Then what is cold reading? Cold reading is to make you guess each other's psychology without knowing each other at all. For example, as soon as you meet a girl, you can tell her personality characteristics, and she will instantly think that you know her too well and become interested in you.
Just like fortune telling, fortune tellers always seem to hit the nail on the head. In fact, you can also have such superb skills as a fortune teller, because these abilities come from psychology. Don't contradict me yet, you can look at the person on the overpass who can't even take care of his own life and even tell your fortune. And some people really believe, so when you keep a normal heart and think I can do it, just follow me step by step!
First of all, you should realize that many people will have different feelings, especially girls. It is true that everyone has their own unique side, but the * * * between them is far greater than personality, so we only need to sum up the general psychology of most women, so most of them will believe what you say, because women want their unique conceit to blind the facts, and they basically won't realize that you describe them with the summarized * * *. But these summarized characteristics need some skills to better fit each other's characteristics and make her feel that these descriptions are unique.
The first skill: ambiguity. You can apply two completely opposite qualities to her. We must first have a main direction, and then the more vague the description, the more profound it will be. In addition, a woman's brain function is very powerful, so when you describe it vaguely, she can make up many details for her brain and think that you told her these details. In fact, we should combine the psychological suggestion skills behind.
So let's look at an example. You can tell her what you are on the one hand and what you are on the other. For example:
"You have an innocent smile like a little girl, but I can see from your eyes that you also have a complicated side inside."
Or you can say that sometimes you are like that, and sometimes you are the opposite. For example:
"When I miss you, I dare not take risks, for fear of shooting myself in the foot, so you usually don't have the courage to try new things, but sometimes you are adventurous, and I think this is the real you."
There is another way to tell her what your outside is like and what your inside is like, such as:
"You look strong on the outside, but I feel that your heart is very sensitive and fragile."
In order to deepen trust, you can also tell some stories to show that you are such a person, so as to strengthen the sense of connection between the two of you. In addition, in order to make these words more true and reliable, you can also give some examples, such as her body language, dress style or formal style, such as:
"You look lively, but you still suppress your emotions. I say this because you like to cross your hands when standing, which is a defensive posture. You don't like uncertain things and are afraid that others will enter your inner world. "
The second skill: If your cold reading is properly expressed and conforms to her current words and deeds, she will be happy to accept your point of view and think that you are really a special person. The source of these abilities must be based on your understanding of her and your meticulous observation, which is what I will talk about next. Never say the same thing to a girl, even if you just pay attention to them and give your own judgment according to the actual situation, then they will be curious and fond of you.
Of course, for a beginner, my suggestion is that you need to prepare some cold reading conventions that can be used at any time, but this does not mean that you should use the same cold reading for everyone. The purpose of writing so many cold reading conventions is to let you know something about a woman in order to choose the best cold reading for her. Here are some examples:
"You want to be liked, and your desire to be recognized is still strong."
"You like a certain degree of change and freedom. If you are constrained and restricted, you will be dissatisfied."
"Sometimes you are too strict with yourself, and sometimes you enjoy being busy."
"Once you like each other, sometimes you will force yourself to meet his expectations."
"You have regretted your decision. Every time you hesitate about your decision, you are worried about whether your decision is right or wrong."
The best time to use the cold reading method is actually when you build comfort, that is, when you have met several times before, because you can get to know her accurately and deeply through a short meeting, then she will think that you are a deep man and begin to wonder why you can know her so well. For example, chatting with you on the first date:
"You know what? I know from the way you speak that you are actually a person who understands the world with your own feelings. "
Then she will instantly feel that you are really deep and begin to wonder why you know her so well, but in fact, this sentence makes sense to 99% women. If she has to ask you the reason, you can tell her that you are a very emotional person, because you often add "I think" and "I think" when you speak. To tell the truth, how many women in the world are insensitive?
However, I have to remind you not to rely too much on cold reading. It's not everything. No matter how you use it, it is not the most critical and important point in your relationship with girls. Although cold reading is effective, it must be used in a timely and moderate manner.
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