Don't stifle children's play nature.
Jiao Xin, a senior middle school teacher in pingdu city Development Zone, was successfully elected in the second "Top Ten Teaching Fathers" organized by Qingdao Women's Federation. His daughter is in the sixth grade in the experimental school of Development Zone. In her eyes, he is a gentle father. Recently, the reporter interviewed Teacher Jiao and asked him to talk about the practice and experience of educating children and share it with parents.
Set an example and be a role model for children.
"The first is to set an example and let the children have a good example." When a researcher at the China Youth Research Center asked about his father's role in the family, Jiao's answer was responsibility. Jiao believes that parents should be role models and intimate friends of children's character, and parents should read and write with their children. Only when parents study hard can children make progress every day. Father's position in children's hearts is an umbrella, a hero and an example for them to learn. "In normal times, we insist on doing things honestly, being friendly to others, never slacking off on our own career, and making a mirror for our children in all aspects."
"Children are the epitome of family life, and family edification plays an extremely important role in cultivating children's good moral behavior." Teacher Jiao introduced that in order to cultivate children's study habits, in his daughter's first year of kindergarten, he got up early every day to study and prepare lessons, and did exercises at night to let her know that his parents attached importance to learning. Teacher Jiao said that her daughter was elected as the squad leader in all grades of primary school, and she also served as a sports committee member, health committee member and class representative for some time.
Chat with my daughter every day.
Having a heart-to-heart conversation with children can help parents understand their children's ideological trends in time, help them learn to correctly handle the problems they encounter in life, and at the same time convey their experiences and ideas to their children more accurately. "This is a good way for parents to communicate with their children and confide in each other." Teacher Jiao said: "Children often have their own ideas. If they can't communicate with their children in time and effectively, they can't understand the problems they encounter on their growth path. " So he goes home every day and talks to his children for a while. During this time, he will listen to children's stories like stories. Through the conversation, he learned that the head teacher in the children's class has changed, and her new English teacher is very serious. Children don't like learning society because they can't remember the time and year ... It sounds trivial to listen to their children every day, but listening to their voices makes them willing to express their thoughts and opinions. Parents, like friends, point out the advantages and disadvantages of their children, which plays a very important role in their growth.
At the same time, Teacher Jiao attaches great importance to cultivating children's hobbies and giving them room for free development. "In addition to normal study, children should also have a wide range of hobbies and interests, so that their lives will be colorful." Teacher Jiao told reporters that her daughter is now among the best in her class, and she is excellent at singing, dancing, reading, painting and guzheng. In the exhibition competition of the 20th Primary and Secondary School Art Festival in Qingdao on 20 10, her dance "Playing Boys" won the first prize in Qingdao. 20 10 won the Excellence Award of Dance Quartet in Qingdao Youth Dance Recitation Model Competition, and won the prize in English Recitation, Chinese Composition and Painting Competition held in pingdu city. "Today's children are basically only children. Apart from going to school, there is little time to play with children at other times. Playing is children's nature. If the child's nature is artificially stifled, it will cause many psychological problems for the child, either withdrawn or arrogant. " Teacher Jiao said that she would try her best to let her daughter get in touch with children and play with other children on weekends. "Now some parents design beautiful ideals into their children's hobbies, demanding to achieve specific goals, which are utilitarian and vain, but they have become a burden for children."
Have regular activities with children.
"Through children's activities, children can learn to express, learn to communicate and increase their interest in activities, including various activities, such as traveling, reading, games and so on." Teacher Jiao said that when he was studying in the evening, his daughter was often alone at home. In order to dispel her fears, he and his wife bought many cartoons for their children and played them all night until they got home. Children have formed the habit of reading picture books invisibly.