Some people are quite rebellious and willful when they are young, and they always say the wrong thing. Sometimes, when you don't think so, you just have a vicious mouth. Later, I left the society, learned to be warm and cold, experienced some things, and gradually became gentle and talked. For family members, especially elders, we should learn to understand and care for each other.
Keep in touch by phone for 2-3 days after graduation to share things in life and work. Learned all the skills of a person's life, let them worry less. Sometimes, I will bring my grandmother and parents to my house for a few days, so that they can see that they can live a good life alone and basically won't worry. Every time I go home, I buy cigarettes for my father, go shopping with my mother and trim my grandmother's hair. I will prepare a big red envelope for them during the Spring Festival, and they will be happy to save it for you.
As a grandchild, the reason why you can't express your love is simple. It's just that you are a little proud of your personality, but you can't express your feelings. It's just that your words are shrouded in fog. Of course, people who know you have already prepared anti-fog glasses. I believe that your elders can see through the sincerity under your "sharp" words.
If you are still worried, I tell you that the way to express love is very simple, sometimes even without words. Spend more time with grandparents at home and help them clean up; See delicious snacks in the street and bring them back; If you can cook them a meal, I'm sure they will be very happy.
Grandparents are old and favored, just as they loved us when we were children. Speak softly to them, keep in touch, and make them feel involved in your life. Even if you know some small problems in life, you should ask them, so that they can feel useful and proud of it. When you have different ideas, don't be nervous and communicate well.
Of course, the most important thing is to live a good life, take care of your body and reassure them. This is also the premise that you have the energy to be filial to them.
Therefore, affection is a beautiful thing, which is well known without words.