But the truth gave me a heavy slap. People are separated. Not every love can reap the expected return, and not everyone is worth loving. The result of loving the wrong person is that while being betrayed by others, you will also be laughed at by the other party for being silly.
As a woman, you must know how to love yourself before you love others. Love others, just like a bird, should choose a good tree to live in, keep your eyes open before marriage, and avoid entering the wrong marriage and falling into the dark abyss.
I once heard of a man? People who have been there? When it comes to choosing a spouse, she talked a lot about her many years of experience, and saw through the cold world, and every sentence was well-intentioned.
She said:? Love is a prerequisite for a woman to choose a husband, but it is not the main thing. Mainly depends on men's nature, can not be blinded by love. If you find that a man falls into these two categories, you must marry carefully. ?
The husband is Ma Baonan.
As the name implies, Ma Baonan, even a man in his twenties and thirties, is still the darling of his mother's little baby.
As an adult man, he does not have the calm and independent thinking ability that an adult man should have. He always does what his mother says, and he doesn't dare or expect any resistance. He is usually Ma Baonan, and he also has a name, called? Giant baby? .
I have heard a saying: marry a wife and don't marry Voldemort, marry a mother and don't marry a baby boy. Marry Voldemort? Wife: Not only did you find a wife, but you also found yourself a disobedient son, that is, his wife's brother.
On the contrary, you married Ma Baonan's wife, not a husband who could shelter you from the wind and rain, but a giant baby who didn't grow up. At the same time, you are on his mother's side in everything, and most of the opening remarks are? My mom said? And most of the endings are? It's my mother after all. ?
What is a normal couple? I think normal couples should do this. Husband will take the initiative to say to her mother-in-law. Mom, this is your daughter-in-law. I will help her more than you in most things in the future. Please understand, after all, you still have my dad and she only has me. ?
This relationship is also the strongest mother-in-law that scholars say? Triangle relationship? Because in the triangle relationship between mother-in-law and husband and wife, mother-in-law must help her husband, that is, help her son. At this time, if the husband does not help his wife, but uses his mother-in-law to suppress his daughter-in-law, then the triangular relationship will inevitably collapse.
If the son helps his daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law continues to develop harmoniously with her mother-in-law, then this triangular relationship will become stronger and stronger.
Who is Ma Baonan's husband? Triangle relationship? Terminator is also the chief culprit of marriage misfortune. No matter how to love each other, as the object of marriage, women should also be cautious.
Husband is a chicken thief.
What is a chicken thief? The characteristic is stingy, regardless of big or small matters, he will haggle over every ounce and be particularly clear about money. Only he can take advantage, there is no possibility of taking advantage. Even in front of the person you love, you always show the appearance of buttoning your clothes, just euphemistically? Diligent housekeeping? .
Kiki had a house before she met her boyfriend, which she bought with all the money in her family. Two bedrooms and one living room, good location. Kiki's parents also have stable jobs, with five insurances and one gold, so Kiki's family is still good.
But Kiki is already a friend when she meets her boyfriend? Old woman? So I haven't known my boyfriend for a few months, and I feel that the other person is nice, humorous and knows how to take care of people, so I have plans to marry him.
When in love, my boyfriend only takes Kiki to parks, lakes and other places, because those places don't cost money, and almost all of them buy things for Kiki. But Kiki doesn't care about this. She thinks that on the one hand, her boyfriend's family is really average, on the other hand, she doesn't care about these, and thinks that as long as her boyfriend is good to her.
When getting married, my boyfriend put forward two choices. One is that Kiki and he are going back to their hometown in the countryside, where there is a ready-made wedding room. The other is to take over her boyfriend's parents and get married at Kiki's house.
Kiki doesn't want to. She knows that it is easy to have conflicts when mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live together. Naturally, she wants to live away from her mother-in-law. And her house, even her parents have never lived, how can she let her in-laws come and live? This is unreasonable.
So for this matter, Kiki had a big fight with her boyfriend, who said Kiki just looked down on him and broke up. A few days later, my boyfriend came back to get back together. He will try his best to discuss marriage in this house and not let his parents come over, which makes Kiki very embarrassed.
To tell the truth, in my opinion, the chicken thief man didn't plan to buy a house from the beginning, and he didn't plan to let his parents come over. Everything is a cover. In order to occupy Kiki's house, Kiki first focused on her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the second best thing was not to let her in-laws come over. It seems that he took a step back. In fact, he took two steps forward before, and every step was taking advantage of Kiki.
If you meet a chicken thief before marriage, you must stay away. If you compromise step by step before marriage, you will be more wronged after marriage. Every step of your cowardly concession will only make the other party bully absolutely and make him feel that it is okay to take advantage of you, and the unfortunate marriage will begin.
Men are afraid of going into the wrong business, while women are afraid of marrying the wrong person. Choosing a husband is also a technical job. Be sure to keep your eyes open and don't get married just to get married. Year? As a unit of computing cooperation, once chosen, it will also be painful? Year? Give it back to you for the unit, even for life.
I once heard a saying:? In this life, people will meet more than 8 million people, greet 40,000 people, be familiar with more than 3,600 people, be close to more than 270 people, and marry 1 people for life. ?
When a woman chooses a husband, she is also choosing the rest of her life for herself. After all, what kind of man gets married basically determines whether a woman will be happy in the second half of her life, so choosing these two is the most taboo. I hope you didn't choose them.
The purpose of marriage is to find happiness. The foundation of happiness is two people who love each other, and love is one.