Step out of your comfort zone-being a referee for the first time

"Little blue mom, there is a game tomorrow. Didn't you get the referee's certificate? Do you want to come to work and try? " Zhang from the sports school sent me a voice message.

My first reaction was: "No, no!" I quickly told coach Zhang that Erwa was too young to be looked after and could not go. But after replying, I was a little disappointed. The opportunity was just around the corner, and I refused. The point is that I take Erwa as the reason. Actually, I'm scared. Yes, I'm just scared. I've been away from society for too long. In fact, I am afraid of getting in touch with the real workplace in society, the comfort brought by leaving that home, and the embarrassment of being accused of being unprofessional if I don't do well.

Dad Lan just came back from class and heard it nearby, asking me why I didn't go. He can look after children. I am still very resistant in my heart, but I still can't help but express my concern. He said, "You are afraid that you can't do what you just learned well. If you haven't been in contact for a while, it's equivalent to not studying. Aren't you worse? " I was speechless by him, but I told myself 10 thousand times in my heart: "no, you can't!" " "

However, I know I am a little unwilling. First, coach Zhang informed me that the opportunity was rare, and it was impolite for me to refuse. I don't grasp the rare opportunity, and I will definitely find more reasons to shirk it in the future; I always let my children dare to be themselves. Did I do it? I asked myself. I hope my child is a shy person like me? I want my children to be people who make excuses for life at will? What should the child do in the future? Am I such a coward? Then I am not the real me!

Just then, Blue Dad asked me for advice on the time of coach Zhang's game. If it is daytime, he will take care of me while taking care of the children, making sure that nothing is wrong. It turned out to be a game at night. At that time, I had another idea that discouraged me. "The children have to study at night, and I have to take care of the children." But is that a reason? Do I usually take care of children? You're scared! You're a coward!

No, I don't want to be a quitter!

I decisively replied to coach Zhang, "Yes, I can!"

I thought that Yang's father was also doing research and would definitely attend, so I contacted him and asked him to mention me more. In fact, he is also a novice, only one more referee than me, but he seems very calm with an acquaintance.

Actually, I'm not nervous about going to the stadium! What I missed was the moment when I first broke through the ideological defense line!

I put on my referee's uniform and walked to my team with a smile. Five of the other six referees know each other, so I don't need to be afraid at all. Moreover, the referee, Mr. Zhao and coach Zhang, both knew that I was a novice, so they arranged for me to call a more relaxed number in the event. I followed them and watched how others got the race table and how others operated it, so I naturally sat on my referee's bench.

In the first round, someone abstained in the first round, so I had the opportunity to sit by and watch others judge points. About the same time, I naturally called my name according to my competition list, and I was not nervous at all. But before the game, I remembered that I was not familiar with the operation of letting athletes choose side stations. I practiced tossing coins several times in advance without any mistakes. During the official operation, I threw the coin across the table!

I heard an athlete whisper, "Don't be nervous!" Aha! In fact, I was not nervous at that time, but I was really unfamiliar with this operation. I wasn't particularly embarrassed when I was told. Since I came to the court, I can accept all the mistakes I have made. Only by recognizing my own shortcomings in my mistakes can I do better. The second time, flip a coin and hold a formal ceremony to pick the edge.

Afterwards, Teacher Zhao said: "Good performance today, zero mistakes, zero complaints!" In fact, I know that because of everyone's concern, I executed fewer sentences that night, but there were still some mistakes. Watching the game is different when the referee is at peace. Usually I just need to pay attention to my score. To be a referee is to pay attention to the scores of both sides at the same time, and remember who serves and whether it is controversial to edge the ball every time. I asked me twice, "Have I served?" For a moment, I was confused. I looked at the score and recalled the previous serve of the ball before making a definite statement. Another time, I wasn't sure whether one person gave one more or one less. Anyway, the score was singular at that time, which was wrong. However, there is no objection on the spot and only mistakes can be made.

The remaining mistake is that the athlete's name was written wrong and the score was written backwards, but when I saw the athlete's signature, I found this mistake and reversed the score in time. Teacher Zhao reminded me that after the winner signed, the reverse side also signed under the winner, instead of the position where the reverse side should sign, and there was a leaked note to record the total score on the score box at the bottom of the table.

After careful counting, there are no big mistakes, but there are still many small ones. Fortunately, this is only a competition between units, and the contestants are not experienced players. However, I only need to experience it once and I have learned a lot. In the future, I will be sentenced more and more, and it will get better and better!

The conclusion is-all fears only come from your own heart. As long as you break through your inner level, nothing can't be faced! Give yourself a compliment.