Don't license your address book to Tik Tok. So Tik Tok can't increase your attention. Tell each other peacefully and gracefully that they will respect your choice and have a good impression on you. When you refuse others, you must be calm. We must understand that we cannot be above ourselves just because we are being pursued. On the contrary, be generous and decent, not slow. Don't refuse casually, too casually, others will think that you don't attach importance to him, which is easy to cause disgust, and don't refuse in anger, which is easy to hurt others in language and make people feel that you have no sympathy at all. Don't refuse mercilessly. Ruthless refusal means indifferent expression, harsh tone, and there is no room for accommodation, which will make people embarrassed and even turn against each other. Don't refuse bluntly. If you can politely refuse when you really have to, others will be moved by your sincerity. Smile and be solemn when you refuse, so that others can feel your respect and courtesy, and even if you refuse, you can accept it gladly.