As a generation born in the late 1970s, our growth history can be regarded as a course of education and self-education on the theory that success is inseparable from ambitious life planning. When I was in primary school, as the flower of the motherland in the 2 1 century (or the flower in bud), we were taught to have lofty ideals, because "people can't live without ideals", without which great things can't be achieved. In my composition, I am very excited to imagine my beautiful life in the capitalist society of 2 1 century, herding sheep and singing at night, teacher. In junior high school, the ideological and political teacher taught us to "think about what is the goal of life" because it involves important issues of "outlook on life" and "world outlook". When I left a message after graduating from junior high school, the first Communist Youth League member in my class was very sad that I didn't make progress. Instead of throwing my limited life into an infinite ocean of problems, I solemnly put ostrovsky's words "When I look back ..." to encourage me to set my life goals as soon as possible, so as to avoid lifelong regret in the future.
When we were in high school, we were told that the university has half a foot, and the key to realizing the life planning problem is how to put the other foot in the university as much as possible. The highest realm of life planning is "learning mathematics and physics well, and traveling all over the world is not afraid". This description aroused the imagination of the top students in mathematics and physics in the class to wander around the rivers and lakes with their schoolbags. For quite a long time, I also believe that the success of life can not be separated from ambitious life planning, but most of the time I am tired of coping with exams and have no time to seriously think about life planning. Occasionally, when I was awake, I was busy with exams, so I didn't have time to respond to the questions raised by the old clan teacher about "long-term life planning" ... 21On the afternoon when the future of the century became real life, I came home from Hangzhou by car and found my classmate who gave me ostrovsky's famous saying at the station, bravely eating and selling bananas and becoming a small boss of a fruit stand. Looking back on my growth history, I found that there seems to be no such thing between life reality and life planning.
Before I went to college, I was basically an underachiever. My greatest ideal in life is not to fail in the exam in the future. When I volunteered in the third year of high school, I was ready to join the vocational and technical school as a cement worker. Because I rarely had the chance to learn math and English in junior high school for three years, I changed my first choice to a key middle school in order not to look too ugly in my volunteer book, but I was admitted to a key high school because of my hard work before the exam. There is only a clever score in the math final exam of senior one, because I secretly love a girl with good academic performance in my class. To create contact opportunities, I tried to ask her questions. Over the past few years, I have asked more and more questions and become more and more proficient. At the same time, I improved my academic performance and turned my pursuit into strength. Finally, I was admitted to the university. When I was in college, my major was public relations and advertising planning, but my girlfriend studied philosophy in another university. So I spent the time of others playing cards writing love letters; Others spend time shopping, and I spend time studying stock investment.
In order to improve the visibility and profundity of love letters and increase the similarity of disciplines, it is inevitable to look through philosophy and sociology and often make "thoughtful" expressions. During my four years in college, I didn't know anything about dancing and playing cards, but I unexpectedly won dozens of award-winning certificates and honorary certificates, which made a boring philosophical academic society lively on campus and mixed with academic elites on campus. After graduating from college, my girlfriend became someone else's bride, but I sent my graduate students to study philosophy. At the beginning of graduate school, because of the rich experience of the community, it was named to form the first school-wide community after the merger of the four universities of Zhejiang University. With the support of the school, organizing ideological forums, publishing academic journals, and organizing social practice in three rural areas, from poster design, forum topic selection to text proofreading, is almost single-handed. While emphasizing the theoretical and advanced nature, the practical effect of the association is not bad, and it has won more than ten honors in the whole country, the whole province and the whole school, and it is also a leader among similar associations in colleges and universities across the country. Thought forum has become a cultural brand of the school. At the hottest time, fans need to be turned on in the classroom in winter, but some students faint because of too many people.
Originally, my mind was full of plans to wait for graduate students to go to rich units and become "part of the people who get rich first" as soon as possible. However, when I graduated, I was reluctant to give up thousands of books that I didn't have time to read when I was studying. As a result, I gave up the enterprise with a basic salary of 70 thousand and chose to be a teacher in the university. The teacher is still very good. He never calls the roll in class, but he has the highest abstinence rate. I teach advertising in college because I want to buy a house and study real estate in my spare time. I published some articles in the newspaper, and as a result, I was invited by the newspaper to participate in the planning and writing of the real estate edition, and became the director of a consulting organization and an insider of real estate. So in the ninth month after I joined the work, my monthly salary exceeded 7000 yuan, which was a big step towards the primary stage of "well-off" in material and spiritual life. Einstein once said that "God does not roll dice". In fact, the proposition that God rolls the dice is valid for personal life. Simply linking life planning with success 1{ is actually the result of poor imagination. In the eyes of those who believe that success is inseparable from great life planners, success is such an inevitable process: First, you can be a poor mountain son who can't even pay tuition fees, or you can be a wage earner who has just struggled at the bottom of the city, but you have made a grand plan for Xiaoji's life and made a lofty wish; Secondly, in the stage of hard work, I showed perseverance and overcame all difficulties, such as hanging a beam on my head and biting a cone, such as humiliation and so on; Finally, the success stage, manifested as millionaires, American passports, doctoral degrees, CEO and so on.
In particular, some biographies of celebrities tell people who are eager for success that great men become great men because they aim high from childhood. If you don't succeed, then the reason is remorse. The reason is nothing more than unreasonable life planning. The winner is that you are not firm enough and don't work hard enough. According to this theory, Li Ka-shing, the richest man in Hong Kong, who seems to be called "Superman", was successful today because of his planning and continuous efforts when he sold plastic flowers in the streets of Hong Kong decades ago. Li Ka-shing's successful history is not the result of long-term life planning, but the result of constantly adjusting its direction and adapting to the times. He started by selling plastic flowers and found investment opportunities in the real estate industry. He invested decisively, captured the infinite business opportunities contained in Hong Kong's port industry, set foot in it quickly, and established an advantage. Later, he invested in high-tech industries such as telecommunications and gained rich returns. His "superman" is that when the opportunity arises, he can seize the historical opportunity of Hong Kong's great development. But the opportunity itself is not what he can foresee. The specific development of Hong Kong in a specific historical period, this contingency factor can not be foreseen by life planning, and can only be prepared by personal learning and adaptability. Emphasizing the life planner, on the one hand, ignores the external opportunities, on the other hand, replaces the key position of people's quality in success with the more subjective and uncertain importance of life planning. The growth history of our generation, which is permeated with life planning, is essentially the shaping history of exam-oriented education.
Life planning under exam-oriented education is such a single and direct route: a good boy in primary school-a top student in a key middle school-a three-good student in a popular major in party member and a key university-a popular professional successful person in society. What is quietly replaced by the seemingly grand and sacred proposition of life planning is precisely the concern for personal quality. As a counter-proposition of exam-oriented education, "quality education" has become another sacred proposition that actually cancels people's quality. When quality is simply planned as a pianist, a painter or a children's writer, it has stifled people's diversity and plasticity under another banner. Faced with the richness and possibility of personal future life, people's imagination is always too poor when making so-called "life planning", so "life planning" has become "drawing land as a prison". For Weber, a great sociologist, in a sense, the first occurrence of Protestant state capitalism can be said to be an accident. Protestants themselves refused to accumulate wealth emotionally. In their life planning, becoming a holy and devout believer of God is the first priority. If the rich want to go to heaven, it is like a camel can't get through the eye of a needle. However, the development of Protestant theory cut off the hope of believers to change the future through piety and promised them an unpredictable future. In order to solve this anxiety about what will happen tomorrow, Protestants worked hard and developed their careers, which eventually contributed to the rise of capitalism. So the whole capitalism has become an unexpected consequence of this state of mental anxiety.
History played a joke on the life planning of Protestants. For most people, life planning and the final real life are two different things. What affects life is not planning, but personal quality. And this quality is the result of subtle influence, it is grown, not planned. In retrospect, I am glad that I was among the poor students when I was a child, and I was not distorted too much by exam-oriented education. My parents didn't ask much of me, and they didn't make a grand blueprint for my personal development. I grew up leisurely and didn't have high ideals for myself. I just read more books and tried more new opportunities, but I inadvertently developed some qualities that are very suitable for social development: the other day in the company, my subordinates showed me the structure of a real estate project. I found that the final building is quite different from the planning drawings. Subordinate explained that planning is for approval, and what kind of house is actually built is two different things. Think about it, too. At that time, the primary school composition was ideal, and several people took it seriously, mainly for the sake of getting a high score in the current composition. The future is created by present actions, and opportunities are not planned. The so-called ideal and life planning, no matter how high, how can we keep up with the rapid changes in this world?
Autumn is so beautiful, the autumn wind blows slightly on the Buddha, making a small sound, like a little girl playing the piano and playing beautiful music for us.
Autumn has come, the leaves on the tree are yellow, and the yellow leaves rest on the tree like birds; Leaves fall in the air like birds, and leaves fall to the ground sparsely like sleeping; There are also pieces that fall to the ground, just like putting a new golden coat on the earth.
But pines and cypresses are different. It is still so green and so high, covered with green gauze clothes, as if standing guard for people. Some are not pine and cypress, but their leaves are also green, giving people an illusion, as if they are still in the hazy spring scenery.
In autumn, rice fields in Huang Chengcheng are like a golden ocean. The sky is blue, like an endless sea. This time is a day that the farmer's uncle has been looking forward to for a long time. This is a bumper harvest day for farmers' uncles. The farmer's uncle will definitely bring a sickle to harvest rice. This joy is beyond words. At this time, the fruit is ripe. Looking at these fruits, my heart and mouth will definitely drool.
In autumn, other flowers have withered, but all kinds of chrysanthemums still bloom so beautifully. Add a lot of color to autumn.
Ah! How beautiful autumn is. Autumn is not only a beautiful garden, but also a beautiful music.
Autumn is not only a harvest season, but also allows us to enjoy the charming scenery. Jinhu Park is like a shining pearl decorated by autumn girl!
When you come to the park, you find that the artificial lake is clearer and the colorful stones at the bottom of the lake are clearly visible. Small fish and shrimp are more lively and lovely. The willows on the shore are more gaunt, and the golden leaves fall one after another, just like groups of golden butterflies dancing in the air. And the holly on the side is still so beautiful and so tall.
The flower beds in the east are whiter. Snow-white chrysanthemums are everywhere, and pink wildflowers are beautiful in them. What do you mean pleasing to the eye? This is it. Look again, there is a vast grassland outside the flower bed. Every grass is so green. Every tree is a perfect work of art. They have different shapes, some are high, some are low, some are thick and some are thin. Pink Anh Hong in the light green makes people feel relaxed and happy. As the saying goes, "Everything is a little red." I think this scene can be shown.
There is a bamboo forest in the southwest, which blocks the sun and is tall and green. A gust of autumn wind blew and the trees rustled. What intoxicating music! This is a song played by nature. Behind the dense bamboo forest is a small ditch. Passing through the ditch, a farmland came into view. Golden rice is slightly curved; The fiery red sorghum opened its mouth; Snow-white cotton burst into laughter. Golden yellow, fiery red and snow white, these three beautiful colors dress up the farmland in autumn!
The park in autumn is really beautiful!
Autumn wind is like a magic pen. Overnight, the rippling forest belt was dyed golden.
Climbing to the top of the mountain and looking down, my eyes are golden. If you look carefully, you will see a piece of red and a piece of green in gold. Red as agate and green as jade. There is also a mirror-level pond at the foot of the mountain, which reflects the beautiful scenery in front of you, especially beautiful.
After going down the mountain, the roadside stall that used to sell watermelons disappeared. Instead, it is a big fragrant and crisp apple and a big pomegranate with a cracked mouth ready to break out of its shell. How cute!
As the saying goes: "One autumn rain is cold, and ten autumn rains need to wear cotton." There is a hint of coolness in the rustling autumn wind. You see, pedestrians on the road have inadvertently put on thick sweaters, coats and some down jackets.
In the field, golden corn brushed like golden sticks, red sorghum ears were like shy little girls, blushing and lowering their shy heads, swaying in the breeze, and soybeans swaying in the wind, playing a chorus of nature in the field.
In the orchard, bright red persimmons hang high on the branches like small lanterns, and the branches look like they are about to break. There are also strings of purple grapes with crystal dew, which glow like crystals in the sun.
I was infected and intoxicated by this golden autumn, ah! I love this bumper harvest and golden autumn.
Time kept flowing forward, the weather gradually cooled down, and the noisy cicada was blown away by autumn, replaced by the whine of crickets in the cracks in the slate under the steps at night. Ah! That lovely autumn has finally come.
Autumn is more prosperous than spring. Spring with flowers and trees is beautiful, but the fruitful autumn colors reveal the joy of harvest. Autumn is more colorful than summer. Although the summer with dense branches and leaves is charming, the autumn colors of golden leaves and green trees are even more refreshing. Autumn is more energetic than winter. Snow-capped winter is lovely, but the golden autumn with fragrant melons and fruits is more colorful. Autumn came to the Woods. From a distance, yellow leaves fall in pairs like golden butterflies. Tired of flying, they landed on my shoulders, head and feet. Brought my thoughts from green summer to golden autumn. As soon as I turned around, another peach leaf fell beside me. I bent down to pick it up and held it in my hand to study it carefully. What a special autumn leaf! It hasn't come yet, it has completely faded, and it still exudes a strong aroma. Autumn came to the orchard, persimmon bent down, bent down, and the branches were about to break. Sister litchi was so fat that she broke her clothes and showed her bulging white belly. Huge apples are covered with branches, showing sweet smiles, or shy or bold. The girl in autumn came to the farmland, and the corn was very happy. It specially changed into a new golden dress, grinning and showing golden teeth. In order to make themselves more beautiful, tomatoes put lipstick on their faces; The potato may have been too excited to break its green mouth and show its yellow tongue. Autumn has come, and the garden has become a paradise for chrysanthemums. They may like this heavy gold and choose to bloom their beauty in autumn. Chrysanthemums come in many colors: yellow, pink, white ... big flowers and curly petals are like a little girl with curly hair. Wandering in the chrysanthemum garden or enjoying a pot of colorful chrysanthemums alone, slowly intoxicated by that fragrance. Autumn brings gold to the earth and cotton-like clouds to the blue sky. Autumn wind, as cool as water, dyed the world yellow with chill.
I like this crisp autumn season!
I like autumn with flowers and leaves and flat chrysanthemums.
I like this unique and splendid autumn scenery.
Autumn is really a harvest season. The sound of lawn mower, children's laughter and adults' laughter are combined into a symphony in autumn. Miss Qiu came quietly, and the golden rice in the field danced in the autumn wind like her long hair. And the green grass, blown yellow by teacher Qiu, put on a golden dress on the earth.
Teacher Qiu also came to the river, and the river was sparkling. Fish play in the water, and sometimes they surface, as if welcoming Miss Qiu. Miss Qiu also came to the orchard, and the fruit trees gave off a burst of fragrance, which made people drool. You see, apples are covered with branches like little red lanterns. Several maple trees beside the fruit trees were blushed by the autumn girl, and the red maple leaves danced in the air like butterflies, as if to say, "Autumn is coming, autumn is coming."
The mountains in the distance were also dyed yellow by Miss Qiu, and at first glance they looked like golden waves.
As the sun sets, the whole earth seems to be painted with colorful pigments, like a huge picture scroll.
Teacher Qiu brought harvest, joy and happiness.
Beautiful sunset scenery
As the sun sets, the earth is bathed in the afterglow of rosy clouds, people walk in the streets in twos and threes, and the evening breeze slowly blows the fragrance of flowers and trees, which makes people relaxed and happy, and makes people see the sun and shine.
A crimson sunset glow shone on the western hills, and large white clouds floated in the blue sky. They are flaming purples in the sunset. If you look carefully, you will see clouds flying in the air, just like in a veiled dream, which will keep you away from troubles.
The fish in the pond return to the deep, and the smoke from the kitchen calls for the children to go hand in hand. The light sound of the sunset kissing the earth separates the day from the night. As a result, those tired birds who devoted themselves to the forest, like poems burned by poets, came back with the blood of the sunset. ...
A refreshing night wind came to my face, as if all the troubles and fatigue were ignored, and every nervous nerve in my body was gradually relieved; On the river wrinkled by the wind, there are layers of ripples, reflecting the deep red light, like a river of red agate, shining brightly; The small bamboo forest in the distance glows with green light, the bamboo leaves are gently shaken in the breeze, and the wind blows the rustling sound of leaves, like singing a beautiful song; The wind in the sky is chasing, teasing and tearing at the clouds.
Looking down, a small river-Xiaobeijiang, the hue of bamboo and the glow of sunset glow add a quiet atmosphere to Xiaobeijiang, and the graceful image of bamboo and the magnificent glow of sunset glow make Xiaobeijiang more cordial in people's hearts; Several small fishing boats came home and drew sparkling water lines on the river.
Sometimes birds fly in mid-air, and sometimes I can hear the crisp and melodious chirping of magpies. At this time, I just woke up from the dusk dream.
The sun went down and the burning sunset gradually dimmed.
In a blink of an eye, the last sunset in the western world has melted into the twilight, and the sky is gradually getting dark. The surrounding mountains show an indigo outline, the twilight is getting thicker and the earth is in chaos.
This is like the ending of a symphony, which is beautiful, but gradually turns into silence, causing endless feelings in people's hearts, paving a layer of touching poetry for the evening on campus: "Lonely smoke in the desert, the long river sets the yen" is its unparalleled majestic momentum; "A setting sun is spreading in the water, and half the river is rustling and half the river is red" is its mature charm; "Love on earth is too late" highlights its tranquility ...
Gradually, gradually, the night came, and the intoxicating dusk still appeared in my mind. The beautiful and charming scenery deeply attracted me: my sight, my spirit, my thoughts ... were immersed in this indescribable "dusk map", and I fell into this inexplicable feeling and could not extricate myself.