observe etiquette and laws, and control clan relatives. Don't be selfish, take care of things. Zheng: Don't say anything rash and don't do anything rash. He should tolerate others, just like the ancients meant, and don't observe clearly as soon as he came up.
7. Set up two family assistants to help the patriarch move, and choose words with faith and perseverance regardless of year and month, which can serve as an example for everyone. All questions about family size are irrelevant. If there is a big reason, do not choose to replace it.
8. The religion is mainly honest, fair and partial to others. If he has property, he must gather in one place, set up a writing book, and clearly order his children to keep it. Where there are expenses for daily necessities such as food and clothing, we should live within our means and don't waste money. In particular, it is advisable to try our best to educate future generations, so that they can learn the history of classics, benevolence, respect and courtesy, and scholars and businesses can measure their talents. There was nothing to worry about in the past.
9. There are a large number of small clans in the clan, and the responsibility of the clan is the heaviest. Shangfengzu was admitted to the next clan. As the parents of the patriarch, we should try our best to educate, read more about the history of the classics, be familiar with etiquette and justice, and make our children proud of it. Zheng said: If he is corrupt, he should follow Zhang Zi's horizontal canal theory, and whoever chooses the second sage should stand up.
10, choose children who are familiar with etiquette and justice, and specialize in wedding and funeral ceremonies. Whenever something goes wrong, report to parents in advance, and Zongzi will act on the same day. 1 1. Every year, as the patriarch, Zongzi takes his children to the bathroom to take a bath and wash the dishes, and goes to Chongben Hall in the morning to worship their ancestors, offering sincerity and following Mr. Wen Gong's family gift.
12, all my children and grandchildren should try their best to serve their parents and be diligent. Mencius said: It is possible to get close to Ceng Zi. Ceng Zi's filial piety can't be embellished by later generations, but those who still say it can be covered up by filial piety. Ceng Zi's filial piety is more than enough. Li Yun: Parents love what they love, and parents respect what they love. As for dogs and horses, they are worse than people. However, filial piety is not only pleasing to the eye, but also filial piety. For example, Shun made Gu Sou lose the love and kindness of his stepmother. Confucianism says: Parents always follow Cher's words and try their best to catch up with the sages.
13. Those who are my descendants should observe etiquette and live in their hometown with humility and arrogance. Yue: If you are twice as big, your father will do. If you grow ten years, your brother will do it. After five years, the shoulders grew. Seeing your father's insistence, you dare not enter, you dare not retreat, and you dare not be right. He also said: the father's teeth go with him, and the brother's teeth fly in the wild. Light is close, heavy is divided. In ancient times, people lived in the countryside, so neighborhood harmony, courtesy, benevolence and righteousness became the final rules, and so on.
14. All my descendants, rich or poor, should try their best to educate them, so that they can know how to be polite, know how to care about shame, choose friends, do nothing indecent and do not violate national laws. Living is a good citizen, leaving is a good minister, and then you can. If you can't teach those who are lonely and cold, your ancestors should be extended to Chongben Hall to teach them, so as to avoid being caught in frivolous things and show the virtue of their ancestors.
15, children and grandchildren should take laziness as a warning and be frugal, and the two are bound to go hand in hand. Diligence makes the family rich and honorable; Lazy, ruined, ruined. This is inevitable. "Biography of Women" says: Never forget, be diligent and thrifty. Not credible, lazy. The habit of thrift should be changed to women, but men don't know what to do.
16, when children and grandchildren salute the sacrifice, they should be strict and respectful, dress appropriately and use words carefully. They often go to school like their ancestors, not angry or laughing, and their clothes are not tight. If they lose their manners, their parents will be responsible.
17, everything should be handed over to parents. If you allow it, you can do it or stop. Don't do whatever you want, don't interfere with your elders. If you are rude, you will obey the ceremony. If you don't regret it, you will be judged by your parents. If you don't regret it repeatedly, you will lose the spectrum. Children and nephews are under 60 years old and can't sit with their uncles. Parents who violate the law will be responsible, and private meals are not regular.
18, children and grandchildren should respect their elders as much as possible. People who respect their elders should not rely on this to have self-esteem. Hands up, so that they have no place to live, is not the way to educate people. If it has, when it is repeatedly told, it will be the last resort and will be ashamed of it.
19, children and grandchildren should keep their birthright to their elders and are not allowed to change their pseudonyms. Zheng: Brothers are brothers. Every brother with a word on it is like an uncle's nephew. The nephew said that uncle should follow his father with actions, while husband and wife should be consistent in words and deeds, so he was humble and refused to take his own life.
20. Children and grandchildren with official positions should fulfill their responsibilities according to the size of their responsibilities. They want to be loyal to the monarch and serve the country, and are not allowed to lie down, bully the city and violate the law and discipline. If they strip the people's paste to enrich themselves and take up your life in a lazy profession, so that those who have committed crimes and humiliated their ancestors are removed from the list, the patriarch will count their crimes and cross their names off the spectrum.
2 1. descendants who are officials must be modest when they return home. When they see the patriarch, they want to hold a ceremony of children's inheritance, and they can't add wealth to their fathers and brothers' clans. If they are proud of themselves, they will feel deeply guilty.
22. My children and grandchildren all go at the behest, and the taxes and grains in summer and autumn are delivered on time, and they are not allowed to shirk their duties, bring disgrace to oneself.
23. Children and grandchildren with rich families must love their families, help the poor, marry those who can't get married, bury those who can't get buried, receive education if they can't get education, and ask for nothing in return. This is what my ancestors did in the past, and I should be persuaded to follow their wishes.
Any descendant of our family should take anger as a warning to fight. Fighting in anger is a big disaster at first. As the saying goes, the anger of a dynasty forgets its sadness and its relatives-this is also called.
All my descendants should not forget his old hatred if they have a little resentment against him. But if he complains directly, his hatred can be changed. It's not a gentleman's way if he brings up personal grievances. Huang Shigong said: Those who hear good deeds and neglect to remember mistakes should be deeply identified.
26. Funerals are often confused with heresy and evil. Children and grandchildren, all things must be forbidden, not mixed with the world. According to Zhou Wengong's family ceremony, their clothes and coffins were worn out and they were buried in mourning.
27. Every small clan holds a spring and autumn festival every year, and their ceremony should be in accordance with Mr. Wen Gong's family ceremony. Parents' sons will lead many people to fast and bathe. Those who advocate talents and help deacons, as well as those who are poor and incompetent, also claim that their families have something, but they can't abandon it. You can't talk about things in words. Even jackals and otters still know how to repay kindness, but people's situation depends on future generations.
28. The descendants of ancestral graves should pay homage to the graves on time. Every July 15 and 10/day, future generations will personally exhibit the bamboo and wood in the province. As for the bamboo and wood system, it is advisable to pay tribute to Mr. Wen Gong's home, not extravagant. Over the years, it is necessary to erect a stone tablet and announce the family name in depth, so that it will not be difficult to test. Those who are shallow can benefit from the soil.
29. All my children and grandchildren should deeply remember the hardships of the founding of our ancestors, which were hard-won and conscientious. For example, if they hold a vegetable hole, they should be conscientious. For children and grandchildren, we should be filial to our parents, be kind to our children and grandchildren, be in harmony with the songs in our hometown, be loyal to our friends, be pious when offering sacrifices, and be humble when treating guests. All daily affairs should follow the rules and not be overwhelmed. If so, you won't fall behind.
30. If children and grandchildren violate the fatwa, their names will be deleted from the genealogy. Stop being worthy of your birthright. When meeting, don't bow your head and kneel. Parents who violate the rules should be responsible. If criminals can turn over a new leaf after three years, they will turn over a new leaf and will not forget their past.
3 1, the method of running a family, the affairs of the portal wall are strengthened, men and women should be separated from each other, parents and housewives should always contact each other, and they should not be obsessed with private affairs and fall into leisure, so that men and women are mixed up and laugh at others for honoring my ancestors.
32. Previous ancestors often decided to take Datang, the ancestor of Yuxi, as the sacrificial pool. Except for the annual summer and autumn taxes and the food in this pond, the rest of the money is devoted to worshipping this church. If there is profit, it will be used to buy sacrificial fields and accumulate millet. In case of famine, it will be used to help hungry people. He taught the imperial clan to be lonely and poor, but he still ordered his children to take back their hands. The clan owner sets up custom books, gives the number of books, knows the number of books, and depends on the examination at the end of the year.
For the sake of my descendants, scholars, peasants and industry and commerce should do their own things. Don't be confused by the witchcraft of monks, Taoist priests and witches, and meet the public to worship and blaspheme. Parents who break the law will blame, and those who don't regret it will be scolded by the public. If they don't, the law will exist.
34. In case of illness, you should seek medical treatment and try your best to adjust your treatment, and you should not seek evil spirits. The parents of criminals are responsible.
35. The walls of houses inside and outside Chongben Hall are often inspected by the heads of families. When managers rebuild them, they will be used by everyone to avoid damaging them.
36, domestic slaves should be careful inside and outside, men are not allowed to enter the inner room, women are not allowed to go out, the hostess and father often pass by, afraid of foreign affairs. It is especially necessary to provide food and clothing to prevent hunger and cold. Among them, what is available is married by men and women, and what is not available.