On the question of staying in a hotel, did you ask the person at the front desk which room to stay in and tell you?
The formal practice is that the front desk should first check the information of the guests you reported, such as name, ID number, check-in date, etc. After the inspection, the front desk and in-house guests confirm whether to meet the guests. If the hotel guests don't want to see it, they should keep it confidential and can't disclose the information of the hotel guests casually. Of course, the front desk staff should also pay attention to language skills when refusing tourists' requests.