(A) the theory of body fluids
Scholars have long observed that people have different temperament. He believes that there are four kinds of body fluids in the human body: blood, mucus, yellow bile and black bile. According to the different proportions of these four kinds of body fluids in the human body, human temperament can be divided into four different types:
(1) Hemophilia: Blood is the main body fluid.
(2) Mucus: Mucus is the main body fluid.
(3) Bile quality: Yellow bile is the main body fluid.
(4) Depression: Black bile is the main body fluid.
(2) higher nervous activity Studies.
Scholars believe that there are four typical types of higher nervous activity, namely, active type, quiet type, irrepressible type and weak type, which correspond to the four temperament types of Hippocrates respectively, and the four temperament types are four typical behaviors of higher nervous activity. In addition to these four typical types, there are many intermediate types. The viewpoint of Pavlov School was further developed by successors, such as Teploff and Niebelizen, who advocated studying the characteristics of nervous system and its judgment indexes; Melling advocated discussing the relationship between the characteristics of nervous system and temperament, and emphasized that the organization of several characteristics of nervous system is the basis of temperament. Some people attribute temperament to differences in constitution, endocrine glands or blood types, but the physiological basis of temperament is still uncertain.
Second, the education methods of babies with different temperament
As the saying goes, "it is easier to have children than to raise them", especially babies. How about raising a baby? It is a very clever skill and method to decide the parenting strategy from the baby's temperament, which comes from the study of children's psychology. If the new parents are very helpless about the baby at home, they might as well learn this method. I believe many people can be inspired.
Although the baby is far from forming a personality, experts show that the baby also has innate personality factors. In addition, due to the influence of external factors such as family environment, material conditions and parents' emotional factors, the baby will have temperament characteristics. Babies can be divided into different temperament types according to their adaptability, emotional response and attitude towards their parents. In this way, we can choose different parenting strategies according to the differences of infant temperament types.
1, slow type should be patient.
If some babies are slow to respond to the outside world and their emotional response is slower than that of their peers, it is chronic. Parents must be patient when they meet a baby who is slow to move, and must not make unnecessary comparisons to affect the baby's mood, which will also add some psychological pressure to the baby and be more unfavorable to the baby's upbringing.
2. It is easy to persevere.
Easy temperament is characterized by adapting to various parenting styles, and such babies are often called worry-free babies. Parents should persevere, give care and attention, and let the baby be in a harmonious and stable emotional state for a long time, so that the baby's mood will be more positive.
3, difficult type should be rational and emotional.
Babies who are usually irritable, angry and crying are difficult to get along with. Babies who are inexperienced parents and have a bad temper can easily drive them crazy, especially office workers. Parents of difficult babies should reach a consistent parenting strategy, and don't scold and punish the baby easily, otherwise the baby's mood will be even worse. Generally speaking, rational and emotional parenting strategies are most suitable for difficult types. Intellectually, parents should rationally restrain their emotions, adapt to the baby's living habits, and give maximum patience and perseverance to teach. Emotionally, parents should give their babies more education on love, create a sense of security for them, and make them gradually calm and stable.
In life, some parents prefer to keep up with the joneses, and even babies in infancy will compare who is smarter, which is absolutely unacceptable. None of the three temperament types of babies is the best and none is poor. The growth of a baby depends on innate factors and nurture, and the nurture of parents is more important. Deciding the parenting strategy from the baby's temperament can enable parents to give their baby the most successful training in the most efficient and appropriate way. Young parents should create a stable and loving family environment for their baby for a long time, praise and encourage more, and let the baby grow up healthily and lively.
Third, the educational function of temperament to parents and children.
1, children's temperament is not good or bad.
Any type of temperament has positive and negative characteristics. Temperament cannot determine the level of intellectual development, and the IQ of children with troublesome or easy temperament is different; Nor can it determine a person's social value and achievements. Among the three countries, Cao Cao, Zhuge Liang, Liu Bei and Zhang Fei have different temperament types, but they are all very influential figures in history. Temperament will have an impact on children's future response to various environments, which is related to children's behavioral disorders and can affect children's activity characteristics and methods. The emotional reactions of various temperament types vary greatly, and the difficulty of establishing partnerships with other children is also different.
2. Cultivate children with different temperaments according to the situation.
Simple children are obedient and easy to get along with children; Children with bad temper are difficult to get along with others, often unpopular with teachers and partners, and the incidence of various behavioral problems has increased significantly. However, if we can guide grumpy children well, they will also have amazing achievements when they grow up. On the contrary, if you don't get good education and guidance, there will be many behavioral disorders, even breaking the law and discipline, which shows that temperament type is an important related factor for children's behavioral disorders.
3. It is convenient for early detection of children's diseases.
Children with easy temperament can adapt to new things and environments quickly because of their good adaptability, but the treatment characteristics of diseases are not obvious and easy to be covered up. Therefore, it is easy to underestimate the condition and delay the diagnosis. For example, a baby with appendicitis has been perforated but the pain is not severe, which makes it impossible for doctors to judge whether surgery should be performed, thus delaying the illness. On the contrary, children with troublesome temperament generally react strongly to diseases because of their low reaction threshold, and are prone to negative reactions, unwilling to cooperate, refuse or even resist treatment, surgery and nursing. Mastering the temperament characteristics of children is convenient for parents and doctors to find problems early, diagnose them early and treat them in time.
4. Help children get the best development.
Parent-child attachment is a positive and affectionate emotional connection between children and caregivers, which is gradually formed in the interaction, communication and attachment between parents and children. It can inspire parents to take care of their children more carefully and form their initial trust and personality characteristics. Whether a child's early temperament can be changed depends on the combination of temperament types and parental rearing patterns. The best development can only be achieved when parents' parenting styles are sensitive to their children's temperament characteristics. For example, troubled children are often restless and difficult to adapt to new things, but if parents can keep calm all the time, insist that their babies obey the rules, give them some constraints and allow them to adapt slowly, in the long run, children will not be so capricious.