Recently, Wang Hao, a graduate student in Tongji University, was missing for a week, which attracted attention. 65438+ 10 15, the screenshot sent to the reporter by Wang Hao's brother Wang Feifei showed that Wang Hao left a message "I am so tired and tired, and my parents will give it to you later." After the message, he said that there was finally no pressure, and later he made his brother disappear. After Wang Hao's brother went to Shanghai to find someone, he found Wang Hao's girlfriend and other students at school. Through inquiry, he learned that Wang Hao may have made such a move because of the pressure of graduation thesis and job hunting.
Coincidentally, not long ago, a story was born that "studying abroad cost 2 million yuan, and the salary for returning home was only 1300". Xiaoxiao (pseudonym), a Jinan girl who went to Australia to study, was admitted to Queensland University of Science and Technology after finishing her undergraduate course, studying for a master's degree in communication.
Originally thought that "going abroad with a layer of gold plating", the result backfired. Xiaoxiao went abroad for five years and spent about 2 million on tuition and living expenses. In terms of salary, he wants to "return to Beijing", but it is not less than an astronomical figure.
Xiaoxiao can only sell the small courtyard near Daming Lake, the tuition fee is about 2 million, but the internship salary is only 1300 yuan after returning to China! It is hard to imagine that the internship has risen to 13000 in a few months. There is a serious deviation between input and return, and the cost performance is completely out of proportion. How can I not be deeply confused? It will be concluded that it is much easier to find a job after graduating from doctoral studies.
There are also 85-year-old graduates who require a bachelor's degree or above in hot pot recruitment, doctoral candidates who apply for university doormen, and health bureaus that recruit dung workers with a bachelor's degree, including outrageous news such as 985 people selling pork.
It can be seen that no matter how much wages a foreign turtle or a local turtle can get, it ultimately depends on the real thing. Even if you have a doctorate, you can't make money for your boss. You can only be a stepping stone to familiarity. Finally, don't say that the work pressure is high, and sooner or later it will be eliminated by the boss.
What makes the jade burning of these favored children go unnoticed? Is it really too much pressure or inability?
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Xiao Ming is a master of a famous American university. After graduation, he arranged various trips to Europe. After returning home, he had a leisurely time. It never occurred to him that he might not find a job.
In the autumn of September, he hurriedly translated his previous English resume. Because the senior brothers and sisters said that those positions were good, he invested in many positions in product operation, data analysis and strategy research. But I didn't expect that the resume screening was inexplicably hanged in the middle, and then the written test was hanged in the middle. He was interviewed by several companies, but the interviews were not satisfactory.
He started to invest in real estate, banks and computers ..... Finally, he took the national civil service examination, and basically all the positions that were ok were voted for. After a few months, he probably went to thirty or forty interviews, with an average of three or four days. I have to take the high-speed train to the interview. But after so many interviews, there are few interviews, let alone offers.
Xiao Ming has submitted dozens of resumes, and every interview is a "grinding". When interviewed, the other party said rudely: "We have received a lot of resumes for studying abroad. Besides, what are your advantages? "
In another scene, the interviewer frowned: "Are you 26 years old and have no work experience?"
In another scene, the other party announced: "Our basic salary is not high, 2000 yuan, and the rest depends on performance commission.
Am I studying for a fake master's degree? Xiao Ming is very confused ... countless questions and setbacks torment Xiao Ming and make him doubt the beginning of life.
After that, Xiao Ming had to turn to a public relations company. Through personality evaluation and professional anchor model test, it is found that he not only studied under internationally renowned professors, but also participated in a consulting project during his internship and was a member of the consulting team of a super-first-tier city government.
Based on his experience, the tutor comprehensively combed the highlights and logic of his resume, combed many key abilities such as data analysis, project management and process optimization, re-planned and positioned his delivery, customized more than 20 work lists every week, adjusted his resume according to different delivery directions, and conducted several rounds of industry knowledge lectures and interview counseling.
At the beginning of February of 65438+, Xiao Ming finally got the first Offer in autumn. It is said that her resume invitation rate has increased by 70%.
In fact, many students didn't find jobs in the autumn recruitment, not because they were "not good enough", but because they didn't know their own advantages, employment standards and interview skills.
Some people say, "Opportunity is like a thief. It came quietly, but after we left, we suffered heavy losses. If you want to avoid losses, you must seize the opportunity. "
What brings advantages to international students is the accumulated experience and ability behind this identity. If you don't take it seriously and have no clear goals and personal advantages, you will be slapped by reality.
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The 265438+20th Century Business Herald once conducted a survey on the salary of returned overseas students. According to the survey, among the respondents who have studied abroad, 30% have a monthly salary of 6,000 yuan or less, and 23% have a monthly salary of 6,000-8,000 yuan. In other words, more than 50% of them get their first salary of less than 8,000 yuan per month after studying abroad.
The starting salary of international students is high. For enterprises, the cost of recruiting a returnees is much higher than that of domestic students. If domestic students can do the same job, enterprises will not choose returnees.
Moreover, many returnees have their own positioning errors and low vision. They want to be more challenging before they settle down in a position, which is also the main reason why many HR are unwilling to recruit returnees.
As time goes on, the advantages of international students will gradually lose. After about 3-5 years, if the returnees still have no achievements in the workplace, they will be exactly the same as domestic students, and the advantages of studying abroad will basically disappear.
Parents and students studying abroad should have a rational attitude, and don't blindly follow the trend and study abroad for gilding. There should be no idea that it is not easy to study in domestic universities, but it is easy to get into foreign universities. Don't be blind when studying abroad. Students should have a clear understanding of themselves and a clear goal. If you choose to study abroad because of poor academic performance and want to avoid the college entrance examination, parents and students are advised to think twice.
We should treat the common phenomenon of studying abroad blindly calmly and make our own study plan, and study hard at home and abroad. Consciously feel that you can't bear the money and time spent studying abroad!
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How about seeing Si Qi? See Si Qi for introspection. The secret of life struggle is to manage your own strengths. Managing your strengths can add value to your life, while managing your weaknesses will inevitably devalue your life.
As a professional writer and speaker, Mark Twain has achieved great success and is famous all over the world. You may not know that Mark Twain stumbled and suffered a lot when he tried to become a businessman.
Mark Twain invested in the development of typewriters, and finally lost $50,000 and got nothing. Mark Twain saw that publishers made a lot of money by publishing his works. He was not convinced and wanted to make this money, so he started a publishing company. However, business and writing have nothing to do after all, and Mark Twain soon got into trouble. This short business experience ended in the bankruptcy of the publishing company, and the writer himself was in debt crisis.
After two blows, Mark Twain finally realized that he had no business talent, so he gave up the idea of doing business and began to tour the country. This time, the humorous Mark Twain completely lost the mess in the shopping mall and found his feeling again. In the end, Mark Twain paid off all his debts through his work and speeches.
Shorter feet and longer inches. We should make good use of our strengths and weaknesses, but we should try our best to avoid our weaknesses and shortcomings. The trick of life is to make use of our advantages. All successful people determine and stick to their own life direction according to their own strengths, and succeed as they wish. Stick to your own leading direction, stand the test of all kinds of temptations, and don't go with the flow.
Smart people can often display their talents and advantages to the maximum extent, thus having eternal charm. There is a famous saying: "If the baby is misplaced, convenience is a waste."
Life is not a winning or losing game. What the boss always needs is the elite, white cat and black cat. A cat that catches mice is a good cat.