Let me tell you why. I'm half from Changsha. My daughter-in-law is from Changsha and has been in Changsha for at least half a year.
First of all, let me talk about the good things in Changsha. Changsha has a long history and not much food. Every time I go to Taiping Street and Wuyi Square, it is full halfway. The scenery is also very good, the living is very comfortable, the house price is low, there are many entertainment facilities and many young people.
Then why did you leave Changsha?
First, the wage level in Changsha is too low, the price level is very low, and the wage level cannot be high. The friends I met in Changsha, except for working in Hunan Taiwan, have a good salary, and other salaries are too low. I have long seen young people like real estate agents advertising in subway stations, and some of them earn only two or three thousand yuan a month. This is not commensurate with Changsha's status.
Second, I love to play. I envy the happiness of Changsha people and Hunan people. I'm not worried about the house price. The first thing I do to make money is to spend money. Let me give an inappropriate example. Everyone knows that betel nut is bad for health, and eating too much is easy to cause big problems in the mouth. However, eat areca, a native of Hunan, is engraved in his bones, feeling a little entertaining to death. I don't care that much. I will finish it first, and then I will drink and smoke eat areca. Of course, young people like this kind of life, but after a long time, they are in poor health and have no money saved. What should they do in the future? Of course, I still envy the mentality of Hunan people. They are happy.
Third, the development is too slow. Changsha has good air quality and little pollution, but its development is too slow. I remember when I first went to Changsha, there was a subway in Changsha, but there was no subway in my city. At that time, there was only the subway rail transit 1 line, which was opened on a bridge and there was no subway. But what about now? We have eight or nine subways here, but Changsha seems to have only two, right? This is just a microcosm of Changsha's development.
Fourth, the horizon is a bit narrow. This is my personal psychological feeling and does not represent my universal values. I didn't preach this idea either. I just want to give an example. I brought many foreign health products and cosmetics to my daughter-in-law's relatives in Changsha. They are not interested in it, but it doesn't matter. The problem is that they also show a sense of contempt, including the situation abroad, and feel that foreign countries are in dire straits. I am also a foreigner for ten thousand years. I don't worship foreign things. I am also very patriotic, but I know that every country has its advantages and disadvantages. It would be totally bad to kill any country with one shot. This is the posture of a frog in a well. I thought only older people would do this, but eating with their peers was still the same. Maybe Changsha is too happy. They think the outside world is definitely not wonderful. In fact, this is not conducive to development, just as they organized a delegation to eat in our city, but insisted on eating Hunan rice noodles and Hunan food.
If a person goes to a foreign country and doesn't taste local food or eat local food, how can it be called a trip? But so many of my friends from other places have come to our place. It is these Hunan people who clamor to take them to eat stinky tofu, rice noodles and Chili fried meat every day. Is this right? I don't know, but it's not good for a person's personality health. If you confine yourself to the immediate things every day, you will soon lose the initiative.
I thought of this for the time being. I love Changsha very much. I like the chic people and pleasant food in Changsha, but Changsha is not a place suitable for young people to live for a long time. Will be addicted, will be lazy, will get used to not forging ahead. Although the diet in Guangzhou is very different from that in Changsha, there are also many people from Hunan who work hard there. You will find that it is not so difficult to get used to going there, but you can get a broader world.
If you have 2 million yuan, you can stay in Changsha. There is nothing wrong with buying a house and a car, and hundreds of thousands can be left for children to spend on education. If you have 5 million yuan and are young and skilled, you can go to Guangzhou, buy a house and a car, and leave hundreds of thousands for your children. Besides, the climate and salary in Guangzhou are higher than those in Changsha. If you don't have anything, go to the cities and counties around Changsha, Zhuzhou and Xiangtan, rent a one-bedroom and one-bedroom apartment in 300 yuan, and get a salary of 3,000 yuan (up to 4,000 yuan) until that day develops.
As a Changsha native, I once had the opportunity to work in a good unit in Guangzhou. At that time, the promise there was also good. Basically, young people in that unit bought a house in Guangzhou a few years later.
However, at that time, the intensity of work in that company was much greater than that in Changsha, and I had to travel for half a month, but I was used to a slow-paced life. In fact, at that time, my sideline business was on the rise, and my salary plus sideline business was inseparable from my unit salary in Guangzhou. If I went to Guangzhou, I might not be able to do my own sideline, so I didn't go.
Then I bought a car and a house in Changsha soon. Of course, at that time, the house price in Changsha was still cheap, but now it has gone up and the house price has turned over. In addition, most of my classmates and parents are locals, so I still like Changsha.
Some students are also in Guangzhou, and now she has automatically become the group administrator of our classmates. She feels atmospheric, fashionable and rich. She will go back to Changsha to meet everyone during the holiday, and she has more knowledge than many students.
But relatively speaking, older people will gradually like Changsha's rhythm, housing prices, human feelings and the city of eating, drinking and having fun. If they are not from Guangzhou, but from Changsha, they will still have nostalgia.
Renting a house does not mean owning your own car and house, and the development of entertainment industry in Changsha now drives the economy, and the future is expected, which is also suitable for the development of young people. In addition, Changsha's basic education industry is very good. If you expect your children to have a good future in the future, the four famous schools are famous all over the country, and staying in the city is also a good choice.
The two cities are almost the same, where is the right place? Changsha has a car, a house and a job. Don't you go to Guangzhou to rent a house and look for a job, and your head is caught in the door.
Changsha is a charming young city. If you want to talk about life, it must be better. Personally, I feel that Guangzhou has begun to enrich, and the pressure of work and life is increasing. Maybe it's good to stay in Changsha and see the development of Changsha, Zhuzhou and Xiangtan.
I think if you get married, you'd better stay in Changsha. You can be closer to home, and Changsha is also good. Aren't all kinds of people fleeing from Beishangguang now? Moreover, Changsha's educational resources are among the best in the country.
If you are still single, it is necessary to go to Guangzhou so as not to regret it when you are old. Finally, it is suggested to choose according to your major and experience, as well as your career planning and dreams.
See where you come from, at what age and at what stage. If you just graduated, you can go to Guangzhou to have a rest. If faced with marriage and children. Let's stay in Changsha. I used to stay in Guangzhou for 4-5 years. /kloc-returned to Changsha 0/0 years ago. With a house and a car and a stable family, it is better to stay in Changsha, and the happiness index is higher.
If you are still young, you can end it and avoid regrets when you are old. If you get married, you should consider the actual situation more.
Dude, there are some things that haven't been fully understood. In the long run, time will tell. Take your time. You need to concentrate.
I left Guangzhou for Changsha, and then I went back to Guangzhou from Changsha.
As a first-tier city, Guangzhou is suitable for almost all ordinary people to work. There are many types of employment, the overall salary is good, and the prices, rents and living costs are not high.
As a new front line, Changsha has great development potential, but its consumption is not low. Although the house price is cheap, renting a house is not cheap and the cost of living is high. Wages are low and high, but the average wage is low.
If you are from Changsha, you'd better stay in Changsha at the age of 30. Changsha's happiness index is still very high, and the pace is not so fast, as long as you find your own position. Development is not difficult.
If you are still young, maybe my experience can give you some advice:
When I was working in Guangzhou, there was a period of heavy workload and great pressure every day, and the whole person was often in a state of collapse and depression. Too much pressure, leading to disorder of work and rest, and suffering from serious stomach problems. Often cry alone at night.
The work itself is stressful, and it is easier to lose control if the leaders don't understand it at work and colleagues don't understand it. I started thinking about things, and I really couldn't hold on for a while. I took a short vacation to adjust myself. But this will not solve the problem after all.
I began to think every day: what am I so busy for? Do I like this job? How long do I have to keep doing this before I can get rid of it? Will my life be like this forever?
I've been thinking about this question for almost half a year. Something just happened that touched the bottom line. I resolutely offered to resign.
After resigning, I spent a month making adjustments, adjusting my schedule and keeping fit. This month, I recalled all the ups and downs in my past work, and I felt: this is a temporary relief. Then I checked my bank card, which was a comfort. I'm not afraid of not working for a year or two.
I have always said that I am luckier than others because I know what I like. According to the previous state, I don't like the fast pace of Guangzhou. So where else can I go?
Changsha is a city that I have been infatuated with for a long time. A long time ago, I thought I had earned enough money and would go to Changsha to buy a house for the rest of my life. It seems that I have to advance my thoughts.
After the Chinese New Year, the whole person was much better, so I packed my bags and went to Changsha.
Going to Changsha was good at first, because everything was full of freshness. But after more than a month, I began to get acclimatized, acne, constipation ... and the whole person fell into a state of depression.
I am lively and talkative by nature. In such a strange environment, without family and friends, I can't get out of the depressed state. I didn't go out at first, and I ordered takeout every day. When you fall, you will also think about how to get out of trouble.
After adjusting my mentality, I feel that this will definitely not work. At least make some new friends. Then I started looking for a job, and I finally found a job with great effort. But after working for a while, I don't want to go to work again. Because I found that my work status was the same as that of Guangzhou, and even my salary was much lower, I felt caught in a very bad infinite loop.
I managed to escape from Guangzhou, only to find myself more unhappy, and I collapsed again.
After staying in Changsha for more than half a year, I still haven't changed my depressed state. Meanwhile, with the encouragement and comfort of all my friends, I decided to return to Guangzhou again.
Like me, my impulsive behavior, which is stressful at work and hard to get over at the moment, is completely out of my situation and has taken an extreme road.
Later, I reviewed my escape from Guangzhou. In fact, anger also has childish elements. In addition, the situation in Changsha is no different from that in Guangzhou, with less company from family and friends. It is even more impossible to stay.
In the final analysis, I think escaping from Guangzhou is escaping from depression. Just like making a decision, you only think of the best result and never consider the worst result.
Finally, a funny story about flying back to Guangzhou from Changsha, a first-tier city in Central China, was staged.
When you are indecisive, think clearly about what you are fleeing from a city for. Ask yourself, is it just a bad job? Are you unhappy with your friends? Not understood by people around you?
But these are things that everyone will experience. Please take it easy.
But if your heart is calm, you know what can make you happy, and you also know what kind of life you will live if you escape from your present state. You can accept good and bad results. Then, you can follow your heart and have a try.
My daughter's boyfriend resigned from a state-owned enterprise last year and went to Guangzhou. He feels very good. From the climate, company atmosphere, interpersonal relationship and personal growth, it is good. The only thing I miss is always wanting to say powder. [Yi tooth] [Yi tooth] [Yi tooth]