First, respect, the premise of getting along with others.
Mutual respect is the premise of getting along. Sometimes women call the opposite sex "brothers" out of respect. Shopping the other day, I heard a salesman say to a man, "Brother, what clothes do you need?"? Can you introduce it to me? " ? The man immediately replied, "I need a shirt and a tie." "Then the salesman introduced various styles of shirts to the man. After a while, the man bought the clothes he wanted and came back satisfied.
This respect is the embodiment of personality and the foundation of social harmony. Simple appellation will avoid many unnecessary contradictions and make people get along well.
Second, be close and want to get each other's help.
Sometimes, if a woman is called a brother of the opposite sex, it is very likely that this woman wants something from this opposite sex. For example, on the way home from work, a woman stopped a heterosexual: "Brother, do you have time now?" ? "Then it will be to promote the products she sells, and even give the opposite sex a few publicity color pages. In the street, there will be such a thing. A woman said to the opposite sex, "Brother, do you want to know about the new gym?" "Can you leave a phone number?"
A brother is neither helping nor not helping. Now many people are tired of such a "brother", and most of such requests are rejected. But if you need substantial help, I think most friends of the opposite sex will still lend a helping hand.
Third, protect, trust and rely on the opposite sex.
When I was in college, there was a boy named "Brother" in my class. I always saw two people playing together. Later, I heard that this girl recognized her brother. I heard that this girl affectionately calls that boy "brother" every day, but she doesn't know it's her own brother. However, two people are brother and sister at all, and the girl is an only child. After meeting the boy, they thought the boy was a trustworthy brother, so they called each other "brother".
This kind of friend relationship similar to relatives can make two people get along well, and at the same time, the trust and dependence on the opposite sex will also make girls feel safe. It is estimated that such heterosexual friends will also have the desire to protect their little sisters.
Fourth, like, another form of expression.
Another possibility is that girls like this opposite sex. Don't think this is nonsense, because some girls may lurk around the opposite sex like sisters at first, and then gradually interfere with the private life of the opposite sex, and may be jealous because the opposite sex contacts girls. This latent "sister" may have identified the opposite sex as her future boyfriend.
Girls sometimes confuse many boys in the expression of emotions. So when you meet a girl who likes to be called "brother" of the opposite sex, you must think carefully. Is she interested in her brother?
There are many interesting secrets hidden behind a simple "brother", whether it is respect, closeness, trust or love, even if it is meaningless to blurt it out, I think it is also a beautiful title.