In the last two days, I never forget to go to the street community for the second time (about 300m from my current residence) to see the house.
I climbed up secretly from the construction opening on one side. The building is 17 stories high. Climbed to the ninth floor without an elevator. I carefully checked the room layout and outdoor landscape in all directions, took photos and recorded videos.
The residential area has not yet opened for sale, and the explanation of the property consultant is the same as last year: because there is no pre-sale certificate, it is impossible to see the house on the spot and it cannot be sold.
At this time last year, the community was still in full swing to build the main body. My wife and I went shopping and were attracted by the location and apartment type of the house.
1- Location of the house, located on the central axis of the new district, with the city gymnasium, business transaction area, government office area, garden-style international hotel and urban wetland park in turn in the north and south, theaters, libraries and cultural centers in the west and key middle schools in the east.
The exit on the west side of the community is Zhonghuan Road, and the west side of the road is the urban water system landscape, which runs through the north and south. Looking west from the upstairs of the community, you can see the panoramic view of the water system (the nearest house is about 50 meters away). )
The geographical location can be said to be unique, not to mention the advantages. Driven by curiosity, it is best to look at the existing house.
2- Due to construction reasons, no house can be seen at the site.
But eager to see the house, I found acquaintances and my wife and adults to "visit". At that time, due to the construction network, the line of sight from the inside to the outside of the house was limited, and most of them were covered, but the basic units had a sense of existence, especially the small pool area, which was incomparable to other communities.
In this way, after seeing the house, I once calculated the possibility of buying a house economically, and my heart was hot for a long time.
3- the motivation to look at the house
Very simple, there are the following points:
1) At present, the window of my son's bedroom is relatively small (about 80cmX wide and 120cm high), 5 meters north of the front of Nanyang Terrace. After opening the window, the air circulation is not good and the indoor light is dark.
This was the main consideration at that time.
2) At present, there are three rooms and two halls, and there is no public study. The residential area is four bedrooms and two halls, with the bedroom and living room facing the sun and the study on the north side. At that time, the idea was to set up computers in the public study, and everyone took turns to use them (especially children learning English).
3) The geographical location of the community is superior.
At present, the residential area is a school district, located in the surrounding primary and secondary schools, which is the focus and a better residential area around. The linear distance from the community to the primary school is about 1 km, and the linear distance to the middle school gate is about 1 km. (No boasting here, only for analysis)
The big house is comfortable, with beautiful environment and superior location. How many people can resist?
1- My wife used to be as upset as I was (at that time-when I looked at the house last year, the unit price was around 9500. )。
2- Later, the wife's mentality tends to be dull (now that the house price has doubled, the community will be several thousand higher than the highest price around).
3- With the present financial resources and ability, it is not supported to change rooms.
At present, we should not give priority to our own enjoyment, but should pay attention to the success of our children. It is necessary to set aside all kinds of expenses for the daughter to go to college in five years and the son's future studies.
5- At present, the economic pressure has eased, and I just want to relax. If I take on a large amount of debt again, my daily life will be affected, especially the opportunities for children to go out to play and train will be reduced, and the development of knowledge and skills outside of study will be limited.
6- If you have spare money, you can consider changing rooms.
7- It's not that you don't know what you can do.
1- Opportunities and environment can promote the development of abilities.
The original intention of buying a school district in the city was to let children go to a better school. At present, children's performance is excellent, which is inseparable from opportunities, environment and ability to play.
2- Early awareness and implementation can bring relatively "high quality" results.
In 2009, because children went to school to buy a house; 13 years, because it is inconvenient to go upstairs and downstairs, the elevator room was changed. Now house prices are soaring and assets are rising. If you buy a house today, it is beyond your current financial ability.
From the above two points, it is wise to look back at the motivation and practice of making up your mind to buy a house.
3- Re-analyze the motivation of looking at the house today
1) What is the house?
The problem of children going to school has been solved, and the appeal of the elevator has also been solved. What is the purpose of looking at the house again?
Four rooms and two halls? High-level vision The small garden upstairs? Surrounding public buildings? Comfort, lighting and air permeability of children's bedroom? Or investment? Or for the satisfaction of vanity?
2) Do you still agree with the feelings of your comrades?
The sentiment of comrades-in-arms is well said: under normal circumstances, financial resources and ability are positively related.
Others say that when your ability can't support your desire, trouble will come as promised.
Just a few days ago, I talked to my comrades about a happy attitude. At that time, my comrades-in-arms said that with the increase of desire, my troubles will also increase, and I will do subtraction for myself in this life. The general idea of replying to comrades-in-arms is: no matter how much you pursue, as long as you can achieve inner pleasure or satisfaction, you can better treat more and less, gains and losses.
3) Desire attribution
These seemingly peaceful mind cultivation, or the acquisition of normal mind, are closely related to the change or determination of personal values, social views and outlook on life.
4) Solve the traditional culture
When we encounter a problem that we can't let go for a while, it is a way to solve it externally and also a way to solve it internally.
Personal understanding at present: In the traditional culture of China, Taoism is mainly based on "governing by doing nothing", and advocates conforming to nature and the correspondence between man and nature. Confucian culture pursues self-cultivation, keeping the family in order, governing the country and leveling the world, advocates personal cultivation and makes contributions. Buddhism pays attention to the birth or cultivation of the spirit, and it is necessary to do the work of joining the WTO. Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism, in the final analysis, is a road.
But in any case, the three schools have never destroyed the original intention of the social unit "home" since ancient times, and reached the extreme in Confucianism, that is, Qijia. (As a social governance structure, the family is not included in this discussion. )
5) Analyze again
Combine traditional culture, and then analyze the motivation of looking at the house.
A. If you want to have a good time, can you put it off until the parties are ready or the financial resources are loose? After all, at present, for families, it is not appropriate to focus on their own enjoyment (subtraction for themselves), but on their children's studies. Because material enjoyment is not one's own values. As for the light or ventilation in the children's bedroom, it can be improved by room layout. (flexible)
Moreover, without a perfect house, no matter how good the house or environment is, aesthetic fatigue will occur after a long time. (changing mood)
B, fiscal revenue has remained stable in recent years, although there are many breakthroughs, but there is no change at present. The current financial income does not support buying a house again. In other words, ability cannot support desire. (Do your best)
Although life has infinite possibilities, there is no possibility of financial support at present. )
C, desire, can be used as the driving force of continuous efforts, but should not be obsessed with desire, can not extricate themselves.
This is also a life practice of "not sticking to one phase, not sticking to one place". The truth learned is valuable only if it is applied to practice.
D, the establishment of a peaceful mentality is not a temporary feeling, but also pay attention to the twists and turns and changes brought about by environmental changes. At this time, you will unconsciously apply your feelings, such as "not sticking to one side, not sticking to one place." Otherwise, it will break the inner peace, and then calm your mind from the beginning, which will take time and effort and delay your life.
E, take continuous progress as the first priority of self-study and apply it to practice. Use actual income to verify the insights or experiences gained.
The above is my own record of the cause and effect of this house. Writing is not only thinking, but also verifying your perception of life.
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