To sum up: go to work, work hard, not go to work, no money.
Many people say, "I work for money. Don't talk to me about my ideal. My ideal is not to go to work! " Girl, when you know the real life of not going to work, will you still envy it?
Everyone envies people who don't have to work, but Zhu Xiao who plays at home every day is not happy. At first, friends envied her that she didn't have to go to work after marriage, and she could be pampered at home every day. She got up at 10 o'clock every day, ate and cleaned, worked as a beauty shop in the afternoon, cooked dinner at night, and took a walk after dinner, so that she lived comfortably.
Let's look at myself. Get up before dawn every morning, and then squeeze the bus and subway to the company during peak hours. I'm tired of all kinds of documents and meetings, and even my colleagues are interested in them. But once I was talking to Zhu Xiao, she said that she envied me. She felt that she was living a humble life and was afraid that her husband would abandon her. She felt extremely insecure and even a little depressed.
She said that she lived on her husband's salary because she had no income. Wuhan has high housing prices, high prices and great pressure on life. What does Zhu Xiao usually want to buy? When she goes to the mall, she only sees it on sale. Shopping is also a double eleven special. Sometimes she buys too many clothes, and her husband will complain why she buys so many clothes. I wonder how hard it is to make money! Zhu Xiao is bitter: Isn't it hard to do housework? Usually, saving is enough. Most of the daily necessities are found on the idle goods trading platform. Some time ago, I also bought a lipstick, which is more than twice cheaper than purchasing, and it is genuine and easy to use.
Every time Zhu Xiao and her husband go back to their mother's house, her mother waits on her husband like a nanny, making a big table of his favorite meals without asking them to buy anything. I can't help it When a daughter doesn't go to work, she has to rely on her son-in-law If the son-in-law wants a divorce, the daughter will be even worse.
The age of struggle, coveting the status quo, not striving for progress. When you are old, you are doomed to accomplish nothing and nothing in your life. Only by doing what you should do first can you do what you want to do. The meaning of work is not only to earn the salary you deserve, but more importantly, to find a job you like and complete it as a career, so that your life is full of meaning.
Girl, do you have any friends who don't have to work? Is she happy? Do you still envy her?