I often see men talking about women's material things on the Internet, but not all women are material. In fact, most women are still very good.
If a woman pursues material things, as long as she has enough money after being with him, she won't care if that man really loves her or goes to find another woman.
On the contrary, women pursue feelings. As long as a man gives a woman enough love, she won't look down on him because he has no money now, let alone leave him.
What I'm afraid of is that some men can't give women the basic material living conditions and love enough. They also need women to take the initiative to understand themselves, support themselves and tolerate their playboys and lies.
To tell the truth, what such a man wants is not a wife at all, but a fool who has no thoughts and is at his mercy, a free labor force without thoughts.
Fangfang and her boyfriend are college classmates. For love, Fangfang and her boyfriend went to the same city after graduation. They rented a small house of 15 square meters from an aunt as their foothold in this city.
With a place to live, they packed their bags and began to look for jobs everywhere. After they kept submitting resumes, they finally found a job.
But my boyfriend resigned in less than two months on the grounds that his major was not right and his salary was low. Now is the entrepreneurial craze, and my boyfriend has gradually sprouted the idea of starting a business.
As both of them are design students majoring in fine arts, her boyfriend and Fangfang discussed whether they could open a photography studio to help people take pictures and follow up.
After thinking about it, they changed to a bigger house in the suburbs, bought some pieces of cloth as the background, bought some ornaments as props in the flea market, and made the room a simple studio.
After the photography studio opened, there were some guests one after another because the price was relatively cheap. When I was too busy, my boyfriend told Fangfang that it would be great if someone helped me.
In order to support her boyfriend, Fangfang quit her job, and they bought two old notebooks to repair film, a second-hand camera and lens. Their business has officially started.
Although a lot of things are old and the food is not good at ordinary times, instant noodles are basically the staple food, but Fangfang is still full of hope for the future.
But Fangfang gradually found that her boyfriend always avoided herself when chatting. Sometimes my boyfriend is sending a message, and he will put away his mobile phone as soon as Fangfang comes over.
Fangfang had a bad feeling in her heart, but she forced a smile and asked her boyfriend what he had done and even hid something from herself.
Although every time her boyfriend talks about the price with a customer, Fangfang tells her intuitively that it is definitely not as simple as her boyfriend said.
But Fangfang's love for her boyfriend made Fangfang confused and made Fangfang not want to reverse right and wrong. Fangfang decided to trust her boyfriend.
However, Fangfang's trust did not get the result she expected. Boyfriends love chatting with people more and more, and even often leave the work of film repair to Fangfang. In order not to delay the filming time of guests, Fangfang often stays up late to fix films.
Fangfang, who was getting more and more uneasy, decided to see what her boyfriend was doing and why she looked so busy every day, but she didn't have much money. Their lives are still very embarrassing.
But Fangfang began to follow her boyfriend privately, which is not bad. As soon as she checked, she was shocked. Her boyfriend was ambiguous with some female customers and even took photos for free.
Fangfang couldn't tolerate her boyfriend's betrayal and asked him to question her, but her boyfriend said that taking pictures for free was a means to attract customers, which made even children afraid to lie.
After Fangfang threw out the ironclad evidence of her boyfriend's betrayal, her boyfriend first paused, and then began to apologize to Fangfang, saying that she was possessed by ghosts at that time, and only Fangfang was her favorite.
Fangfang, who is mentally clean, can't tolerate her boyfriend's betrayal and resolutely leaves. When my boyfriend couldn't keep Fangfang, he began to talk about their experiences of suffering together, hoping to impress Fangfang with emotion. Fangfang hesitated for a while and finally left.
Later, my boyfriend came to Fangfang several times, but Fangfang didn't go to see him. This time Fangfang is determined to break up with her boyfriend. Fangfang didn't expect her boyfriend who gave everything to be so miserable.
Fangfang thought that things had passed, but what Fangfang didn't expect was that her depressed boyfriend was furious when he saw Fangfang was hopeless.
My boyfriend began to say that Fangfang worships money and can't share joys and sorrows with herself. He also said that Fangfang is with a rich man. A woman can't even hold her boyfriend, but she is selfish and loves herself.
Fangfang never dreamed that her boyfriend, who looks gentle, actually slandered herself so much after breaking up. It's an ungrateful gentle scum.
When did I become a gold digger? Boyfriends don't talk about material things, and they don't even have the basic material basis for love. But I decided to quit my job and start a business with my boyfriend, in exchange for her ruthless betrayal and slander.
Boyfriend can't give himself enough love, and he can't give him a basic material life foundation, and he has to tolerate his bottomless lies and playboy.
Fangfang thinks that a boyfriend really shouldn't find a girlfriend, but should find a fool who can retouch pictures.
Here, we should also advise women not to easily put their happiness and life on another person at any time.
For women, independence is the guarantee of your life happiness. When you are no longer attached to others from the inside out, you will have a new understanding of life.
Instead of guarding love carefully every day, for fear that the other person will leave you, it is better to strive to improve yourself. When your heart is strong enough, a sense of security will naturally fill your heart.
Japanese anime master Miyazaki Hayao once said:
"Don't rely on someone easily, it will become your habit."
"When parting comes, what you lose is not someone, but your spiritual pillar. Learning to walk independently anytime and anywhere will make you walk more calmly. "
Therefore, women should learn to be independent and not let dependence become a habit. Independence is a skill that everyone should learn, and hard work is also a good medicine to cure pain.