When you are in trouble, there are not many people who can help you, but when you have interests, all kinds of people come. It's not a loss anyway. But I never want to think about what the loser thinks. For such people, you should block the way forward in time, show your cards in time, and don't always treat others as fools. No one owes you anything, so why feel at ease.
When Yan Mei and Xiao Tao got married, the whole family didn't like them because Xiao Tao was in poor health and Yan Mei's family was poor. They all think that they may divorce in a few months. Even when my mother-in-law gave Yan a red envelope, she said strangely, "There are not many red envelopes, and I don't know how long you will stay in my house."
Xiao Tao was in poor health and couldn't do heavy work, so she found a job as a security guard in the city, but it was too far from home, so she had to rent a house first, and the accommodation was inconvenient. Yan Mei wanted to buy a house in the city.
Xiao Tao goes to work during the day, and Yan Mei goes to the roadside to set up a stall to sell fruit. At first, people around you didn't trust Yanmei very much, and their business was very general. They often worked in vain all day. Later, with the improvement of popularity, Yanmei's business gradually improved. From more than one hundred on the first day to two or three hundred later, she earned nearly ten thousand a month and struggled for a year before she could pay the down payment.
In this way, after a year, Yan Mei and Xiao Tao paid a down payment to buy a house, and then they were in a hurry to decorate it. After six months of ventilation, they moved in.
Just moved in 1 month, my parents-in-law moved in with rice noodles. Yanmei was surprised to see her parents-in-law coming, because Xiao Tao didn't tell her that her parents-in-law were coming. Afterwards, Yan Mei asked Xiao Tao why she didn't tell herself in advance. But Xiao Tao disagreed, thinking that this is his home, and it is normal for his family to come and live.
Yanmei thought that her in-laws would leave soon, but three days later, her in-laws asked her brother and sister-in-law to move in with their two children. Yanmei's family suddenly changed from two to eight, so many people ate, and all kinds of expenses increased obviously.
Yanmei's mortgage is nearly 10 thousand, and the salary of two people is almost moonlight. After two months' persistence, Yan Mei couldn't hold on, so she had a showdown with her mother-in-law. It never occurred to her that her mother-in-law said that rice and flour were brought by herself. Yan Mei also insisted, "Can we just eat rice and flour? Natural gas, water and electricity are all money. We can't afford such a big expense. Either you go or I go. "
Seeing that the daughter-in-law has given the marching orders, the mother-in-law and others are embarrassed to stay here any longer. Although Xiao Tao felt humiliated, he couldn't afford to support this family, so he didn't make up his mind to stay.
Since then, this small family has been calm again. Although they lived a hard life, they finally calmed down.
It is good for a family to live together. It is difficult for a person to win the hearts of hundreds of people, and there will always be many problems. If it is not done properly, it may lead to war at home. When it's time to separate, especially after the children get married, it can save a lot of trouble to live independently. With the distance, they are closer to each other.