At first, she put her family first. In order to let her daughter Yu Wei not lose at the starting line, she jumped to send Wei Yu in? Upscale? Kindergarten, let her receive elite education. Still groveling? Wife circle? Other parents in the school are all dead and white, trying to curry favor and befriend. I worked hard and my family didn't stop, and I was finally killed. Wife circle? A humiliation.
Now, Zhang has figured it out. She turned down Sue's proposal of marriage and the opportunity to go to Europe for a better education. He said that a confident and excellent mother is the best education for her children.
In addition to children's education, Zhang also greatly improved his attitude towards the third child.
At first, she was like this? Bitch? Similarly, it is understandable not to leave face to anyone. After all, no woman will tolerate the appearance of people who hurt her feelings. But her crazy behavior, not only failed to restore feelings, but also let her husband maintain it? Weak? The third child.
Later, she met the man who ruined her family. She doesn't talk much, just looks on coldly, whether in public or in private, and is arrogant? Enemy? Be ashamed of yourself.
In the process of these changes, Lizzie and Yuan Huizhong can be said to be her life teachers, but the latter is obviously more important. In a word, Zhang pushed off two wedding rings. Then, let's take a look at the life lessons of the two mentors!
It is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish. When Zhang encounters difficulties, he always rushes to the front without saying a word. When Zhi Zhi's mother-in-law was seriously ill in hospital, Lizzie immediately took out her bank card and helped to pay 30,000 yuan for the operation. Afterwards, Zhang and Liu Yang were very grateful. However, this incident directly led to Liu Yang being dismissed by the company, thinking that he accepted benefits during the bidding period.
Knowing that Zhang wanted to change jobs, he suggested that Zhang could accept it, and taught Zhang how to be a salesman in the strictest way and in the shortest time. Therefore, Zhang also boarded the company's list of outstanding employees.
As the old saying goes:? Give people fish for three meals; Teach people to fish for life? . The truth that everyone has heard is actually very simple. Fish is the purpose, and fishing is the means. A fish can solve temporary hunger, but it can't solve long-term hunger. If you want to have fish to eat forever, you must learn how to fish.
Zhang's monthly income is 6000 yuan. In addition to her daily living expenses, she has to provide a house to support her daughter and cope with serious illness. She can't live with others forever? Begging? Life. If you want to change the status quo, you must have a skill. Yuan Huizhong gave Cecilia Cheung fishing skills, while Lizzie only gave her a fish.
? Empty talk? Never better than? Work hard? Lizzie always said that? Women should have their own careers? So she once advised Zhang to go to the sales department. However, this sentence has just been finished. After Zhang refused, his life remained the same. He never thought about how to let Zhang have his own career.
But Yuan Huizhong did it. After Zhang was fired, she silently recommended a job for Zhang. That's it? Manager Zhang? Debut.
There is an article in the junior high school textbook called "Mr. Wen Yiduo's words and deeds", which may be remembered by everyone. ? Say and do? What a cliche. Empty talk and hard work? It's just an episode in this big tune.
Some people just talk and don't do it, as if they were born to be advertising spokespersons, talking eloquently and eating by mouth. During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, such people were definitely war lobbyists. Some people just say nothing, just like a dumb cow, pushing a mill and pulling a plow, and never making a sound except breathing. There are not many people in these two extremes, but they are both finishing? Women should have their own careers? On this banner, Lizzie and Yuan Huizhong are just two extremes.
It's easier to be a lighthouse if you have life experience. Persuade or not? On this matter, Lizzie and Gu Xiaoling had an argument. Think that Zhang's idea should be respected, but insist that it should be? Divorce? . But no matter what Lizzie said, Cecilia Cheung didn't really make up his mind. How should women live? How should a woman balance her family and career? These answers can't be found in Lizzie, because Lizzie himself has never been married.
However, just a short conversation made Zhang determined to stay away from marriage.
Zhang:? Is it difficult for you to be foggy alone? ?
Yuan Huizhong answered without hesitation:? Of course. ?
Zhang:? Have you ever thought about getting back together with Meng Meng's father or marrying someone else? ?
Yuan Huizhong:? You think it's easier for two people to live than one. Nothing is easy for ordinary people like us. Since it's all so difficult, let's choose the one that gives us the greatest return. ?
Zhang asked:? What is the highest reward? ?
Yuan Huizhong:? Be a strong self. Remember, we can lose everything except ourselves. ?
Compared with Lizzie at the beginning, he was both depressed and hated iron not to produce. Every word of Yuan Huizhong is not heavy, but every word is full of heartfelt words. Because Yuan Huizhong himself is a living example. When she divorced, the child was the same age as Yu Wei, and now she is still alone, and she is the sales director of Lubao.
Therefore, Zhang Zhizhi gained practical strength from Yuan Huizhong, and only Yuan Huizhong can really make Zhang Zhizhi push off two wedding rings and embark on the road of self-reliance.
In fact, from personal ability to life experience, Lizzie is slightly inferior to Yuan Huizhong. If it weren't for Pan's total strength, there would be no chance to compete with him. Are you online? Life coach? In this position, Yuan Huizhong's experience and present situation are more convincing, and his method is proper, so he is naturally superior to Lizzie. what do you think?